Creating a Destiny

Creating a Destiny


Started my 21 day refresh yesterday...... down 2 pounds. Here is too a great jump start.
Workouts come in all shapes and sizes... today was farm chore day!!!! Think my workout got handled with over 1100 calories burned in two hours!!!! Make your workout what ever you need/want. Keep it moving.
Remember the rose doesn’t ask permission to be unique and beautiful..... it just is! Just like all of us.... Unique and beautiful inside and out!!!!
So good πŸ™ŒπŸ™ŒπŸ™Œ
Awesome πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚
Love it!!!
Kaci Eichhorn πŸ’™ Amber Snow is who got me started!
Did I miss the post for buddies? Anyone still need one?
Because of your workout post today, I made myself workout too. I work nights and take care of a special needs child while my husband works opposite shifts as me. I was so tired and didn't want to do it at all. When I saw your post about your lower body workout, I said to myself, "just push play." Thank you! -Mallory from Mallory's Lifestyle Change
I might have missed it, but is there a group starting in September for weight loss?
Can you drink shakeology while pregnant
Amber, thank you for sharing your pics in progress. It is helpful to see you are working (back) to the same place we all are working toward. It is very encouraging. Last year, before I became part of this group, I had a weight coach who was a string bean, never had weight issues. I feel like well, she was very nice, and I liked her, and as a nutritionist she was very good, but not having been on this journey before, well, she just couldn't understand. I love that you know all of the pains and gains and losses!! that we all face daily. Thank you. BTW, you are showing a lot of change! I love seeing smaller bellies which encourages me to keep on going.

Amber Snow - I'll help you uncover the person you dream of becoming! [email protected] YOU CAN READ THIS AT *******

I am from Seattle, I was born into a dysfunctional family (as we all are) that ate too much and used food to celebrate, to feel better, to do pretty much everything.

Operating as usual


Tomorrow never comes seems like.β™₯β™₯




Enjoy the season currently in!!πŸ™ŒπŸ™Œ


I hope my daughter will believe her own intuition and align her choices in a way that honors her needs, instead of just shoving down every emotion with substances, over work, and external validation πŸ’―πŸ’―πŸ’―πŸ’―

Shelly Robinson - Raising Yourself β™₯️β™₯️β™₯️β™₯️


This is absolutely the only way to make and sustain good habits. When I would try to change everything all at once before, it created an avenue for failure!! πŸ’―πŸ’―



Photos from Creating a Destiny's post 10/01/2022

I LOVE OCTOBER πŸ˜βœ¨πŸ‚πŸ§‘πŸŽƒ Anyone else?!? It's also my birthday month πŸ₯³ Any other October babies out there??? 🀩






So true!!! No matter how hard I attempt to make it work, if it's not aligning with my goals, it's not worth the trouble!!β™₯β™₯


Yes they do!! If I can't stand up for myself, then who else will? β™₯β™₯


Read that again!!!πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡


Don't allow someone else define what is fun for you!! Be your πŸ’― authentic self!! Doesn't matter what others think!!🫢🫢


Mindset is the key!! Being surrounded by positivity makes a huge difference!!β™₯β™₯β™₯


It took me long enough to get this one right!!!🀣🀣


Y'ALL. Please start πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™ Time is passing so quickly. There is never going to be a good time. Just start πŸ™ŒπŸ™ŒπŸ™Œ




This!!! πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡

Timeline photos 09/25/2022

Daaaaaang. πŸ‘€πŸ‘€πŸ‘€




Daaaaamn. Amen. πŸ’―πŸ˜³






Love thisπŸ’―πŸ’―πŸ’―


Worth it β™₯β™₯




So many people want to control a child's behavior, when we should be looking at our own first πŸ’―πŸ’―πŸ’― My daughter is my biggest MIRROR πŸ™ŒπŸ™ŒπŸ™Œ


So very true! It makes a world of difference!!πŸ’―πŸ’―


Keep Fu***ng Going πŸ’ͺπŸ’ͺπŸ’ͺ

Just a quick reshare tonight. THIS is why I do what I do. Vanity is a bonus. I'm here to MOVE.


