07/29/2026
It does not have to be toxic⌠there are too many kind and fun horse loving women out there âĽď¸âĽď¸
To whom it may concerns
To the Karen who snitched to Facebook and got my page flagged and almost banned, for community guidelines violations, I wanted to thank you from the bottom of my heart.
Why would I thank you you may ask. Because for 25 years I have been trying to convince my husband that I should have a barn full of fancy horses in my backyard and just enjoy being a fancy wife.
But because I come from humble beginnings and I married for love, I have had to sell horses over the years to fuel my passion and make a living with horses.
By trying to ruin my business because I offended you posting me longing my horse, or posting my 1m40 jumper popping over flower boxes or God knows what other offensive content twisted your panties, you are actually helping my master plan to come to fruition.
MuhahahaâŚ
Jokes aside, while I have made so many amazing connections and friends through Facebook over the years, I have to say that this is by far the most toxic social media environment.
I am fairly active on Instagram and TikTok and if I cross post, I always get absolutely shredded to pieces on here, while being praised on other platforms.
Do older ladies (and Iâm one of those) have a mean girl mentality?
I manage my husbandâs social media in Motorsport and I never see the level of pettiness I see in my comment section on his.
On his itâs a bunch of fairly wealthy dudes, happy to play with their race cars and just sharing passion and hyping each other for doing it.
In the equestrian community, we are dealing with a very judgmental negative crowd who thrives on tearing each others down. Why is that?
Donât tell me itâs money. There is a crap load of money in auto racing as well.
Only thing I can think of is that auto racing is male dominated.
And horses is a mainly female dominated field. Iâm a fierce feminist and a girls girl and it hurts me inside to say this out loud that women are making Facebook a crappy place.
To all of you the cool girlies, keep up the good work and the positivity. To all of you the negative Nellies and Debbie downers, I will teach you an invaluable life skill.
Take your right index finger and make a big swipe from the bottom to the top of the screen, and âPOOFâ just like that any offensive content disappears forever from your screen.
It has a 100% success rate.
You do not need to take the time to comment and be rude and make your point.
Again swipe up.
And to all the people who tell me : well if you post online you should expect to get negative feedback.
Really? So when you take a picture of your food, kids, vacation and decides to publish it on your page, your expectation is : well I hope they all tell me that my kids are ugly, that my food looks gross and that I shouldnât have traveled there.
No, getting negative criticism shouldnât be a given or the norm. SorryâŚ
Anyway, off I go to ride my ponies that i can now keep forever and everâŚ
Signed : The owner of EquiSale who managed to get her page unbanned