Linda Hoyt - Life Coach

It's amazing how quickly your standards are reassessed as soon as you learn that soon there will be another life in your hands.

What was once acceptable, now has no place in your life at all.

This is a great thing!

One of the best gifts about becoming a mother is the opportunity you have to grow into the highest version of yourself.

What was once a dream, is now simply a new standard.

Unfortunately, sometimes our new standards are still followed by old beliefs.

Some beliefs are good and keep us empowered and protected.

Others, known and unknown, limit our thinking about what is NOW possible for us.

The truth is…
✨ You are NOT broken
✨ There are PLENTY of men out there who would happily date a single mom
✨ MANY second marriages DO work and last a LIFETIME
✨ Children are deeply loved by others who aren't in their bloodline…because all children require is love (and people love that)

Yes, the opposite can also feel true…if that's what you CHOOSE to believe.

But your deepest desires were put there for a reason…because it's possible for you too.

And those limiting beliefs were created by trauma (big and small).

Shift your beliefs. Change your reality.

I can show you how.

DM me the word “SHIFT” to learn more.

What are you willing to give up?
Time?
Money?
Sweets?
An idea...?

How bad do you REALLY want it?

Most people want to attract more abundance into their lives, but miss the part about giving something up - which is always REQUIRED.

These things aren't always physical. Many times they come in the form of an IDEA or BELIEF.

In fact, I do this DAILY.

I give up a limiting belief ("I'm a single mom and have no time") for one that serves me better ("If I can create a child. I can create more time!")

What beliefs are limiting you?

Comment "Give It Up" and affirm what you're willing to give up and what your attracting into your life.

If you know, you know.

Every Relationship is NEW
The only thing that remains the same is YOU
If you want a NEW type of RELATIONSHIP,
you have to take on a NEW type of MINDSET.
If you don't see anything of value from your past relationships,
you will inevitably be disappointed in the next one.
✨ Be grateful for the experience
✨ See value in everyone, and you will be VALUED
✨ Accept this as TRUTH
✨ RENEW your mind
✨ Watch what happens..
Comment "New" to affirm you're ready to experience something NEW!

Because you're worth it

It's easy to get STILL.
It's hard to stay in the DISCOMFORT,
but when you know what comes next..
✨ You start to ENJOY the discomfort
✨ It means your DREAMS are coming TRUE
✨ HAPPINESS is a CHOICE
✨ The happier you are, the FASTER they come true!
Comment "HAPPY" it this has served you today.
Happy FRIDAY Everyone!

You ever wonder why love always comes when you're not looking for it?
It happens because you are enjoying your life and FEEL that love inside of you.
✨ This energy is MAGNETIC and pulls people closer to you.
So why haven't you found love yet?
✨ Because you haven't learned to match your ENERGY with your DESIRES.
The problem isn't that there's not enough quality men out there.
That's just what you see because that is what you are FOCUSED on.
✨ When you change your focus, you change your ENERGY.
✨ Knowing what you desire is one thing, LIVING it is an entirely different thing.
Mind, Heart, and Energy
,✨ When these are aligned, you get what you desire
FOCUS on what you desire
FEEL it's what you deserve
MOVE like it's already here
✨ Create the love you want inside and it will show up for you.
Comment “Love” to affirm what you desire and attract more into your life.

I truly believe that most relationships fail because they don't take enough time BEFORE they get into a relationship to think about what it is they REALLY want.

What if I told you that 2hrs of planning would help you manifest a dream relationship within 2 months..

Would you do it?

THIS has ACTUALLY happened for so many people 

How many more weeks, months, years do you want to waste “hoping” it will be the next one?

👩🏼‍🎓 Make a PLAN (adopted from Tony Robbins):

▪️ WRITE down ALL of the things you want out of a relationship. (Circle your MUSTs)

▪️ WRITE down EVERYTHING you DON'T want in a relationship. (Circle your ABSOLUTE NOs)

▪️ Look at both lists, any contradictions? (DECIDE what matters most)

▪️ WRITE a separate list of your MUSTs and ABSOLUTES. (Think of how it would feel to have that person in your life)

✨ NOW, Who do you have to become to attract a person like that?

(THIS is YOUR PLAN)

What if I told you that person EXISTS and was just waiting for you to feel WORTHY of their love?

You are WORTHY

THEY are Waiting 

What are you willing to give up to have everything you ever wanted? 

Comment “PLAN” to affirm what is rightfully yours…and watch who comes into your life 💛

I have always prided myself in seeing the BEST in people and wanting the best for them; however,

most people are perfectly fine with being exactly who they are. 

This is not a judgement.

This is a FACT.

The BEST THING you can do for people, is let them be who they are.

If they do something that makes you think 

“with enough time spent with me, that will change”

KNOW that it WON'T.

Yes, they “love” you and say they “need” you…but true love doesn't hurt.

When you're dating someone who shows you a side of themselves that 

“just doesn't sit right” with you

RUN!! 

Yes, they have great qualities and check so many boxes…but why do their actions make you feel a little queezy?

Because they're not good for you.

Trust your body. 

Believe it the first time.

There are men who WILL make you feel good ALL of the time.

Truly.

Want More because MORE WANTS YOU!

It's just waiting for you to feel worthy of it.

And, you are…worth it.

Break the CYCLE.

Comment “Worthy” to declare this as YOUR new TRUTH.