09/30/2023
Tired of basic outfits? Accessorizing is your new best friend!
Discover how to add complexity and visual interest to elevate ANY look in Part 1 of newest blog series. Accessories are about to become your wardrobe's superheroes. ๐ฆธโโ๏ธ
They swoop in to add visual interest, complexity, and wow-factor to any outfit. I'm talking taking your look from 0 to 100 real quick! ๐
Head to the link below to read the full blog and become an accessorizing pro! ๐
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09/18/2023
When it comes to personal branding, the advice you hear is all about dressing to impress and making sure you have the "right" image ๐ I say - forget that!
There's another approach that can transform your style game in a much more empowering way - and it all begins with changing the purpose of style in your life.
If you're tired of conforming to societal expectations and want to truly express your unique personality, I invite you to join me at the Ignite Your Personal Brand Bootcamp hosted by TeamWomen
During this event, I'll guide you through a transformative journey where you'll redefine your style game in a way that empowers you and sets you apart.
Say goodbye to the pressure of fitting into a predetermined mold and embrace the freedom of embracing your true self.
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12/24/2022
Happy Holidays from our family to yours! โค๏ธ Hadley loved getting dressed up this year (can't you tell?! ๐) and couldn't decide which look she loved more - antler (swipe to see) or no antler...what do you think? Drop ๐ in the chat if you're team holiday sweater only or ๐ฆ if you think the antler makes the outfit! โฃ
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10/01/2022
My client almost walked right past this dress - and she would have if she actually followed any of the 'rules' for her body type. According to traditional style advice, this dress is a no-no because:โฃ
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I think we can all agree that she looks frickin' fabulous any which way she wears this dress! โฃ
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The same is true for YOU ๐๐ป โฃ
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You can wear whatever you want and look frickin' fabulous doing it. โฃ
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Here's how in four easy steps:โฃ
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โ Stand in front of your mirror and decide, "damn, I look fabulous!"โฃ
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What's one thing you've always wanted to wear but never thought you could? And why? โฃ
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Share with me below and let's just bust ๐ฅ through that belief right now. โฃ
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PS - if the idea of breaking style rules and wearing whatever you want is mega appealing, then you need my new, free guide - Unleash Yourself! It has my exclusive 5-step method to breaking free from limiting style beliefs so you can begin wearing what you love. Which you deserve to do. Like right, meow. Mmmkay?โฃ
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Head to the link in my profile to download your free copy!โฃ
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07/12/2022
The reason online shopping kind of blows? How something ๐๐๐ฉ๐ช๐๐ก๐ก๐ฎ looks on you is very rarely the same as how you ๐๐ญ๐ฅ๐๐๐ฉ๐๐ it to look on you. โโโโโโโโ
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When you see a cute top, you imagine how it will look and feel based on what you ๐๐ฎ๐ป๐ it to look and feel like, skipping over the clues of how it will actually look irl.โโโโโโโโ
