Clee Stacy - Emotional & Spiritual Support

Whatever you’re feeling - it’s normal, natural, and makes complete sense based on your entire life’s experiences!!!

Maybe you don’t understand it consciously or logically, but your body and mind make no mistakes.

It is a perfectly intelligent system.

There is nothing wrong with you and nothing wrong with what you’re feeling and thinking.

They might hurt. They might not be kind. They may not be “correct” in that you may not need to act on any thoughts you might have.

But, whatever way you’re feeling, makes sense ☺️❤️‍🩹 even if you don’t understand it, the body/mind system does and is taking care of you.

Richmond upon Thames, London in the summer is the most magic 🌾☀️🥹

My intuition or self knowing is increasing literally daily at the moment and I feel so much more self trusting, kind, loving and honouring of this life and body I exist in.

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A softness is moving through and taking the place of the hardness 🌸

✨ I don’t know why it’s happening - I’m not actively working towards it, I’m not doing daily practices, I have no coach that’s telling me what to do, I’m not following a course…

Its just happening

The most magical shifts that I *REALLY* thought that I had to *DO* something to create….

Are happening because I stopped trying

Or maybe not because of anything

They’re just happening

“Surrender” even is just something the mind does.

You can’t really choose to surrender.

The surrender just happens.

It’s just happening.

No choice

No work

No decision

No mentoring

Nothing.

Just softening
And authentic anger
And sweetness
And deep adoration and awe with Sebastian Robeck
And compassion
And relief
And guilt and sadness for friendships and relationships that I can see are falling away
And complete okay-ness with all of these things

And then moments of not-okay

And then seeing an okay-ness with the not-okay-ness

Mmmmmm 🌸☺️🌺✨🌊

Also, a real desire to be in Bali or Hawaii or Thailand or somewhere super tropical and feminine and warm and beautiful!!! 🌺🌊✨

Wow this life!

You know how there is always a million pieces of context to any situation?

When it’s hard to know the right thing to do?

Sometimes I wish there could be a big computer that collates ALL the data of life:
- the weather
- people’s emotions
- people’s thoughts
- current popular opinion
- astrology
- political happenings
- time of year
- what people ate that day
- who died and was born
- life situations like weddings, divorces, funerals, moving house, visas being accepted and denied

Etc etc etc

And then gives me an answer on what I should do that’s best for me and best for everyone else.

Turn out there is….

It’s called intuition ⚡️😉

I just cancelled my only workout of the week I honestly feel pathetic. Like I really should go. Like I’m a big wuss for not going. I’ve got a damn wedding to get in shape for! (Tyler Chambliss’s not mine hehe)

But

I also woke up feeling very sweaty and hot
Temp at 37c (it’s been rising daily for a week)
I feel slow slow slow
And I feel like I just wonna rest
Be gentle and soft
Take a super gentle walk, wrapping up warm and letting the soft drizzle sooth me.

Honestly, even walking to the gym feels like a push today.

I just spent an hour in my head trying to work it out 🤯🧠

It didn’t work. Eughhh

Seb said “you’re in your head, listen to your heart”

Which is true.

But I couldn’t. lol

Then I remembered something Laura Wilkes shared about phases of our cycles as women and what kind of exercise and movement works at different times.

So I checked my email for slides she did in a workshop from 2020. It reminded me of some important things.

I’m day 35 of my menstrual cycle.
Luteal phase
This mean - slow down. Stay calm.
The dominant hormone of this internal season is progesterone, aka the “sloth” hormone. To slow and calm me. To find safety in order to bleed.

The last thing I need is intense weight lifting with intense party music (as much as I love it!🎶)

So, I cancelled the class.

And told my body that I got her 🩷

And that if there is feelings of guilt and thinking I’m pathetic, then so be it. But im prioritising my softness over my strength today.

Not weakness, but SOFTNESS ✨🥰

I don’t know if this was the right choice (my mind is so loud).

But I can feel my body thanking me 🥰

If I began an online mediation and “community healing” group, would you be interested? 🌱☺️🧘🏼‍♀️

It will be very human, no spiritual rules, “come as you are”, with whatever mediation experience you do or don’t have. It’s just a place to get quiet together, and share how we *really* are.

It would likely be Tuesday evenings at 6:30 (UK time)

(US friends welcome, but I know it’s your midday 🙏🏼)

Would you come?

