09/05/2026
I remember years ago, as an adult, shadowing an organization that would go into schools and do body-safety talks with kids.
Before they would even start, they always made sure they had counselors standing by.
I remember asking, “Why do you need counselors here?”
They told me because every time they did one of these talks, they would usually have one to three kids come forward and report some form of abuse.
I thought that was crazy.
But what was even crazier was how normal it was to them. They had been doing this for years and years. This wasn’t some rare occurrence. They expected it.
So I asked them, “How often do we do these body-safety talks in schools?”
They told me once a year was what was mandated in Indiana at the time.
Think about that.
Every time you’re educating these kids, you’re potentially getting one, two, three children coming forward saying, “Something is happening to me.”
Yet we’re doing the talk once a year?
Now look at this story.
A young girl sits through a body-safety presentation, raises her hand, and what she says reportedly leads to the arrest of a 60-year-old man she knows on a child-molesting charge.
The education gave her an opportunity to speak.
So who’s dropping the ball here?
If educating children is helping them recognize abuse, find their voice, and expose predators, why aren’t we educating them more?
And I’m not just talking about schools.
Parents. Coaches. Teachers. Churches. Martial arts schools. Youth organizations. Everywhere.
We cannot educate our kids about body safety once a year, check a box, and convince ourselves we’ve done enough.
Educate them early. Educate them often. Give them the words. Give them the voice. And make damn sure they know we’re going to listen when they use it.
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