09/14/2026
With fall season in full swing, Iâm getting a lot of texts, videos and verbal reports of hitters starting slow or coming out of the gates hot, over thinking, doing well, etc.
For those whoâve trained with me for a long time, understand my philosophy for success at the plate: selfishness + the eagerness to win
Let me explain.
Being in the pursuit of winning is the ultimate mindset for athletes. Wanting to win will showcase all the other qualities we want to see in athletes: focus, determination, aggression, composure, hard work, discipline, etc.
Baseball and softball are a team sport. Winning the game is more important than individual stats. Wanting to win and being a piece to that W will let the hitter understand that their AB is a piece to big winning picture. Find a way to be productive, do a job.
On the flip side, hitters hit âaloneâ in the box. Itâs a 1 on 1 battle between pitcher and hitter. BE SELFISH in that moment. Look for your pitch, get yourself on time, deliver your healthy swings. Worrying about the judgement of others will hinder those selfish thoughts because now you need to âget a hitâ or âhave a good swingâ because youâre worried about what parents, coaches or peers will think. Thatâs the formula for failure. Trust me, I know
I also know that wanting to win and prioritizing myself in the box is an elite combo. But you canât just flip that switch on in the game. That mindset needs to be built at practice / at home.
Practice: strive for perfection but know it wonât happen. But still strive. Limit your Miss-hits in practice. Be a barrel machine. Feel good! Look good! Compete with your friends. Who can hit the back net on a line the most? Who can square up the outside pitch the most? Create a winning environment. Get your teammates on board. Win sprints, win ground balls, win eye contact with coach the longest. Win energy, win attentiveness. Those habits will translate to your game if you do that on a weekly / daily basis.
Home: take your time. Thereâs no line, no coach. Itâs you, your bat and the ball. Understand your mechanics. Put music on. Have a bag of chips or a drink with you. Create an oasis for YOURSELF. Take your time with YOUR drills. Not just â100 swings.â Why waste time at home just hitting balls into a net? You can do that at practice. Home work (and lessons) is the time to experiment / challenge without consequences. Super high tee, super low tee, hard drills, heavy balls, mini balls, skinny bat, short bat. Sometimes at practice you donât have the luxury to focus on yourself with that much detail and time.
âAnxietyâ âfearâ is self inflicted. Lack of preparation is usually the big reason. âNeeds more confidenceâ is the solution I hear a lot. HA HA HA. How do you build confidence then? ReadyâŠâŠget better. Any human wonât be confident in something they donât see themselves executing all the time. Ask a homeowner fixing a plumbing issue with no plumbing experience. After 5 hours on YouTube and job well done, they say âI could do that again easily đ.â Ask a driver who hasnât gotten into an accident in 20 years. Ask if they think theyâre a good driver. Ask a student who didnât study for their math test if theyâre âreadyâ to ace this testâŠthen go ask the student whoâs been studying for 5 days straight.
Want more confidence? Take care of business in practice and at home. Be eager to win because then those 2 things will come much more natural. Donât care about winning? Then I donât expect you to care much about those details.