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08/31/2026

Some of the most dangerous horses I’ve worked on have been spoiled.

When people see a horse attack, they automatically assume the horse was abused, that the handler/trainer did something that caused the horse to feel “threatened.” They aren’t dogs or cats and shouldn’t be treated as such. They are PREY animals. They don’t behave as predators do, nor does humanizing them help in the slightest.

As a hoof care provider and horse trainer, I’m here to tell you that the most dangerous horses who have “come at me” have all been spoiled. The horses that are given treats and kisses when the owner thinks they’re scared, when in reality they’re exhibiting dominance. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve been under a horse trimming when the horse randomly kicks, licks his lips and waits for the treat. The horse wasn’t scared. He was bored and didn’t want to stand anymore. The owner gives him his shushes, pets him and gives him the treat.

This is TEACHING aggressive behavior that will escalate into something much worse, and unfortunately that’s what horse “enthusiasts” on social media unknowingly push for, who then push for policies that will further get the horse hurt, let alone other people. It creates instances where the horse becomes unpredictable. They can go from perfectly normal to attacking without reason. They can just decide they don’t want you there, and their response is to attack because that’s what they’ve been taught through lack of training and setting appropriate boundaries.

When it comes to horses, ignorance IS NOT bliss.

I would honestly rather work with a horse that’s been abused than spoiled. The abused horse may kick out of fear, but rarely are they aggressive, whereas the spoiled horse is almost ALWAYS aggressive in some form or another.

Horses are LIVESTOCK. They can be your pet, but at the end of the day they’re 1,200lbs of unpredictable muscle that should be respected as livestock. They can go from sweet to breaking your arm (or worse) in the blink of an eye with zero effort. They can go from calm to throwing you like a ragdoll without a single warning.

And yes, horses are more than capable of being born with screws loose, just like any other living thing, and it’s these horses who unfortunately end up in the hands of people who have no business owning horses, who pass them along to others who also have no business around horses until someone gets hurt.

Whether a dangerous horse was created by people or not, the appropriate response is humane euthanasia. That’s the harsh reality of being proper stewards over the animals we chose to care for. It costs the same to feed a bad horse as it does a good one, so make sure you’re finding the right horse for your level, not your su!cidal empathy.

We can all agree that horses are majestic and have captured the hearts and minds of people for hundreds of years, but that doesn’t mean we can give bad behavior a pass, let alone the dangerous ones.

What has hurt the horse more, especially in recent years, is the enthusiast, the people who know very little or nothing at all who have taken control of the conversation. Until the HORSEMEN step up and put their foot down, horses will continue to suffer under the controlling thumb of the uneducated.

08/28/2026

Turtle!…gasp!

Supper.
08/27/2026

Supper.

08/17/2026

Dr. Deb Johnson recently wrote a post about the role human impatience, cheapness, and ignorance may be playing in the physical problems we see in horses. I had so many thoughts while reading it because, although I may not agree with every conclusion she drew about posture and kissing spine, she is absolutely right about something important: horses are paying every day for what owners, farriers, and trainers do not know—and are often unwilling to learn.

Last night, I watched a video of a horse that had supposedly “learned to buck.” The trainer’s solution was to tie milk jugs—likely filled with rocks—to the saddle, put the horse on a longe line, and deliberately create more noise, fear, and chaos. She had absolutely no control of his hips or hind feet, yet confidently presented his reaction as a behavior problem she was fixing.

Then I watched more of her footage, and it became clear that the milk jugs were not an isolated lapse in judgment. Horse after horse was tight, braced, and mentally unprepared while she climbed on. In my opinion, at least half of those c**ts were not ready to be ridden, and she appeared to have no idea how to connect a rein to a foot, properly prepare a horse for the saddle, or help one become genuinely relaxed.

Honestly, I would have been afraid to get on some of them—and I have been starting horses for 30 years. That is not because I am timid or unwilling to ride a difficult horse. Experience teaches you to recognize when a horse does not yet understand enough for getting on to be fair or safe.