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๐ง๐ต๐ฒ ๐ฏ๐ฒ๐๐ ๐๐ฎ๐ ๐๐ผ ๐ถ๐ป๐ฐ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ฎ๐๐ฒ ๐๐ผ๐๐ฟ ๐ฐ๐ต๐ฎ๐ป๐ฐ๐ฒ ๐ผ๐ณ ๐ณ๐ถ๐ป๐ฑ๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐๐ผ๐บ๐ฒ๐๐ต๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐๐ผ๐ ๐น๐ผ๐๐ฒ ๐๐ต๐ฒ๐ป ๐ผ๐ป๐น๐ถ๐ป๐ฒ ๐๐ต๐ผ๐ฝ๐ฝ๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐ถ๐ ๐๐ผ ๐๐๐ผ๐ฝ ๐ฎ๐๐๐๐บ๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐๐ต๐ฎ๐ ๐ต๐ผ๐ ๐ถ๐ ๐น๐ผ๐ผ๐ธ๐ ๐ถ๐ป ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐ฝ๐ถ๐ฐ๐๐๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐ถ๐ ๐ต๐ผ๐ ๐ถ๐ ๐๐ถ๐น๐น ๐น๐ผ๐ผ๐ธ ๐ผ๐ป ๐๐ผ๐.โโโโโโโโ
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๐๐ป ๐๐ป๐๐ถ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐ฝ๐ถ๐ฒ๐ฐ๐ฒ ๐ผ๐ป ๐ฎ๐ค๐ช๐ง ๐ฏ๐ผ๐ฑ๐.โโโโโโโโ
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Online models are typically at least 5โ10โ (unless otherwise stated) so if you like that dress on the model and youโre 5โ3โ, envision that dress hem falling 7โ lower on you to see if it still appeals to you. โโโโโโโโ
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Same goes for the bust, the butt and the stomach - the difference in these areas is the biggest culprit for being surprised about how something looks on.โโโโโโโโ
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๐๐ป ๐ฅ๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ฑ ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐ณ๐ฎ๐ฏ๐ฟ๐ถ๐ฐ ๐ฐ๐ผ๐ป๐๐ฒ๐ป๐ ๐๐ผ ๐๐ต๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐ป๐ผ ๐๐๐ฟ๐ฝ๐ฟ๐ถ๐๐ฒ๐!โโโโโโโโ
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What might look like soft silk under bright shiny studio lights could actually be a stiff polyester. Don't assume you know what the fabric is just from looking at the picture. โโโโโโโโ
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๐๐ป ๐๐ต๐ฒ๐ฐ๐ธ ๐ผ๐๐ ๐ฎ๐ ๐บ๐ฎ๐ป๐ ๐ฝ๐ถ๐ฐ๐ ๐ฎ๐ ๐ฝ๐ผ๐๐๐ถ๐ฏ๐น๐ฒ.โโโโโโโโ
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This includes looking at reviews with customer photos - what does it really look like sans bright lights or slim models? โโโโโโโโ
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๐๐ง๐ค ๐ฉ๐๐ฅ! Look at ๐๐ก๐ก the colors of a piece. Even if you're ordering it in black, looking at it in light blue will highlight stitching details, seams, fabric texture, etc. that aren't as obvious in a darker color. โโโโโโโโ
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07/06/2022
Here's a great way to check if you truly donโt like something or if you're (subconsciously) defaulting to other peoples' opinions...โโโโโโโโ
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๐ช๐ต๐ฒ๐ป ๐๐ผ๐ ๐ฝ๐๐ ๐๐ผ๐บ๐ฒ๐๐ต๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐ผ๐ป ๐๐ต๐ฎ๐ ๐๐ผ๐ ๐ฑ๐ผ๐ป'๐ ๐น๐ถ๐ธ๐ฒ, ๐๐ต๐ฎ๐ ๐ถ๐ ๐๐ผ๐๐ฟ ๐๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ ๐ณ๐ถ๐ฟ๐๐ ๐๐ต๐ผ๐๐ด๐ต๐?โโโโโโโโ
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Looks are external so this self-judgement isn't coming from your true self. It's more likely coming from conditioning you've picked up over the years of how you ๐ด๐ฉ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ญ๐ฅ look in something.โโโโโโโโ
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Feelings are internal so this self-judgement is noticing and calling out your natural instinct. It's coming inwardly from your self. โโโโโโโโ
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The most important differentiator here is that you catch your very first, snap reaction. โโโโโโโโ
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If you think "I look terrible in this" and ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ฏ you begin to feel terrible in it, that feeling is then coming from your thought about looking terrible. Not your true self. โโโโโโโโ
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Okay, you've noticed your initial thought - now what?โโโโโโโโ
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When you put something on that you feel terrible in, go ahead and toss it! You're honoring yourself by not wearing it.โโโโโโโโ
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When you put something on that you think you look terrible in, ask yourself if you really like the style of the piece. โโโโโโโโ
