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Our first RelationTrips video is up! ☀️🎉🙌
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https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=hvdrQKQxspM&t=2s

Some info for ya:

Welcome to RelationTrips! A space where Joel & Alina-aka Jolina😉-share their love of life’s adventures + each other with y’all! 🤗

A little about us:

Jolina is based beachside in SoCal ☀️💦 with their pup, Takoda, and two bunnies, Furgalicious & Sir BaDonkaDonk 🐰🐕🐰

They’ve been each other’s Hinge hotties since meeting on the app in November of 2020 💥

Joel is a certified personal trainer + surf filmmaker 🏄🏻‍♂️ who loves all things surfing, golfing, boxing, health, travel, and challenging oneself mentally and physically 💪

Alina is a certified love + intimacy coach earning her PhD in Psychology who loves acting, singing, dancing 🎭 🎶💃, learning + growing, exploring the mind + the world, and helping people experience healthy love! 💕

Come along on all of our RelationTrips rendezvous by subscribing on YouTube:

https://m.youtube.com/.Woohoo

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Comment on YouTube where you think we should Trip to next! 😋✈️ 🌎

Woohoo!
Joel & Alina

RelationTrips' First Video!! Kauai, 2023 Our first RelationTrips video ever!! Kauai, 2023 :) Be one of the "first!" to follow along at the start of this journey by subscribing to our YouTube channel...

Wow. This was the moment 2 years ago that I decided to turn my pain into my Power and Purpose to help others 💪✨ And look at me now only two years later!

I earned certifications as a Love Coach, Relationship Coach, Master Sexpert, and Matchmaker, and now have my own love and intimacy coaching business, Ace of Hearts, where I empower you to heal and experience the love you deserve ❤️. I am halfway through my Psychology PhD program 🤓 And I am living by the ocean with the warmest, sweetest, silliest, handsome-est, most loyal and dependable man and our sweet lil fuzzy friends 🐶 🐰 🐰💕

Sooo much can change in two years!! You simply have to decide to take ownership of your life—be your own knight in shining armor! 🙌 —and begin making choices that are in alignment with Love instead of ego/fear.

If you need help doing that after being in a dark place like I was due to an unhealthy relationship or if you are a high-achieving, emotionally generous millennial woman with an insecure attachment style who frustratingly finds herself stuck in situationships or push-pull dynamics and wants to finally experience an intimate and committed long-term relationship, DM me a “❤️” and I will send you info on where to start 😘

I’m Lighting your Love! ✨
Alina (aka the Ace of Hearts 😉)

Going live here in an hour! 🥳 I’ll be teaching the following Masterclass:

The 3 Secrets to Attracting a Secure and Intimate Committed Relationship—without Suppressing your Attachment Needs—for Heartbroken and Exhausted Daters with an Anxious Attachment Wound 💕

If this topic is something that resonates, I hope to see you there at 12pm PST 🤗😘

What's your full name and email address?

I'm cultivating an email list for special offers and content! (since who knows what'll happen with IG / FB one day...) Don't worry, I promise I won't bombard you though! 😛

Loves, please stop settling for breadcrumbs and almost-commitments.
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Stop diluting yourself to make yourself more palatable to what you think their taste is.
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Stop lowering your standards and making excuses for them because you care about them and see “potential” in them.
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Yes, they probably had a heart-breaking childhood and yes, their ex probably betrayed them so they have a hard time trusting. And your heart aches for them.
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Your empathy is beautiful.✨
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But it is not up to you to tirelessly prove you are different and that it is safe for them to love you, especially if the way they “love” you is dangerous to your emotional health and sense of self-worth.
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You’re not helping them to grow or to learn to trust and love again by enabling their unhealthy behavior—you’re enabling codependence.
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And you’re certainly not helping yourself.
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In fact, you become so afraid that they’ll abandon you that you abandon yourself first, so there’s no one truly there for them to abandon and hurt.
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You wonderful, huge-hearted, loving human — start showing up in your authenticity and start setting *and upholding* boundaries and watch how powerful and magnetizing YOU become.
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Don’t dilute your beautiful, special “You-ness” to be what you think they want, because the healthy, loving partner who is meant for you is out there simply waiting for YOU to show up.
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I’m going live this week in my private FB group to help you heal from an insecure anxious or avoidant attachment wound - and all of the self-sabotaging patterns that come with it - so that you can finally attract in a more secure love. Comment a “❤️” if you’d like the details 😘

Happy Valentine’s Day Loverbutts! And Happy One Year Anniversary to my fabulicious Ace of Hearts community! It’s been so special sharing the love with you all during this past year :)

Let’s continue to learn from each other: What is the biggest lesson in love that you’ve learned this year?

While you are healing, please be gentle with yourself and grant yourself grace. There is no time limit on grief, as grief is ever-evolving. The Law of Conservation of Energy offers that energy can be neither created nor destroyed, so while you are in this energy of seemingly never-ending pain, please trust that your Pain WILL transform into your Power 💪✨ All it takes is intention. Simply allow yourself to feel all of your emotions deeply (no not repress or bypass), process it, grow from it, and then take *imperfect* aligned action toward your Purpose. 🔥

You will look back at this painful ignition point in a year and be in absolute awe and gratitude as you recognize how it led you here, to your true, highest essence of beautiful, powerful luminescence ✨💕

“The wound is the place where the Light enters you”- Rumi

I’m sending you so much love and strength on your healing journey! Please DM me a ❤️ if you are grieving a breakup and could use some help in your healing process. I would absolutely love to support you.✨

Crucial Reasons to Block or Unfollow Your Ex on Social Media

(And no, it’s not petty)
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Reasons to Block or Unfollow Your Ex:

1. You are allowing yourself the space away from them that you need in order to heal.

2. You are eliminating potential triggers.

3. You are setting a boundary.

4. You are preventing yourself from overthinking and ruminating.

5. You are providing an extra measure to prevent yourself from checking their social media.

6. You are creating less baggage and are being more respectful to your future partner.

7. You are not performing for them; You are living for YOU.
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Breakups are so hard, I know…Please trust that things will feel better though-not with time, but with intention.

If you’d like a loving hand in healing and moving forward after a heartbreak, please DM me a ❤️ and we’ll discuss the coaching option that can best help you achieve your goals. I’m sending you the biggest hug in the meantime, you beautiful human, you. I hope you know how wonderful and worthy of love you truly are!! 🌹✨