We never know the full story of everyone. The world with more kindness is a greater place to be!!β™₯β™₯






Y'all πŸ™ŒπŸ™ŒπŸ™Œ Everything is better after a workout ✨✨✨ If you saw on my personal page, I woke up super anxious. Honestly this week has been making me anxious all month πŸ˜‚

It sucks that I can steal from the current moments, by thinking about future ones, but here we are πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ

I was so wired with thoughts and things that I wanted to get done this morning. I knew I had to work out immediately so that I could calm myself down.

I asked myself some reflecting questions and knew it would help me. Imade it a priority, and I feel so much better πŸ’―

This is what I had posted over there, in case these questions would help anyone else πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡

Y'all I woke up ANXIOUS AF. I was FEELING like there is no way I have enough time to get "everything done". These are moments when I know to stop and ask myself questions.

Okay self, questions for you:

Is this true? Do you HONESTLY not have enough time?

Or do you just not have a clear plan? Are you just taking on all the minutes of the day in one minute? All the days of the week in one hour?

Let's say you really don't have "enough time" ... does it matter? What if something doesn't get done? Does it MATTER?

What if you cancel a meeting? Will it matter?
What if you rock these mess fingernails for another week lol? Will it matter?
What if you get to GWL late? Does it matter?
What if you forget something? Does it matter?

What even is "everything" lol?

What is ACTUALLY going to happen if you "run out of time"?

Without fail the answers are:

No it's not true, I DO have enough time.

No it won't matter.

Literally nothing will happen.

FEELINGS ARE NOT FACTS Y'ALL. They may be valid, but they aren't facts.

I used to IMMEDIATELY go to "I don't have time to workout today" and then "I'll have to grab fast food" and my stress would become unhealthy choices. I did that for YEARS.

I deeply believe that only makes things WORSE. Everything is better after a workout, and unhealthy foods have NEVER helped me deal with stress any better. They often add stress to the body and make my anxiety worse.

So, on this Monday morning, repeat after me:

✨ I have plenty of time.
✨ Everything always works out as it is meant to.
✨ I will not let the future steal from the present. I am HERE.
✨ I am capable of all of this, and more.
✨ I will give my body what it needs.
✨ I am calmer when I take care of me.
✨ I have plenty of time.

Y'all. In the grand scheme of things none of it matters. Just LIVE πŸ’•


As I've gotten older it has made me appreciate my body so much more! I turn 41 in about 3 weeks, and as you know, my sister died when she was 42.

It made so many things just seem so silly. Like literally WHO FREAKING CARES about the fupa or the arm flap wiggle hahaha?!?! I am alive πŸ™ŒπŸ™ŒπŸ™Œ

We've all looked back at a picture of a time when we didn't see our beauty. Maybe we thought we were "fat" at the time. We look back now and are amazed at all the beauty we see. What we wouldn't give to be "that fat" we say.

We don't have to do that again in 10 years. We CAN see our body for what it is NOW, and APPRECIATE it.

I lift weights because I want to be able to pick up my daughter for as long as she'll let me.

I workout because I want to be able to go down water slides and walk around theme parks.

I eat well because I don't want to say "mommy's tired" when she wants to play.

I am not chasing any look, any size, or any weight. Those were worries of my insecure youth, and they aren't relevant anymore.

I do it because I APPRECIATE my body and I would like to keep using it πŸ’― I already see the beauty. I will look back and think YEP, that is EXACTLY how I remember it πŸ’•


So very true!! We have to get out of our own comfort zone to find the place we belong. πŸ’―πŸ’―


This next week I have more going on than I am comfortable with. I am COMMITTED to not letting my anxiety about that ruin this day πŸ’―

Every single thing I get to do this week is good. I'm about to have many days filled with joy, if I will allow myself that.

My little one has an indoor skydiving field trip, We are also headed up to Anaheim for a few days at homeschool week with Great Wolf Lodge.

We have plans to stop by downtown Disney before check in, and then on Friday we have our wonderful homeschool group that we see every week.

