09/08/2026
Sports and gambling are very similar in many ways.
The biggest difference might be this:
It's hard for a student-athlete to hide when they don't get the results they want. A bad game is on display for the whole team, the whole crowd, sometimes the whole town to see.
Gambling doesn't work that way.
The outcomes are often invisible to parents.
And even when the struggle starts showing — mood changes, money going missing, secrecy about where they were — compulsive gamblers are great at hiding the truth to avoid the shame of being found out.
That's what makes it so dangerous for young athletes specifically: they're used to performing under pressure, and used to putting on a good face.
Gambling gives them one more thing to perform through — quietly, and alone.
It's okay to ask for help. And it starts with parents knowing how to bring them closer rather than push them away.
🎧 Hear my full conversation with former New York Yankees 3rd-round draft pick Jake Sanford on The Freshman Foundation® Podcast, wherever you get your podcasts.