09/02/2026
The Unsinkable Princess: A Story of Courage, Strength and Survival
Some stories stay with you long after you close the book. The Unsinkable Princess, written by Faly Colaizzi, is one of those stories.
I recently attended a book signing at the Des Plaines Library and had the privilege of learning about the extraordinary life of Des Plaines resident Rafaela Hart. Once a beauty queen in Spain who was courted by kings, Rafaela’s life changed dramatically when she married a controlling sociopath. Her journey is one of survival, resilience and the fierce, fearless love of a mother determined to protect her daughters, Faly and Yvonne.
After the signing, I was fortunate enough to speak with Rafaela personally. I was struck not only by her story, but by the warmth and strength of the woman standing before me. Despite everything she has endured, she carries herself with incredible grace, dignity and courage. To me, she truly embodies the spirit of a warrior princess.
The event also gave me the opportunity to speak with Vicki Poklop, Social Worker for the Des Plaines Police Department, and Tina Garrett, Community Coordinator for Connect Des Plaines, sponsored through the United Methodist Church. Both are working to connect victims of domestic violence with resources, support and hope within our community.
As a self-defense instructor for 20+ years, I have met many domestic violence survivors. I have witnessed their courage and strength firsthand. Rafaela, Faly and Yvonne are among the strongest women I have ever met.
As October approaches and we recognize Domestic Violence Awareness Month, I want to do my part. I will be offering free self-defense classes for women ages 13 and up every Tuesday in October at 7 p.m. at MBD Martial Arts Academy, 1508 Miner St.
Sometimes surviving is the first act of courage. Learning to protect yourself can be the next.
To learn more about Rafaela’s story or purchase The Unsinkable Princess, visit unsinkableprincess.com