Mauricio Torrealba - Mental performance Coach

To all the moms, and Sports moms.

The early mornings. The long drives. The sidelines. The emotions you carry quietly through every game. We see you.

You celebrate the wins. You feel the losses. And sometimes, you carry the heartbreak your athlete doesn’t even know how to express yet. You’ve watched them smile after great games, and go silent after hard ones.

And through all of it, you keep showing up. Not just as a parent. But as their support system, their safe place, their belief when confidence gets shaky.

The impact you have goes far beyond sports. Thank you for every sacrifice, every conversation, every moment of encouragement when they needed it most.

Happy Mother’s Day to the moms helping raise resilient athletes, and even stronger humans.

There was a time when I thought something was wrong with me as an athlete.

I trained well.
I had opportunities.
I knew I was capable.

But when the game started,it didn’t show up the same way. One mistake would change everything. I’d start thinking too much. Second-guessing decisions. Playing smaller than I actually was.

And no one ever explained why. For a long time, I thought it was confidence. It wasn’t. It was the fact that I had never been trained on what to do in those moments.

That realization changed everything.

It led me to study Sport Psychology, and eventually work with athletes who were going through the exact same thing.

And the pattern is always the same:

Great in practice.
Different in games.

Not because of talent. Because the mental side of performance was never developed.

That’s why I built Total Mentality Pro.

Not just to motivate athletes. But to give them clarity
when the game gets real. So they don’t have to guess. They don’t have to spiral.

They can just play. Dm me MINDSET to have more info!

One of the hardest things to watch as a parent is this: You know your child is good.

You’ve seen it in training. You’ve seen moments where everything clicks. And then… game day comes.And somehow, it’s not the same.

They hesitate.
They rush things.
They don’t look like themselves.

It’s frustrating, not because they’re playing “bad” but because you know there’s more there.

What most people don’t realize is:

This isn’t about talent. And it’s not just “confidence” either. It’s that no one ever showed them what to actually do in those moments.

So they guess.
They react.
They get stuck in their own head.

And over time, that becomes a pattern. The shift doesn’t happen when they “feel better.” It happens when they finally have clarity in the middle of the game.

When something goes wrong… and instead of spiraling, they stay in it. That’s when you start seeing the real player come out.

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Most parents don’t really ask, “Is this too expensive?” They ask something deeper: “Is this worth it for my child?”

And that’s the right question. Because by this stage, you’re already investing in training, travel, and competition.

The physical side is being developed. But what happens when the game gets real?

When a mistake happens. When pressure builds. When performance drops. That’s not a talent issue. That’s the part most athletes were never trained for.

So the real question becomes: What does it cost to keep ignoring it?

Missed opportunities.
Inconsistent performance.
A gap between ability and ex*****on.

Mental performance isn’t extra. At higher levels, it’s part of the process.