08/26/2024
Running a business in this town on and off for the past 10 years has been one of the wildest rides of my life. Personally, I lived through a LOT of life. I experienced two divorces, navigating life as a single mother, the turmoil of a covertly abusive relationship, a complete transformation of many dysfunctional behaviors of my own which I had truly believed was “goodness” inside of my little ole heart, but instead was codependency, people-pleasing, & taking responsibility for other people’s emotions. Most recently I experienced the death of my mother. Being transparent about, sharing my journey, & triumphing through the above will forever be my biggest flex. 💪🏽
In business, I felt the full spectrum of emotions. There were months where I barely scraped by, questioning if it was all worth it. There were moments where I felt on top of the world knowing that what I was doing made a huge impact on others. I lived through a closing of the business and a re-opening and now I’m faced with another closing. I've witnessed such incredible kindness—for instance, when my women pulled together to secretly raise thousands of dollars to help send my chronically ill son to the Mayo Clinic or when they brought donations for my Grandma to shop for our entire family at Christmas from her living room since shopping is something she can no longer physically partake in. I have received the most heartfelt gifts, letters, and words anyone could ever ask for. The incredible support I have received has meant the world to my family and I. On the flip side, there was a time where I faced harsh criticism I wouldn’t wish on my worst enemy. I've had people bash my name and leave my business merely based on rumors they heard about me—situations they knew nothing about. And honestly, to this day, I still believe if they knew the full truth, they’d be ashamed of themselves for the way they treated (some still actively treat) me and my business, but I digress.
All of these ups and downs were part of my journey. Sometimes the road was smooth; other times, it felt like I was navigating a complete storm. Through it all, I persevered. I’ve dealt with physical challenges like plantar fasciitis, an injured shoulder, mowed the top of my toe off 😂🤦🏻♀️, a car accident that required physical therapy, hip issues, COVID, the flu, and surgeries. But even with all of that, I kept showing up. Each new challenge taught me something valuable. I’ve on the flip side ran my fastest half marathon time, PR’d a mile run under 7 minutes, lifted heavier than I ever knew I could, and gotten into the best shape of my entire life (2022 😉). Both successes and failures have fueled my passion to carry on over the years.
MisSTEVIEous has been so much more than running a business. For me, it was about growing, learning, and becoming stronger every day—physically, mentally, and emotionally. I gave everything inside of myself to instill this into every client that stepped foot in my doors as well. Even if this chapter is closing, I’m proud of the woman I’ve become through it all. I’m proud of the women my clients have become too. We learned, we grew, and we became stronger and for that I am forever proud!
The picture below was from when I changed the gym name in 2015 from Sweat Like a Girl to MisSTEVIEous. With the help of the amazing Amy Shout with Turquoise Spur Designs, we went above and beyond designing a new logo, we also defined the meaning. I hope that every woman that walked through any of the studio doors of MisSTEVIEous Fitness over the years knows exactly what it’s like to experience “MisSTEVIEous” defined because it is so much more than a place to work out, it truly is a state of being. My wish is for myself and each of “my” girls to hold that state in our souls forever. 💜💪🏽
Thanks for everything ladies! Now come back it up one more time Friday morning at 5AM!
✌🏽, 💜 & Shake Dat 🍑,
Stevie