09/15/2026
I have a problem with gratitude when it starts sounding like “just focus on the positive.”
Yeah…no. This is not how our own human emotion works.
You can be fantastically grateful for your life and still be pi**ed off about parts of it. You can appreciate what you have and want something to change. That doesn’t have to make you ungrateful. And, sometimes…Things. Just. Suck. We don’t need to stamp the word “gratitude” over them and pretend otherwise.
I’d argue gratitude means more when it’s honest. I believe it is being able to say, “This is really freaking hard right now, but it’s not all that’s here.”
What’s good in your life right now, even if everything isn’t?