The absence of fear is not always courage. Sometimes people are not afraid because they do not know enough to recognize the danger in front of them. Remaining aboard a tight, confused, unprepared c**t is not evidence that the c**t was ready or that the rider is competent.

That horse did not wake up one morning and decide to become a bucking horse. A horse can only do one of two things in any moment: what he thinks the human is asking him to do, or what he believes he must do to survive that moment. His bucking came from somewhere, and tying rattling objects to his saddle beside his front feet did nothing to help him understand what the human wanted his feet to do.

I actually commented on her video, which I rarely do on another trainer’s page because it is usually pointless. Too often, egos are too big for any real learning to happen. Van Hargis had already questioned what she was doing, and because she appeared to take his comment well, I thought there might be an opportunity for a genuine conversation.

I told her the horse had not simply decided to buck; he was doing what he believed he needed to do in that moment. She disagreed with that entire premise. She also insisted there were no holes in her groundwork, even though the additional footage showed holes big enough to drive a truck through.

The horses were tight and braced. Her cues were not thoughtfully connected to their feet, and several of those c**ts were clearly not prepared for her to climb aboard. Yet because she does not know what complete preparation looks like, she cannot see what is missing.

That response told me even more than the original video did. Experience should make you curious about what the horse’s behavior is telling you and what your preparation may have failed to address. Inexperience, especially when paired with confidence, allows you to blame the horse, declare your groundwork complete, and never question what you may have created.

Proper preparation begins long before someone steps into the stirrup. It starts with good halter-breaking and groundwork that teaches the horse to change eyes, thoughtfully follow a feel, and understand that forward is the answer. The horse is free to have an opinion about what is presented, but the handler must be capable of directing his feet thoughtfully and kindly through his fear.

You do not stop a horse from bucking by attacking him harder than he can fight back. You thoughtfully take control of the feet that allow him to buck. Figuratively, I want to attach the inside hind foot to my inside rein or lead rope, redirect the hip, give the horse an understandable place to put that foot, and release when he finds the answer.

That is not the same thing as merely looking at the horse’s hip and getting it to “roll.” Done without a true connection between the rein and the foot, that can create even more bracing. A horse must learn to ride from back to front—to drive underneath himself with a hind foot and organize the rest of his body around it.

That requires timing, feel, preparation, and an understanding of how the reins connect to the feet. Tying milk jugs to a saddle requires none of those things. It may eventually produce a horse that stops reacting, but a horse giving up because escape feels impossible is not the same thing as a horse becoming relaxed or understanding what you want.

This is one of the greatest problems in the horse industry: confidence is constantly mistaken for competence. Social media rewards the dramatic reaction, the person willing to climb aboard anything, and the before-and-after video in which the horse eventually becomes quieter. It does not ask whether the horse was thoughtfully prepared, whether the trainer could direct his feet, or whether that quietness came from understanding, exhaustion, or shutdown.

That is what makes this bigger than one trainer and one horrifying video. People will continue sending her their horses because she is confident, she gets on, and she produces footage that looks impressive to people who do not know what they are seeing. Meanwhile, the horses will carry the fear, bracing, confusion, and physical consequences forward.

And this brings me directly back to Deb’s point about kissing spine. These tight, braced, hollow horses—ridden before they understand how to organize their feet and bodies beneath a rider—are exactly the kind of horses she is warning us about. They are not learning to become soft, balanced, and confident under saddle; they are learning to carry a rider while protecting themselves from pressure they do not understand.

If a horse repeatedly moves with a dropped back, rigid body, disconnected feet, and tension through his entire topline, we should not be surprised when that way of going eventually has physical consequences. I am not saying poor training is the only cause of kissing spine. I am saying that a trainer’s lack of understanding about how to prepare a c**t and teach him to organize himself beneath a rider can create patterns of bracing, compensation, and dysfunctional movement that place that horse at greater risk.

Owners also bear responsibility. Too many want the fastest and cheapest route to a rideable horse, and too few investigate what is happening when they are not standing beside the round pen. “She got on him” and “he quit bucking” tell you absolutely nothing about the quality of the training, how that horse is using his body, or what he actually learned.

