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10/14/2026

For many women, the physical healing is only part of the experience.

It’s everything that comes with it that can feel overwhelming.

And there are two things I hear from women again and again.

1️⃣ The emotional side of recovery.

Even when a hysterectomy is something you’ve wanted or needed for years, the emotions afterward can catch you off guard.

You might feel relieved that the pain or heavy bleeding is finally behind you.

But you might also experience grief, sadness, frustration, or a sense of loss that you weren’t expecting.

Sometimes, those feelings exist at the same time.

And when everyone around you assumes you should be feeling better because the surgery is over, it can be difficult to explain why you’re still struggling.

2️⃣ Not knowing what recovery is supposed to feel like.

You’re given instructions about lifting restrictions, wound care, and when you can return to normal activities.

But what about the heaviness in your pelvis?

The changes in your bladder?

The fatigue that seems to come out of nowhere?

Or the fear of doing too much because you’re not sure what’s normal and what isn’t?

So many women find themselves second-guessing every sensation because they don’t know what to expect.

And that uncertainty can make recovery feel even harder.

Here’s what I want you to know.

You can be grateful for your surgery and still struggle with recovery.

You can be healing well and still need more support.

And you can be medically cleared without feeling physically or emotionally ready to return to everything you were doing before.

Your recovery deserves attention beyond your surgical follow-up.

As a pelvic floor physical therapist, I believe women deserve to understand what’s happening in their bodies and have access to support that helps them feel confident moving forward.

You shouldn’t have to figure it all out on your own. ❤️

💬 Comment FIVE and I’ll send you my FREE guide on the 5 mistakes to avoid after hysterectomy, so you can feel more informed and supported during your recovery.

10/13/2026

There’s an unspoken timeline after a hysterectomy.

At first, people check on you.

They ask how you’re feeling.

They want to know how recovery is going.

Then the appointments become less frequent.

You’re cleared to return to normal activities.

Life moves on.

And eventually, everyone assumes you’re healed.

But what if your body doesn’t feel like it got the memo?

Maybe you still feel pelvic pressure or heaviness.

Maybe s*x feels different or uncomfortable.

Maybe your bladder habits changed.

Maybe you’re dealing with leaking, urgency, constipation, abdominal weakness, or discomfort that you’ve quietly learned to work around.

And after enough time passes, it can feel strange to bring it up.

It’s been years.

Shouldn’t you be “better” by now?

But healing doesn’t have an expiration date.

And the fact that your surgery happened years ago doesn’t mean you have to accept symptoms that are still affecting your daily life.

A hysterectomy changes more than an incision.

Your pelvic floor, abdominal wall, breathing mechanics, scar tissue, strength, mobility, and the way your whole system works together can all be part of the recovery conversation.

Even years later.

So if something still feels off, you’re allowed to talk about it.

You’re allowed to ask questions.

And you’re allowed to want more than simply learning how to live around it.

If you’re navigating hysterectomy recovery and wondering what deserves more attention, comment FIVE and I’ll send you my free Hysterectomy Recovery Guide. 👇

10/06/2026

Hysterectomy recovery can bring a lot of unexpected questions.

Knowing what’s normal, what to watch for, and what can help makes a difference.

Comment FIVE and I’ll send you my free guide on the 5 mistakes to avoid after hysterectomy. 👇

10/05/2026

Six weeks can sound like a finish line.

But for many women, being medically cleared after a hysterectomy doesn’t necessarily mean they feel completely recovered.

Months later, you might still be dealing with things you weren’t expecting.

Pelvic floor weakness.

Bladder changes or leaking.

Heaviness or pressure.

A core that doesn’t feel like your own yet.

Fatigue that seems to linger.

Discomfort with certain movements or exercise.

Or simply feeling frustrated because you thought you’d be “back to normal” by now.

Recovery from a hysterectomy is about more than whether your incision has healed.

Your pelvic floor and deep core may need time and support as you gradually return to everyday movement, exercise, work, and everything else life asks of you.

And if you’re still experiencing symptoms months later, it doesn’t mean you should automatically ignore them because your six-week appointment has already passed.

You’re allowed to ask questions.

You’re allowed to seek additional support.

And you’re allowed to want more guidance than “everything looks healed.”

If you’re preparing for a hysterectomy or trying to make sense of recovery afterward, I created a free guide to help you feel more informed about what to expect and what questions to ask.

Comment FIVE and I’ll send it to you.

After hysterectomy, it’s common to unconsciously brace through your abdomen or shift into smaller, shallower breaths.It ...
10/02/2026

After hysterectomy, it’s common to unconsciously brace through your abdomen or shift into smaller, shallower breaths.

It can feel protective, especially early in recovery.

But your diaphragm, abdominal wall, core, and pelvic floor are designed to work together. When that coordination changes, it can affect how well your core and pelvic floor respond during movement, lifting, and everyday activity.

Before jumping straight into “strengthening,” it can be helpful to rebuild that connection first.

I created a free guide that walks you through how to breathe correctly after hysterectomy and start reconnecting your breath, core, and pelvic floor.

Comment BREATHE and I’ll send you the guide. 👇

09/30/2026

Comment BREATHE and I’ll send you my free guide to help you restore your breathing and support your recovery after hysterectomy.

If you’ve been wondering why your body suddenly feels different in midlife, you’re not imagining it.Perimenopause can af...
09/29/2026

If you’ve been wondering why your body suddenly feels different in midlife, you’re not imagining it.

Perimenopause can affect so much more than your period.

Sleep. Energy. Strength. Metabolism. Hormones. And your pelvic floor.

That’s why I’m excited to be part of Thrive Through Perimenopause & Beyond, a FREE virtual speaker series bringing together experts across women’s health to help you better understand what’s happening in your body and what you can actually do about it.

My session, Beyond Kegels: Take Back Control of Your Pelvic Floor, airs October 9.

We’ll talk about leaking, urgency, pressure, pain and other pelvic floor changes that women are too often told to simply accept as part of getting older.

You deserve better information than that.

The Summit runs October 6–13.

Grab your FREE ticket through the link in my bio.

Kristi Bowlby | Holistic Nutrition + Health Coach

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