09/25/2026
“Now you can do whatever you want.”
Okay, but what if you don’t know what that is?
As one woman put it, “But I don’t know who I want to be.”
I get it.
For many years, there was plenty that needed your attention.
Now some of that’s changed, and people are genuinely excited for you.
You may even be excited too, but when asked what you’re going to do next, you don’t know yet.
Recently, I’ve been asking women what changed in their lives and what that was like for them.
Those conversations are part of why I want to talk more about what happens afterwards, when life looks different from what you’d planned.
I’m calling this series “Still Want This?”
For the next 30 days, I’ll share things you may not have reconsidered because they worked for the life you had before.
Things like keeping the house you chose together, even though you’re the only one living there now.
You may want to stay, or you may have wanted to move for years and still feel like you need a good enough reason.
I want to talk about that.
What you want now, what makes it difficult to say so, and what you’d like to do about it.
I’ll be sharing daily on my Substack.
If this is where you are or you’re just a little curious, and join here👇🏾.
