09/11/2026
What should a horse’s first ride look like?
For me, this is exactly what I’m looking for: quiet, relaxed, soft, and willing.
This mare has only been here a short time, and today was her first ride with me. She was a little sticky about moving forward, which is completely understandable. A horse carrying a rider for the first time is processing a lot of new information — the weight of the rider, the feel of the saddle, rein contact, leg pressure, balance, and learning how all of those things work together.
My goal on a first ride is not to make a horse perform. It’s to introduce the idea of carrying a rider and give them a positive, understandable experience.
That means I want them moving forward, changing direction, and experiencing all three gaits when appropriate. I also want them comfortable traveling both directions. These early rides are where we begin establishing the basics that everything else will eventually build on.
I know some people may question using a bit on a first ride. I believe the important part is how the bit was introduced beforehand. This mare had already been worked in the bit on the ground, including flexing, backing, and learning to respond softly to pressure. Because of that preparation, the transition to carrying the bit under saddle was not a brand-new experience for her.
I typically start young or inexperienced horses in a lightly weighted copper snaffle with O-rings. The copper encourages salivation, while the small amount of weight helps the bit settle consistently in the horse’s mouth. I’ve found that many young horses carry this type of bit comfortably and quietly.
And this is why I put so much emphasis on groundwork.
The first ride should not be where you start teaching the horse. It should be where you begin putting together things they already understand.
When the foundation is there, you don’t have to fight the horse, overwhelm them, or create unnecessary drama just to say you got on.
You go back to the horse.
You listen to what they’re telling you.
You give them time to understand.
And most importantly, you build their confidence one ride at a time.
Good first rides aren’t about how much you can accomplish. They’re about how much you can prepare the horse to understand. 🐴