10/21/2026
What if part of your widowhood exhaustion is trying to "figure out" what can’t be undone?
You replay the conversations. The decisions. The what ifs and if onlys.
You search for answers. You read about grief. You try to understand with more information.
Deep down, we're trying to control what we can to get what we are really after: safety.
Sister, I understand the desire to find something solid to hold onto when your world has fallen apart. But you were never meant to figure everything out by yourself, and more information won't solve the biggest problem...
There is a difference between searching for understanding and exhausting yourself trying to control what you cannot change.
God invites you to bring Him your questions, your weary heart, and the parts of your life you don't know how to navigate. He wants to give you the safety you are looking for. ❤️
Be encouraged with more on this week's Blog, Christian Widow Grief: Releasing Control and Embracing Surrender
Type "Hope Blog" below and I'll DM you the link. 💌
With you,
Rachel