09/10/2026
What if the life that broke your heart was only breaking open the door back to yourself?
The Bhagavad Gītā teaches that creation rises, dissolves, rests, and eventually returns. Nothing within this world was meant to remain unchanged forever, including the seasons of our own lives.
This wisdom also appears in Hexagram 24 of the I Ching, Fu, meaning Return. Like the winter solstice, it marks the moment when darkness reaches its deepest point and the light quietly begins to return.
But the return cannot be rushed.
Sometimes we lose the relationship, friendship, home, purpose, or identity we desperately tried to keep. Everything familiar changes, and we wonder how we will ever find ourselves again.
Yet night is not the failure of day. Winter is not the death of life. An ending does not mean your story is over.
Darkness may be the sacred pause where you grieve what was, gather the pieces of yourself you abandoned, and remember who you were before you began shrinking to keep everything else alive.
Our work is not to have everything figured out. It is to keep breathing through the uncertainty, loosen our grip, and trust that something within us is still growing even when nothing appears to be happening.
Perhaps peace begins when we stop begging life to remain as it was and trust that what is meant for us will never require us to abandon ourselves.
The darkest point is not where the story ends.
It is where the light begins its return.
Beneath everything coming and going, the eternal remains.
So do you.
Bhagavad Gītā 8.17 | I Ching, Hexagram 24