We basically have no downtime. As a single mom, who runs their own business, and teeters on the edge of anxiety naturally, it's a lot.

It's also a freaking lot to be grateful for πŸ™ŒπŸ™ŒπŸ™Œ What an incredible week we GET TO have.

I'm going to choose to believe that I have time to get everything done, and I'm also going to choose to believe that even if I don't, there are no REAL consequences.

Everything always works out, I always have enough time, I always have everything I need, everything works out how it should πŸ’• That is what I am believing today.

Sending you a reminder to just breathe this morning πŸ§˜β€β™€οΈ


When I started this page in 2011 it was just a weight loss page πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ That was it. I just very publicly started losing 100 lbs and shared it. I had no idea the growth I was about to go through over the next decade.

As I got fitness instructor certificates, dug into personal growth, did a lot of therapy, and worked on my mindset, my content started to shift.

Year after year, the content changed, but it all had a basic foundation of health and fitness.

There was no bigger change than when I became a mother πŸ’― That was a world rocking experience.

I epically struggled with postpartum anxiety and my whole life view shifted. My new content was not as warmly embraced as prior content had been.

People wanted my meal plans, not my emotions πŸ˜†

Some people were very mean, they were not interested in following my journey anymore, and felt I need to tell me ALL about that πŸ€£πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ

I was not in a place to take that kind of criticism, and I basically stopped posting. I went through a separation, and then a divorce. I moved halfway across the country, back to San Diego. A lot went on.

Eventually I did start posting again, but this has been mostly just a meme page for quite some time.

The content I share on here is absolutely reflective of my healing journey, my parenting journey, my desire to end generational curses, and break generational patterns.

I share things about my (constant attempt at) respectful parenting, my neurodivergency, my trauma, my body positive take on fitness, and my belief that we are more than the scale.

It's also absolutely in line with my deep respect for my body, the belief that women do not need to live in shame when it comes to food or weight, and that I don't want to pass on unhealthy patterns to my daughter.

It's been 5 years since I stepped away from pouring myself into this page, over a few mean strangers. In that time I have learned so much, and grown so much, that I actually have more to offer than I ever did before πŸ™ŒπŸ™ŒπŸ™Œ

I'm ready to stop letting those people keep me from helping YOU. Right now my personal page provides so much value for people, and I'm constantly getting told how useful what I have to share is.

That page is a fraction of this one.

There's no reason why I need to keep everything over on my personal page. I take the risk that people may leave, or they may send me messages that they don't like to have to say.

That's life πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ That is simply the "cost of doing business" as they say.

It may take us a while to get to know each other over here. It won't be like it is on my personal page, where everyone has watched Destiny grow up, and been in the front row for my growth through the hard times.

People may take some time to figure out exactly who I am and what I'm about. Especially the ones who came for the memes, and didn't even know this was a page by a real person 🀣

I'm okay with that. I would love to take the time to do that, if you're up for it ❀️

With that said: Hi πŸ‘‹ I'm Amber. This is my baby girl Destiny. Nice to meet you! We're happy you're here and we hope you'll stick around πŸ€—


I am on a MISSION to help women LOVE their bodies. Not to fix, change, or criticize, themselves, but to live a healthy life because they LOVE themselves. Not for anyone but themselves!

I can tell you from 25 years of eating disorders, shame spirals, and using fitness as a punishment, this doesn't happen overnight, BUT it IS possible. I am absolutely PROOF.

Do you find yourself full of negative talk, eating poorly, and not moving your body the way you wish you were?

Join us for FALL in Love with YOURSELF October! Just send your goals in at ❀️

In my community I believe in leading with body positivity, treating ourselves with respect, and working out because we love our bodies, not hate them.

I would love to show you how to feel that way too!

Join my 30-day fitness, nutrition, and mindset challenge inside my NO JUDGEMENT Facebook community and get started on a journey of health based in SELF LOVE.

My group provides accountability, support, resources, guidance, and acceptance, while helping you grow. I'd love to have you.

Note: We START on 10/1 and the deadline to COMMIT is 9/26 so act now.

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