Creating a Destiny

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I see your growth ✨✨✨

I've made mistakes and I've had my wounds to heal from. I've been the toxic one too.

I've been relentless in doing the work though. I've made amends, and I've created new patterns.

I'm a good person with a huge heart. I'm safe, I'm thoughtful, and I am honest. I'm healthy, I'm loving, and I'm growing.

If you don't see all the good in me, that's on you. I kept looking for the good in you, even when it got harder and harder to find. You chose what you wanted to see in me.

It doesn't matter if I'm the villain in your story. I know who I am. ✨✨✨

Lol goodnight y'all 😂😂😂

Mesentire commented with this on one of my posts this week and I LOVE IT ✨♥️🙌

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Maybe don't text them tonight okay? ♥️♥️♥️

BESTIES 😂💯🙌♥️

Always 💯💯💯

Thank you for the share Amber. I love this 💯💯💯 💪🏋️‍♀️🔥

Daaaaaamn. This one got me thinking 💯

This may not hit for everyone but it absolutely did for me. Before I started healing I'd talk to everyone about my problem and take no action. If I am honest, being the victim, getting the attention, and telling everyone my drama, was far more validating than taking action. I wasn't ever going to take their advice.

In CoDA (codependents anonymous) we talk about how we will re-tell the story over and over, often to back to back people. It lets us ruminate on it, wind ourselves up, and sustain the drama, all under that guise of "help" or "venting". It was never to truly make a change or get help.

I am so glad I don't do that anymore 😭😭😭🙌

If it misses for you, it misses for you, but it stopped me hard 💯

*Comments were limited because people were commenting without reading the caption. So many people shared it I didn't want to delete it, but I'm done monitoring it.*

Just start ♥️

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YOU WERE ALWAYS WORTHY ✨

As someone who went on cooking strike about 4 years ago, this is terrible news 🤣🤣🤣 Can I microwave it? Do they make this pre-cut and oven ready for me? 😅🤷‍♀️

Your appearance is the least interesting thing about you 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

It's not happening 😂😂😂💯👌

Yup 💯💯💯 They don't even know me now.

I won't ever look down on someone, especially because I've been there. I just know that if I bring down my own level, I lower the average for both of us. I would rather reach out a hand and bring you up to where I'm at. If you don't take my hand, and you don't want to rise up, I'm not coming down there 💯✨🙌

Y'ALL. It's MONDAY and I am so here for it. Let do this 🔥🙌💪

Turns out I'm not "dramatic" actually 🤷‍♀️👌

I don't love the "bad people". It could have just said people, but the message is 💯💯💯

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I will figure it out. I always do 💯

As I started healing I struggled with "getting soft" or "weak" as I gained self-compassion. I was nervous at losing my identity as I became for gentle with myself, and consequently others. The more I healed the less I cared about that. Let people think what they want. They have absolutely NO IDEA 👌

*People ✨✨✨ I LOVE IT.

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OMG yes Stephanie Bennett-Henry 🙌🙌🙌😭😭♥️✨

I'm talking to YOU ✨

Omg YES 🙌🙌🙌💯✨

Reshuffling 💯✨🙌

*All people ✨ 💯🙌

Oh my goodness yes ✨✨✨

Let's OWN this ✨✨✨

This Monday FINALLY feels like 2023 is starting for me ✨✨✨ Looks like I'm still on the old Julian calendar from when the New Year was in March 🤣👌 I'll take it. Let's gooooo universe, I'm ready ♥️

Be careful with people but don't be so careful that you don't shine ✨✨✨

Success Accelerator: A 5 Day Mindset Challenge

What if you could hit your 1 year goals in 1 month?

That is the question my my mindset coach asked in his podcast today. 1 MONTH? Seems unlikely right? That's probably why I was willing to listen to it haha.

He said some things I didn't expect and it really got me thinking. What IF? Seriously though: WHAT IF?

What if instead of taking it slow, being "realistic", or making sure my goals were the overused "SMART" goals, I just WENT FOR IT?

What if we all did? What if we stopped talking ourselves out of everything. Stopped waiting for the right time? Stopped making sure everyone else was taken care of first?

What is possible? What could we create? Who could we become? What could we discover?

UGH. The possibility y'all. Endless.

That has me SO inspired this morning and I wanted to pose that question to you, to ask yourself, and see if it lit you up.

If you love the idea of this, please join me for the FREE group my Mindset Coach, Brad, is running next week.

TODAY IS THE LAST DAY TO JOIN and I would love to partner with you to see WHAT IF?! Just go to CreatingaDestiny.com/Brad to join.

Please let me know if you do, I have private messenger thread for my people only, since the group is big and I want to support you personally

Success Accelerator: A 5 Day Mindset Challenge Discover How High-Performers Achieve Their Goals Faster And Feel Less Stress Than All Their Peers, So You Can Make 2022 The Most Successful & Happy Year of Your Life... Without Working More Hours!

Anyone else? ✨

Make like Elsa 💯❄️❄️❄️