09/25/2026
Six years before a Calgary cemetery filled with wrestlers who called her family, a teenage girl walked up to the Hart family and asked to be trained, and was told no.
She didn't walk away from wrestling. She wrote to Mildred Burke instead, sent her a photo and a handwritten story of her life, and a few weeks later she was on a plane to Encino, California, to learn the business from a woman who had once been the toughest female wrestler alive. Rhonda Sing was barely out of her teens, from a Calgary grocery family, Chinese on her father's side, and she had spent her childhood the way a lot of future wrestlers do — getting into fights she didn't lose, dragging her mother to Stampede shows, deciding early that this was the life she wanted no matter who told her otherwise.
Japan is where she became someone else entirely. Within weeks of finishing her training she was scouted by All Japan Women's Pro-Wrestling, given the name Monster Ripper, and thrown into a locker room that did not want her there. The Japanese veterans resented losing to a foreigner. She was young, green, and thousands of miles from home, adjusting to a culture and a language she'd never studied. She won anyway. She took the WWWA World Single Championship off Jackie Sato in the summer of 1979, lost it six weeks later, and won it back the following spring — becoming the first wrestler born in Calgary to ever succeed on a Japanese card. The only person who seemed to understand what she was going through was Dynamite Kid, another Calgary product living far from home, and the two leaned on each other in a business that wasn't built for either of them.
For the next fifteen years she barely stopped moving. Puerto Rico, Mexico, back to Stampede in her hometown where Bruce Hart renamed her Rhonda Singh and made her the promotion's first Women's Champion. Titles in the WWC, a run as La Monstra in Mexico, a version of the AWA women's title that the AWA itself refused to recognize. She spoke fluent Japanese and fluent Spanish by the time most wrestlers her age were still learning the business in one language.
Then in 1995 the WWF called, and the thing they wanted from her wasn't the wrestler she'd spent sixteen years becoming. They wanted Bertha Faye — a trailer park character, comic relief, Harvey Wippleman's on-screen girlfriend, built for laughs rather than respect. She took the WWF Women's Championship from Alundra Blayze at SummerSlam in 1995 and held it for less than two months before dropping it back. Behind the cartoon, she was humiliated by the role. She said later she felt like she was being paraded rather than allowed to wrestle, forbidden from using the power moves the men were doing, reduced to punchlines in a division the company had already stopped caring about. She asked out of her contract after a single year.
What almost nobody knew, backstage or in the crowd, was who she actually was once the cameras stopped rolling. She kept almost entirely to the men's locker room, more comfortable trading stories with the boys than competing for space with the women. She became close with Owen Hart during her time in the company, a friendship that had nothing to do with storylines. And after WCW let her go in 2000, she didn't chase one more territory or one more title. She stepped away from wrestling completely and spent her final year working as a caregiver for handicapped adults, quietly, far from any arena, doing work that came with no titles and no cameras at all.
She died in July 2001, at forty years old. Her funeral in Calgary drew Bret Hart, Stu Hart, Davey Boy Smith, and Ben Bassarab — the same wrestling family that had once told a teenage girl they couldn't train her.
What do you think people watching in 1995 actually understood about who was really underneath Bertha Faye?