Wladi Montoya

In 2020 I found after a breakup that showed me I wasn’t nearly the partner I thought I was.

I had been lying to myself, pretending I was so satisfied with my relationship in all these areas.

When in reality I was so unfulfilled, specially in the bedroom…and so was she.

Can you believe I had never asked my partners, “what are you into OR how do you like it?”

So in 2022 I enrolled myself and my girlfriend at the time into Something More event (back then called My K|nky Valentine), and since then I never looked back.

I came out of Something More having practiced and learned how to truly be in tune with others, how to use play as a means for exploration with my girlfriend, and more importantly, I felt free to be more me which carried to every single area of my life.

I am always thankful for the part of me that listened to the voice that said “push your edges and go have fun, it doesn’t have to be all “work”.

421 days until I turn 40. Using it as a goal marker and giving myself the gift of healthier living 😎

Thankful for keeping me accountable during this season 💪🏽

With Love & Strength,

Wladimir

Spent a good chunk of time with my mom at the springs for her birthday. So lovely.

My mom came from a lot of hardship and poverty. She doesn’t know how to complain about anything, she only knows love. That’s her secret to staying young, find what you love and pour into it day and out forever.

Feliz cumpleaños madre. Eres la mejor que hay. Te amo! 💙