09/24/2026
"Love spells take away someone’s free will!"
I saw a comment the other day saying they can’t stand love spells because it doesn't sit well to take away someone’s bodily autonomy and free will.
Honestly? It irks me so much because it shows a complete lack of foundational understanding when it comes to spellwork, energy, and how reality actually operates.
Let’s clear a few things up about the actual mechanics.
The energy required to force someone to love you is insane and self-defeating.
People talk about love spells like they’re a permanent, cinematic mind-control switch.
In reality? How often is a spell meant to force a toxic bond or chain someone to you actually successful long-term?
It’s slim to none.
Love is a thick, heavy energy.
To forcibly dominate another soul’s path, you have to constantly feed, anchor, and maintain that heavy frequency against their natural energetic baseline and personal spirit team.
Most people simply do not have the raw energetic output, discipline, or stamina to sustain that.
When you try to override Soul Sovereignty through brute-force domination, you aren't building love; you’re building a pressure cooker.
The spell usually fizzles out, or worse, sours into obsession, resentment, and an exhausting energetic leak that drains your vitality just to keep the delusion alive.
To forcibly dominate another soul's path, you have to constantly feed and maintain that heavy frequency against their natural energetic baseline, which will eventually drain you dry.
Love spells are WAY broader than just binding a person.
Reducing an entire category of magic down to controlling a lover shows a total lack of practical experience.
Love magic is foundational environmental work.
It’s about warmth, soft landings, conflict resolution, self-compassion, and harmony.
I’ll cast a love spell and light an infused candle when I know I’m going into a tough, heavy conversation with someone I care about; simply because we need more love, grace, and open-hearted patience to fill the space between us.
I’m not changing who they are; I’m changing the temperature of the room so we can actually hear each other.
The hypocrisy around Free Will and Soul Sovereignty is wild.
This is the part that gets me the most.
Well... fu***ng DUH it affects free will!
Every spell interferes with free will.
When you do a spell for a new job, are you not interfering with the free will of the hiring manager?
When you protect your home, are you not interfering with the free will of a predator?
Magic is about shifting and changing reality.
You aren't enslaving a soul; you are highlighting a path that wasn't visible before.
Cast a spell to get a job?
Guess what?
someone else goes without that paycheck so you can have it. You directly influenced the hiring manager’s perception and choice.
Cast a protection spell?
You’re neutralizing or blocking someone else’s raw intent and energetic trajectory.
Cast for abundance or housing?
You are shifting finite physical and energetic resources in a shared world.
Every time you step up to your altar, you are shifting the pieces on the board and altering the ripple effect of choices around you.
Picking out love spells as the ultimate spiritual sin while pretending your money or success spells operate in a vacuum is pure hypocrisy.
Magic is about manipulating reality and every single spell you cast influences the ripple effect of choices around you.
Soul Sovereignty doesn't mean existing in a bubble where your energy never touches anyone else.
We are constantly exerting subtle energetic pressure on each other just by breathing, talking, and existing in proximity.
Magic is simply the intentional direction of that energy.
If your ethics require you to pretend your magic touches no one else's path, you don't actually understand how interconnected energy works.
Soul Sovereignty doesn't mean living in an energetic bubble, because true magic is simply the intentional direction of energy in an interconnected world.
Stop neutering the craft to fit performative online discourse.
Understand the mechanics of energy before you preach about it.