More time alone is not the answer, either. Thirty days with someone who actually understands preparation, the feet, timing, and release may give a horse a valuable foundation. Ninety days with someone who understands none of those things only gives that person ninety days to create more fear, confusion, bracing, self-preservation—and potentially movement patterns that follow the horse for the rest of his life.

The horse is never wrong. That does not mean dangerous behavior should be ignored or allowed. It means the behavior is information, and the trainer’s responsibility is to understand that information well enough to direct the feet without creating more fear and confusion.

Deb is right that this is a human problem. The horses being produced by training like this are the very horses likely to struggle physically later—not because they were born incapable of carrying a rider, but because nobody helped them understand the rider or taught them to organize their feet and bodies beneath one.

Some people will call this trainer brave because she climbs onto horses that are obviously tight, braced, and unprepared. I don’t call that bravery. I call it ignorance—and the horse will likely be paying for it long after everyone quits applauding the ride.

**tstarting **tstarter

Time to get these ladies in summer riding shape!
05/09/2024

Time to get these ladies in summer riding shape!

03/26/2024

Horse Facts:

If a horse gets too stressed out they can colic and die

If a horse doesn't eat enough they can get stomach ulcers

If a horse eats too much they can founder or colic and die

If a horse gets stressed out and doesn't eat at the same time they will get ulcers, colic and die

If a horse doesn't drink enough...you guessed it, they can colic and die

If they have a drastic change in diet, environment or routine they can indeed colic and die

If you ride your entire life it absolutely does not mean that you are a good rider

If you ask 100 equestrians the same question you will get 106 different answers all of which which will be told with 100% confidence especially from those who bought their first horse last week

Horses can live outside 24/7 and they also can not live outside 24/7

Horses eat hay, grass, grain, expensive supplements, apples, carrots and 100 dollar bills

The pants you wear to shovel s**t, fix fences and ride in the dirt are more expensive then any other pants you will own

Horses are athletes. Athletes that trip on nothing, fall while playing, need stitches from cutting themselves on something that is not visible to the human eye, colic and die under stressful (competition type) situations, are scared of absolutely everything and don't like to be told what to do

Rank, fresh, hot, spicy, wild all mean the same thing and describe a horse on a beautiful spring day when all you want to do is go for a relaxing ride to unwind

Beginner safe, schoolie, husband type, anyone can ride, Grandma's mount, kid safe normally means, this horse is bat s**t crazy but I'm hoping you'll buy it sight unseen if I describe it as a kids horse and then ghost you when you tell me it killed your Grandma

If you are riding a horse and they see a rock that wasn't there yesterday you are possibly in for a wild ride as they avoid this horse eating rock at all costs. Including the cost of your life

If you see a horse on the road slow down.. actually just turn around and go the other way. For some unknown reason a horse often jumps infront of moving cars in order to avoid the scary moving cars

If your horse comes up lame, no problem you just need to rule out a couple of the most common things that it could be. These include ulcers, kissing spine, founder, EPM, HYPP, Lyme, influenza, cushings, sharp teeth, broken teeth, rotten tooth, tooth abscess, knee chips, hairline fractures from head to toe, cancer, pulled muscle, hoof abscess, weak stifle, lice, worms, conformational defect, headaches, sinus infection, bruised sole, ribs or spine out of alignment, poor fitting tack, laminitis, dehydration, vitamin deficiencies, anemia, infection and strangles.

And they have a frog in their foot.

If you aren't the one paying the vet bills these horse facts might seem funny but they are in fact, 100% accurate. So if you get a horse please also get yourself a good therapist and a deep bank account.

03/03/2024

A reader writes: “Do you prefer working with fresh-slate horses, or those who are somehow ‘spoiled’ and need restarts?”

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Trainers definitely seem to fall into two camps, when presented with questions like the one above.

