Lesbian Couples Academy

10/13/2026

🎈 All the balloons are for her.

Every year, I ask my wife what she wants to feel and experience on her birthday. And every year, she says the same thing…

“I want to experience awe.”

So this year, I filled the car with balloons and waited until she was asleep to set everything up.

Each balloon had a note attached.

Some were things I love and admire about her, and others were little clues about what the rest of the day would bring.

39 balloons for her 39th birthday.

One of my favorite things about being married is getting to spend a lifetime learning someone. What excites them, what matters to them, what makes them feel loved, and how those things change over time.

I know how much she loves anticipation, surprises, and experiences. So I wanted the entire day to feel like something she could look forward to, one surprise at a time.

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10/13/2026

🚨Secure, happy relationships don’t just happen. They’re built intentionally.

And one of the loneliest feelings is lying next to the person you love most and feeling miles apart.

It happens when everything else gets our best energy and our relationship gets whatever is left. When we start living parallel lives, managing responsibilities, and protecting ourselves instead of protecting each other.

That’s how two people who love each other can slowly become roommates.

Ash and I know that if we stopped doing even one of these six things, we’d risk moving further away from the kind of relationship we’ve worked so hard to build.

These are six things we practice to protect our relationship, prioritize each other, and continually deepen our love, safety, and intimacy.

Because we don’t just want a marriage that lasts. We want a marriage we both love being in.

🙋‍♀️If you’re in a committed le***an relationship and want to build the safest, most secure relationship you’ve ever experienced, together,

🔗click the link in our bio and apply to work with us.

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10/10/2026

Do your fights/arguments/conflicts lasting longer than an hour?

If so your relationship is at risk

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10/10/2026

🏳️‍🌈Secure couples aren’t surprised by triggered moments, they plan for them

Borrow our go to 60 second
co-regulating tool for hat interrupts disconnection fast

🏳️‍🌈Better communication starts with feeling safe together.

Our 10wk relationship reset shows le***an couples how

🔗Click the link in our bio and sign up.

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10/06/2026

⚠️Some of the biggest threats to a relationship don’t look like problems at first.

In fact, some of them are things we’ve been taught are healthy.

🏳️‍🌈Secure le***an couples don’t avoid conflict, differences, or hard conversations. They learn how to stay connected, protect each other, and work on the problem without turning on each other.

Which one surprised you most? 🏳️‍🌈

Click on the link and schedule a couples consult if you’re in a committed le***an relationship and want to learn the 6 skills to stop the anxious/avoidant dynamic and become secure together

09/21/2026

🏳️‍🌈One of the fastest ways to create security? Become experts on each other.

We’re not born anxious or avoidant. These aren’t personalities.

So when I hear, “I’ll never date an avoidant again” or “Never again with an anxious partner,” it shows how misunderstood these patterns are.

We’re all difficult in different ways. And we’re all lovely.

You didn’t cause each other’s wounds, but you can learn how to care for them together.

🏳️‍🌈We show committed le***an couples how to move from anxious/avoidant dynamics into a secure relationship fast.

🔗Apply for our 10-week Le***an Couples Coaching Intensive at the link in bio.

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09/17/2026

09/12/2026

🏳️‍🌈Secure relationships aren’t luck, they’re skills.

Most advice out there wasn’t designed with le***an couples in mind.

If even one of these five signs feels missing, that’s not failure, that’s information.

We built Le***an Couples Academy so women loving women have a place to learn those skills together and become the new standard of secure love.

If you’re ready to step into the most secure version of your relationship, 🔗click the link in our bio and apply for a free couples consult.

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