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Options Texting Rich James
Helping Men Stop Losing Girls Over Text đŸ“±
15+ Years Coaching
37,000+ Students Helped Rich James is the creator of OPTIONS.

The award winning texting course that’s already helped 36,000+ guys turn things around with the girl of their dreams. Rich has over 12 years experience as an International dating coach and after teaming up with Ed Hudson in 2013 created Dating Metrics – a leading resource for men’s dating advice online. After 8+ years of helping clients and running bootcamps around the world, they decided to make their courses available digitally. Their online courses cover every checkpoint in the dating cycle – texting, dating apps, meeting women, first dates, and getting a girlfriend. With OPTIONS you’ll discover how to get smart with dating, develop your social skills, and become better with women.

10/20/2026

When a guy really likes a girl, he starts editing himself. Agreeing with everything she says. Flooding her with compliments. Turning into whoever he thinks she wants. That’s not attraction — that’s self-abandonment, and she can feel it. The version of you she liked was the one with his own opinions, his own plans, his own life.

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10/20/2026

Don’t lose yourself to be liked.

When a guy really likes a girl, he starts editing himself. Agreeing with everything she says. Flooding her with compliments. Turning into whoever he thinks she wants. That’s not attraction — that’s self-abandonment, and she can feel it. The version of you she liked was the one with his own opinions, his own plans, his own life.

Follow Rich James.

10/14/2026

She waited 3 hours to reply. So you waited 4. Congrats, you’re both losing.

A happn survey of 1,000+ singles found ~40% deliberately match the other person’s reply speed. But 52% say decoding these games mentally exhausts them — and while you were playing the clock, she read your delay as disinterest.
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10/14/2026

She waited 3 hours to reply. So you waited 4. Congrats, you’re both losing.

A happn survey of 1,000+ singles found ~40% deliberately match the other person’s reply speed. But 52% say decoding these games mentally exhausts them — and while you were playing the clock, she read your delay as disinterest.
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10/12/2026

She is losing interest 101:

“Sorry I’ve been superr busyyyy” is girl-code for “you’re not a priority.”

Busy people still text back the people they actually want. The extra letters don’t make it cuter — they make it obvious. When she’s interested, you don’t get excuses. You get replies.

Stop decoding breadcrumbs. Follow Rich James for the signs that actually matter.

10/12/2026

This is a tell sign that she is loosing interest. Bored by the conversation.

“Sorry I’ve been superr busyyyy” is girl-code for “you’re not a priority.”

Busy people still text back the people they actually want. The extra letters don’t make it cuter — they make it obvious. When she’s interested, you don’t get excuses. You get replies.

Stop decoding breadcrumbs. Follow Rich James for the signs that actually matter.

10/09/2026

The #1 Texting Mistake Men Make When Texting Someone They Are Interested In:

"How was your day" and the same boring conversations over and over. Do you stand out? Are your conversations fun? Listen to the video and see what you can do to always stand out from the other guys texting her.

10/07/2026

A survey of 2,000 singles found nearly half of us have ghosted — and almost all of them wish they’d just sent a kind exit text instead. Ending things well is the rarest skill in dating. It’s not about having the perfect words. It’s about not vanishing.
End things gracefully. Follow Rich James for texts that actually work.

10/05/2026

Here are 3 openers, statistically one of them does much better than the others. Comment 1, 2, or 3 to vote which one does the best. Be careful, one of them does NOT do well at all. 🙅

1.
Alright, I’ve officially run out of reasons not to say hi, so
 hi 😂”

2.
“I feel like we’d either get along really well or be a terrible influence on each other. Had to investigate.”

3.
“Your profile just ruined my plans for today because now I had to come here and say hi 😭

check optionstexting.com to find the best openers, available to members only.

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