If a person is training commercially with an eye to competition, the first group of c**ts is, realistically, the only way to go. You’ll need specific bloodlines athletic enough to get the job done in your discipline. You’ll need that clean-slate, in order to absorb your training quickly and efficiently. You'll also need a stream of young horses coming in to fulfill your requirements for the futurities, whether or not we approve of such things!

Competition aside, time is money in the business of training horses, something that many people don’t understand. I tend to cut pro trainers a lot of slack when it comes to timesaving measures, for they, too, deserve to pay their bills and feed their families. There are many ethical trainers among the bad. For the most part, they do an amazing job of turning out consistent and uncomplicated horses for us to safely enjoy.

That leaves those of us who are willing to throw our leg over the horse with a stormy past.

These are not the horses who are going to be able to get by with a thirty, sixty or ninety-day re-start. Whether due to poor handling in the past, undiagnosed longstanding pain, or just a challenging personality—which is often confused with a lifetime of abuse—these horses will need a program with consistency that, over time, can reprogram neural pathways in the brain.

These horses really require a mixture of science and technically sound riding, along with good intentions.

This means performing a positive response hundreds of times, in order to erase the past history of life-altering, or inappropriate, former reactions. As Dr. Phil used to say, “It takes one thousand ‘attaboys’ to replace one negative, scarring comment”. All of this, without mindless drilling.

When we consider the training of spoiled, or abused, horses, this is sobering information.

I have made it my business to have at least one of these horses on my books, at all times. These horses may have had a bad start and have somehow fallen through the cracks. Maybe they were started fine but then lived through years of neglect. I have been surprised to find that teenaged horses learn every bit as well as the younger c**ts, with different pros and cons in their responses to my training.

I have also learned that all things being equal, the truly clean slate horse is far less complex to shape into an uncomplicated ‘going’ horse, than the one with a chequered past.

The chances of getting hurt on the latter also go way up, exponentially. While few horses go out of their way to hurt us, an older horse will have judgments about prior abuse and is not above doing what is necessary to protect itself. This is understandable. We are all wired to survive, horses especially.

I personally enjoy the problem-solving nature of restarting troubled horses. I have learned, the hard and heartbreaking way, that not all horses can be saved. This is an unpopular notion that is borne by real life experience, alas.

There are some horses who are so fundamentally damaged, or so wrongly wired neurologically, that they can never be asked to serve us as saddle horses or driving horses. I have had to learn this lesson, many times. It is still untenable to me… or perhaps more truthfully, to my ego.

There is a lot of ‘feelgood’ associated with giving horses a second chance. Being someone’s saviour can have a dangerous allure.

I try very hard to not tie my own self worth to the successes my horses have seen, or have failed to find, while in my tenure. I do know that to be offered a clean slate horse means that I will be afforded a wonderful period in my training program, something that I have learned to enjoy and value.

People might be surprised to know that the average mustang, or unhandled horse, is an easier prospect than the one who has been started, or handled, wrongly.

I’d like to point out that riding nothing but spoiled, or troubled, horses can have a negative effect on one’s technical riding, as well as one’s emotions. Like unsound horses, they can become a very heavy burden, if we are not careful. I always aim to have at least one advanced horse in my string, to keep my riding light and without habitual defensiveness.

It is all-too-easy to begin handling ‘problem’ horses with a chip on one’s shoulder. Instead, we have to constantly find the balance between softness and acceptance, with staying aware and ahead of the constant possibility of getting hurt. Many troubled horses have hurt people in the past. Though this is understandable, it is not a comfort when your own safety is on the line.

I never worry about whose fault it is, that a horse is now this way. Blame solves nothing. If I now have this horse in my care, moving forward is squarely up to me.

Bottom line, I appreciate all the trainers who have their horses’ best interests at heart. Whether they are starting with gifted, clean slates with all the world before them… or their equine students are working to overcome hard and desperate pasts, I salute the trainers who create consistently straightforward, happy horses.

It is both my constant goal and great honour to endeavour to ride among them.

Shown here, a wintry memory of Mike on the beautiful 13:3 pony, Chica d'Or. That she went on to a life of proud service as a children's riding pony, belies her rough start in life.

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