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If your answer is yes, what would happen if you honored yourself and wore the damn thing anyway? โโโโโโโโ
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It's worth considering. โค๏ธ
07/01/2022
The best way to start wearing what you love is to ask yourself this question...โโโโโโโโ
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๐๐ผ๐ฒ๐ ๐๐ต๐ฎ๐ ๐๐ผ๐ฝ ๐ก๐ค๐ค๐ ๐๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ฟ๐ถ๐ฏ๐น๐ฒ ๐ผ๐ป ๐๐ผ๐ ๐ผ๐ฟ ๐ฑ๐ผ ๐๐ผ๐ ๐๐๐๐ก ๐๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ฟ๐ถ๐ฏ๐น๐ฒ ๐ถ๐ป ๐ถ๐?โโโโโโโโ
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When you think something ๐ญ๐ฐ๐ฐ๐ฌ๐ด terrible on you, itโs because of an external influence. Conditioning from society, a harsh parentโs voice echoing in your head, a trigger from being made fun of as a kid and on and on. โโโโโโโโ
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๐๐ฒ๐ฒ๐น๐ถ๐ป๐ด๐ ๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐ถ๐ป๐๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ป๐ฎ๐น.โโโโโโโโ
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When you donโt ๐ง๐ฆ๐ฆ๐ญ good in something, itโs related to how it makes you feel inside. Self-conscious, lackluster, low energy, etc. Basing what you wear on how it makes you feel is dressing for your self and your own internal responses. โโโโโโโโ
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The next time you look in the mirror after you get dressed, youโll instantly have a thought about your outfit. โโโโโโโโ
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Notice if it contained look or feel.โโโโโโโโ
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๐ง๐ต๐ฒ ๐๐๐ฒ ๐ผ๐ณ ๐น๐ผ๐ผ๐ธ ๐ผ๐ฟ ๐ณ๐ฒ๐ฒ๐น ๐ถ๐ป ๐๐ต๐ฎ๐ ๐ถ๐ป๐ถ๐๐ถ๐ฎ๐น ๐๐ต๐ผ๐๐ด๐ต๐ ๐ถ๐ ๐๐ผ๐๐ฟ ๐ด๐๐ ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐๐ฝ๐ผ๐ป๐๐ฒ ๐ฎ๐ป๐ฑ ๐๐ถ๐น๐น ๐ฐ๐๐ฒ ๐๐ผ๐ ๐ถ๐ป ๐๐ผ ๐๐ต๐ฒ๐๐ต๐ฒ๐ฟ ๐ผ๐ฟ ๐ป๐ผ๐ ๐๐ต๐ฎ๐ ๐๐๐๐น๐ฒ ๐ถ๐ ๐ผ๐ป๐ฒ ๐๐ผ๐ ๐๐ฟ๐๐น๐ ๐น๐ผ๐๐ฒ.โโโโโโโโ
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Itโs not easy work to catch these thoughts but it is SO worth it. โโโโโโโโ
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Have you ever noticed the difference between how you ๐๐ต๐ถ๐ป๐ธ you look in something versus how you ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐๐๐ฎ๐น๐น๐ ๐ณ๐ฒ๐ฒ๐น in something? โโโโโโโโ
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PS - if you haven't signed up for my newsletter yet, head to my bio and click the link to do so now! I explore concepts like these in even more detail so you can begin to make the changes that will set you up for having a style you love. ๐
06/28/2022
If theyโre going to stare anyway, you might as well wear whatever the eff you want. โโโโโโโโ
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The truth is people are going to stare and judge no matter what. Going with this idea that you might as well give them something nice to look at is still encouraging you to dress with somebody else in mind. โโโโโโโโ
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Donโt dress to give people a show. Dress to please yourself. โโโโโโโโ
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๐๐ค๐ช๐ง ๐ฌ๐๐๐ก๐ ๐๐จ ๐ฉ๐๐ ๐ค๐ฃ๐ก๐ฎ ๐ค๐ฃ๐ ๐ฉ๐๐๐ฉโ๐จ ๐ฌ๐ค๐ง๐ฉ๐ ๐๐๐ซ๐๐ฃ๐ ๐ ๐๐๐ข๐ฃ ๐๐๐ค๐ช๐ฉ. โโโโโโโโ
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PS - Need help dressing to please yourself? Go ahead and hit that 'schedule a free style strategy session' button after you click the link in my bio. โโโโโโโโ
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This isn't your typical, learn all the rules to fit in styling service. This is a forget the rules, here's how to create your own unique look styling service. We're not like a regular styling service, we're a cool styling service. ๐๐ผโโ๏ธ
06/14/2022
You can wear so much more than you think. You can wear so many more styles than what you're currently allowing yourself to wear. โโโโโโโโ
