Stephenson Equestrian Connection LLC

Stephenson Equestrian Connection LLC Stephenson Equestrian Connection (formerly Stephenson Quarter Horses)
Training/Lessons/Boarding! Occasional Training and Bording as well as breeding services.
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Connecting People and Horses, Teaching with Trust, Experience and Compassion! Stephenson Quarter Horses is a farm owned by Gil and Paula Stephenson. 10 and 1/2 acres in the foot hills of the Blue Ridge Mts. Complete with 8 Stall Barn, small round pen, large riding arena, 4 large paddocks and two smaller paddocks, and hay barn. Standing at Stud is Docs Cash Reward whos many babies over the years have gone on to be jumpers, barrel racers, and pleasure horses. Gil Stephenson is a Farrier with 30+ years experience at shoeing and a lifetime of horse experience.

 Who needs an air freshener when you have 4 bales of hay in the back of your car.🤣Follow me for more life hacks!👍
09/13/2026


Who needs an air freshener when you have 4 bales of hay in the back of your car.🤣
Follow me for more life hacks!👍

09/13/2026

Just some fun with my boy!

Playing with training horses is great, I love my job, but its so much fun to have a little fun with Dupree.
Thanks TaylorAnn Tallman for recording us!

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  a full load of grain and supplements.❤️
09/10/2026

a full load of grain and supplements.❤️

Photo Dump 📸This is what its all about!Horses and Barn Family.These beautiful September days👍! I couldn't ask for more. ...
09/10/2026

Photo Dump 📸
This is what its all about!
Horses and Barn Family.
These beautiful September days👍!
I couldn't ask for more. This is the life!

Love the way this person describes that, THIS is what i mean by giving a horse a job!👏
09/08/2026

Love the way this person describes that, THIS is what i mean by giving a horse a job!👏

Give your horse a job.

To illustrate what I mean by "give your horse a job", I'm going to describe a client case of buddy, a patchy, solid, gypsy Vanner type horse who came to us for seven days for a bit of training.

He was fairly spooky and reactive and would lock his jaw and run off through the reins and was almost impossible to haul to a stop.

So we did what we always do and gave him a job.

I've got a few jobs that I give my horses which consists of various patterns at the horse can learn.

One basic pattern that I use is lunging, which is a very basic pattern indeed. Trot in a circle with one ear on me and one ear on the circle. Simples.

If you decide to look out of the arena instead of looking at me and produce that horrible counterbend then it'll be a little bit of signal and attention grabbing and till your attention is back on me.

And there you have it. Round and round you go.

The thing is, once the horse realises what it's expected to do, it knows that it's not going to do anything wrong or any kind of unexpected anything.

All it needs to do is go round and round going "I'm a good boy I'm a good boy I'm a good boy" and everything is peachy.

The horses can be proud of itself and show off what a lovely circle it can do and I'm proud of the horse.

Nice and easy.

Another pattern I employ, another job that we can do, is the initial quadrill from our years putting on jousting shows .

This pattern goes, and I hope I describe it well enough here, but it doesn't really matter if I don't describe it well enough the point is it's a pattern that you know, but anyway, it goes from the middle of the short side A facing into the arena. One horse goes up the left hand side, one horse goes up the right hand side, keep them perfectly opposite to each other at the same pace so that when they cross at the top short side at C they are crossing exactly there, so it's all looks neat and tidy.

Then you come halfway back down the opposing long side and turn into face each other ... and in the shows we would traditionally trade insults over the tilt.

Then you would walk down to A and C respectively turn around stand there while you salute the person you're jousting and then run a straight line, or walking is fine, or at a trot, passing left to left in the middle with an imaginary tilt between us.

Pass 3 times and that's the end of the pattern.

When we tried Buddy on a hack around the estate, and he was descending into spooky behaviour, myself and Zana decided to organise an arena with conveniently placed dandelions and nettles to indicate the corners and went through the jousting pattern...
..Which neatly reversed Buddy's increasing anxiety and allowed us to carry on the hack.
Neat!

Another job I can give the horse, I have small traffic cones which just conveniently fit a lance in the hole at the top, which is a piece of dowel from Wickes and just fits in nicely. The job is to take the lance from out of one cone and put it in another.

Another pattern that I often use to give the horse the job is the potholes in the drive between our gate and the road. This worked particularly well with Buddy because he was so spooky, but it's hard to be spooky AND to run a slalom around some potholes, then go firing off from one pot hole to another, past the gate in multiple directions as you head away from and to the next pothole.

Bend around the pothole and head to the next one.

As much as anything the point of giving the horse a job is to provide my own focus so that I have the discipline to supply the routine to the horse.

If the human doesn't know what he's doing how can you expect the horse to know what it's doing?

Giving the horse a job is 180 degrees different to the concept of walking about hoping that it doesn't spook.

After his seven days training with us, Buddy was much happier being told what to do because it meant he didn't have to think for himself.

They don't want to think for themselves, you know.

I don't really want to think for myself if I'm honest. If you'd just like to phone me up at the beginning of the day and tell me what I'm doing, I can then relax and get on with it.

If I was a horse being able to relax and get on with it means that I don't have to worry about a monster behind every tree and bush and whether to jump to a shadow or reacting in some way.

If I need to react in some way, I'll be told.

Anyway, Buddy duly went home to his owner, and about a month later I was booked to go and visit for a confidence lesson for the owner, and I wonder if you can guess what happened?

Yes that's right, any concept of giving the horse a job or having the discipline to stick to a pattern or a training program had gone out of the window and we were back to square one.

Ho hum. There's nothing much I can do about that if I suppose apart from supply the lesson again... And this time Buddy improved within a couple of hours rather than seven days and provided the owner a great plan for moving forward.

So yes, that's the message of today.

Give your horse a job.

As always put your thoughts in the comments

Ellie Update!!I've been sick the last week or so, so I haven't felt like posting, or much of anything except working hor...
09/08/2026

Ellie Update!!

I've been sick the last week or so, so I haven't felt like posting, or much of anything except working horses, dragging myself through barn chores and sneezing. 🤧

That being said, Ellie is still coming along so well! We've spent some time working over ground poles, teaching Ellie where her feet go and building up those important top line and ab muscles!!

She's starting to side pass, neck rein and really soften into the bit and my leg.

We'll be headed back down to the big ring this week to see how her skills have improved now that her footwork and balance are getting better!!

Her time here is almost up and this sweet mare of course is for sale.
Contact me for more info and price. 540-229-5911
Mid 🥕🥕🥕🥕

I really think Ellie has a great future in anything from Western Riding, Ranch, Hunter Under Saddle and I think she's gonna be a fabulous trail horse as well!
She'll be with me for another 2 weeks to polish up what shes learned so far.
Then she returns home so her brother can join us for 60 days.
Don't let this amazing mare go back out in the paddock, she's very ready for her new job and her forever home!

Cowboys Roper Thank you for taking some really awesome pics today!!!
09/07/2026

Cowboys Roper
Thank you for taking some really awesome pics today!!!

What a great afternoon, finally not 100 degrees lolJust a bunch of people enjoying horses.This is what its all about.   ...
09/07/2026

What a great afternoon,
finally not 100 degrees lol
Just a bunch of people enjoying horses.
This is what its all about.

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24142 Paoli Mill Road
Elkwood, VA
22718

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