10/15/2026
Parents, private lessons should be a privilege, not a right!
I see it every week, and after talking with other instructors and facility owners, I know I’m not the only one.
Stop rewarding a lack of effort with more lessons. Stop threatening to take lessons away if your child doesn’t change their attitude or work ethic, only to show up the following week with the exact same problems.
Accountability means nothing without consequences.
Private lessons are an investment in your child’s development, but that investment means very little if they’re unwilling to put in the effort.
As coaches, we can teach mechanics, develop skills, and provide opportunities, but we cannot force an athlete to care.
Effort is a choice. Attitude is a choice. Being coachable is a choice.
Teach your kids to earn their opportunities instead of expecting them.