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You ๐๐๐ฃ rock white jeans, curvy b***y, cellulite and all. โโโโโโโโ
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You ๐๐๐ฃ wear a silky slip dress without having flat abs. โโโโโโโโ
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You ๐๐๐ฃ go sleeveless with pale arms that are bigger than you'd like them to be. โโโโโโโโ
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๐๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐๐จ๐๐ฒ ๐๐จ๐๐ฌ ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐๐๐๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฐ๐ก๐๐ญ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐๐๐ง ๐๐ง๐ ๐๐๐ง๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ฐ๐๐๐ซ. ๐๐จ๐ฎ ๐๐จ.โโโโโโโโ
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For me, it was everything above for all the reasons listed. Now I confidently rock all of those styles. Not because I changed my body but because I changed my mind. โโโโโโโโ
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PS - To start changing your outlook on style, head to my bio and sign up for your free virtual style strategy session. We'll talk about what's holding you back and how to move forward to a style you love.โโโโโโโโ
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06/07/2022
This most underrated aspect of great style might surprise you...โโโโโโโโ
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As far as society has come in embracing the beauty of unique and individual bodies, the clothing industry has a long way to go to catch up.โโโโโโโโ
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There's an easier way โก๏ธ ๐ฟ๐ค๐ฃ'๐ฉ ๐ฉ๐ง๐ฎ ๐ฉ๐ค ๐๐๐ฉ ๐ฉ๐๐ ๐๐ก๐ค๐ฉ๐๐๐จ. ๐๐๐ ๐ ๐ฉ๐๐ ๐๐ก๐ค๐ฉ๐๐๐จ ๐๐๐ฉ ๐๐๐.โโโโโโโโ
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Consider this - would you rather go to a dozen stores to try on dozens of pieces and scroll online forever over days and days, ordering and returning, ordering and returning, ordering and returning, (you get the picture) to find the perfect fitting pair of jeans...โโโโโโโโ
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..๐ข๐ฅ ๐๐ผ๐๐น๐ฑ ๐๐ผ๐ ๐ฟ๐ฎ๐๐ต๐ฒ๐ฟ ๐๐ฟ๐ ๐ผ๐ป ๐ฎ ๐ณ๐ฒ๐ ๐ฝ๐ฎ๐ถ๐ฟ๐, ๐๐ฎ๐ธ๐ฒ ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐ผ๐ป๐ฒ ๐๐ถ๐๐ต ๐ฎ ๐๐๐๐น๐ฒ ๐๐ผ๐ ๐ก๐ค๐ซ๐ ๐ฎ๐ป๐ฑ ๐๐ถ๐บ๐ฝ๐น๐ ๐ฐ๐ต๐ฎ๐ป๐ด๐ฒ ๐ถ๐ ๐ถ๐ป ๐ฎ ๐ฐ๐ผ๐๐ฝ๐น๐ฒ ๐๐ฝ๐ผ๐๐ ๐๐ผ ๐ณ๐ถ๐ ๐๐ผ๐ ๐ฝ๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ณ๐ฒ๐ฐ๐๐น๐?โโโโโโโโ
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06/01/2022
As a stylist Iโm supposed to love shows like What Not to Wear but really there is a big problemโฆโฆโฆโฆ.โโโโโโโโ
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In realityโฆ. there is no right or wrong way to dress!โโโโโโโโ
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A better way to approach style is to redefine what 'right' means. An outfit is right, and a piece is right, if you really ๐ก๐ค๐ซ๐ it.โโโโโโโโ
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This definition of 'right' when it comes to your style keeps the focus on you and what you love.โโโโโโโโ
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It takes the pressure off so you can play, explore, and experiment with different pairings and new styles. You develop your own unique style by learning what lights you up.โโโโโโโโ
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Speaking of lighting up, what's your stance on disco balls? ๐ชฉโโโโโโโโ
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Heck yea bring 'em back or I'm good? Personally, anything that creates sparkle and shine is an instant yes for me! โโโโโโโโ
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PS - If you're ready to ditch the style rules and find out what lights you up, check out my free style power word exercise. It walks you through how to define what's right for you when it comes to style. Head to the link in my bio to sign up!โโโโโโโโ
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