Don’t gaslight yourself by convincing yourself that your suffering is “all in your head”

Or that it can be fixed with mindset work.

This is still OLD PARADIGM.

It’s the best that the old paradigm had to offer, don’t get me wrong.

But it won’t work on its own.

If you’re done all the mindset work, and you even created a life that looks like your dream - but you’re still FEELING disconnected, seeking, like it’s not “it” but it SHOULD be…

It’s likely that your next step is connecting to your:
- body
- emotions
- feelings
- physical sensations
- intuition

If you’ve excelled at mindset stuff:

1. AMAZING!!!! You’re ahead of most. You’ll want to put it to one side, or halt the learning in this area. But know it’s brilliant and definitely a necessary part of your path and process.

2. It’s gonna be hard - your mind will want to be right / take over / be very very loud. It won’t like being sidelined.

That’s ok. You gave it SO much airtime. That’s how you become an expert in it.

But to get to the next level, you have to let it be a demanding little thing. Just don’t let it take over 🙂

The mind needs: hard training and guiding

The body needs: gentle listening and being guided BY it.

☺️🩷☺️🩷☺️🩷☺️

Personally, even though I’ve known this stuff for ages, and spoken about it like I KNOW it all… I really haven’t been able to gently listen… be kind…. Feel love for my body… listen to the sensations and let them play out… surrender to what my body needs, listening really deeply…

And I’m only really just genuinely understanding this now.

Where are you at in all this mind vs/+ body work stuff?

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I have NO idea why I’m changing my name, photo and cover photo here - I don’t actually wonna work yet! 🤔😅

And I don’t want it to feel like work.

EW.

Everytime I think about working, I get all antsy inside.

For a while I thought it was about all of “work”.

But I think it’s something very few people are talking about…

Business coaching really only teaches the very masculine way of doing business.

🤷🏼‍♀️ That you have to launch in a certain way

🤷🏼‍♀️ That you have to hold yourself to a specific structure

🤷🏼‍♀️ That you have to be on social media to get clients

🤷🏼‍♀️ That you have to be consistent daily, weekly, throughout the year to get clients

🤷🏼‍♀️ That you have to take payment, organise calls and structure content etc in the super structured way.

BUT I CANT DO IT🥵

I cannot.
Nope
Nah
Nejjj

But I DO love supporting people 🩷🌹🦋

I have friends and my meditation group that I love to support, but those spaces are so very dynamic and fluid and flexible….

And there is SO much changing for everyone right now.

… including how business is done.

The rules are changing.

Energy is being realised to be WAY more important than before.

And I’m not interested in doing business in a masculine way anymore

I’m growing in my readiness to find the feminine paradigm of business 🌹

This is my current experience and one that I’m not putting energy into tbh, but just something I’m noticing.

🐛🦋

And for some reason, I’ve had the impulse to change my photos and name here 🤷🏼‍♀️

So, there it is!

Mwah 🩷

[𝘚𝘸𝘪𝘱𝘦 & 𝘒𝘦𝘦𝘱 𝘙𝘦𝘢𝘥𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘰 𝘴𝘦𝘦 𝘸𝘩𝘺 𝘐’𝘮 𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘯 𝘮𝘰𝘳𝘦 𝘦𝘹𝘤𝘪𝘵𝘦𝘥!] Excited to wind up work and head back here this weekend! 😃⁣
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Nothing like natures simple magic to make you realise how simple life is 🪄🏔⁣
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P.s. So excited for the 2 new clients who just committed to coaching from January 2021...⁣
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Their goals are:⁣
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🏔 dialling in routines (personal, spiritual, fitness and business)...⁣
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to maximise their own strengths both in business AND in personal relationships and how they feel day to day ⁣
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🏔 spiritual growth to create a solid foundation for when they remove themselves from their businesses, retire early and can commit to much bigger causes to have a MUCH bigger impact⁣
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🏔 create more time with the people they love⁣
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🏔 tidy up EVERY area of their life to achieve maximum effectiveness in sales, marketing, client creation...⁣
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as well as communication and connection.. so that they can rate every area of life a *true* 10/10. ⁣
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If you want any of this, DM me to see how I can help you create it. ⁣
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Let’s Make 2021 Great Again 😉🏆🔥