08/29/2022
Entrepreneurs usually come to see me with what appears to be a procrastination problem
They have tried to overcome this behavior by
๐ฅ Forcing themselves through it
๐ฅ Creating some sort of spreadsheet or system to stay on track
๐ฅ Waiting for motivation to kick in so they can take action
๐ฅ Watch motivational videos
๐ฅ Say positive affirmations
๐ฅ Join accountability pods
Except that these methods are only temporary and they always relapse back to their old behavior
Why?
Because procrastination is a by-product of something deeper
A deeper set of beliefs thatโs causing them to procrastinate
Believe it or not, most entrepreneurs that I have worked with initially have
A lot of self-doubts and fears
They lack confidence & clarity
Most don't trust themselves to make decisions because they are afraid of making the wrong one
So months, even years go by and nothing changes in their life or business because they are stuck in indecision, fear, and doubt
If you're a coach, healer, or course creator who struggles with a lack of clarity and confidence
And that is hindering your ability to take action, make decisions and create the life and business you want
Discover how you can overcome these challenges by getting your unconscious and conscious minds to work as a team.
Learn more about how check out link in comments
08/26/2022
Coaches, Healers, Course Creators
Do you set some time out for yourself to rejuvenate, and have FUN outside of helping others?
Would like to know what are your favorite ways
Comment below ๐๐ฝ
P.S for me, I like to be in or around water, and I recently started getting into photography
Happy FriYAY!
oxoxox
Deni
08/25/2022
Do you often procrastinate reaching out or following up with potential new clients because you think you are bugging them?
A new client was having trouble starting conversations with potential clients because they didn't want to come off as โsales-syโ
And they didn't want to โbother' people
If you have experienced this before
What most likely is going on here
๐ก You are making negative generalizations of what sales are based on a bad experience you had in the past
So when you start to even think about doing that thing again ( in this case reaching out or following up)
Fear sets in because a part of you wants to protect you ( not sabotage you ~ as most people think )
So this part sends you an alert to help youโฆ
For some it can come in a form of a thoughtโฆ like โWait, remember last time when this happened we got hurt, so let's not do this again.โ
For others the alert can be kinesthetic and it can manifestest as sensations in the chest often referred to as โanxietyโ
And for others, it can be an image of the past event which triggers negative emotions
The key here is to uncover how that negative association is represented so you can work with it.
Some of the time it can be subtle but regardless that fear manifests itself in procrastination
If you're an entrepreneur who is ready to overcome self-doubt, fear of rejection, and procrastination
Discover how my signature process Neuro Transformative Energy can help you overcome these limitations so you can impact more people and create the financial freedom you desire
Link in comments ๐
08/24/2022
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Acknowledgment that what you do for others you do for yourself
Now let me ask you... Do you let ego stop you from helping more people?
In the past, I thought people who operated from ego were people who thought highly of themselves and had little regard for others.
I later learned that the same definition can be applied to people who let fear and doubt get in the way of helping others
Truth is most struggling entrepreneurs focus too much on themselves
When I was a newbie struggling entrepreneur
I had a lot of self-doubt and fears
I was petrified of putting myself out there
Reaching out to people
Doing sales calls was the worst!
I remember I would get anxious and feel sick to my stomach right before a call
Secretly wishing they would not show up.
My fear of rejection was so strong that I was sabotaging my success!
Then one day someone shared this with me that I want to pass on to you.
He said โDeni you are making all this about youโ
He was so right!
Now let me ask you
Are you letting your fear and doubt (ego) lead the way?
Consider how your life and business would be different in the acknowledgment that what you do for others you do for yourself.
Oxoxoxo,
Deni
PS Dream Big Entrepenuer
08/19/2022
๐๐๐๐๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ฌ๐ญ๐จ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐๐ซ๐จ๐ฆ ๐๐๐ข๐ง๐ ๐๐ข๐ง๐๐ง๐๐ข๐๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐ฌ๐ฎ๐๐๐๐ฌ๐ฌ๐๐ฎ๐ฅ
The top 3 things that stop entrepreneurs from financial freedom are
โ Reading more books
โ Watching motivational videos
โ Saying positive affirmations
Why because those things talk to the conscious part of your brain
That is why you only get temporary motivation
Which results in
๐ฅ More Frustration
๐ฅ Wasted time
๐ฅ Unnecessary pain and struggle
๐ฅ Loss of money because you are focusing and investing in the wrong things
Reading more books and saying positive affirmations are not going to work long-term
If you truly want to overcome
๐จ Self-Doubt
๐จ Fear of Failure
๐จ Procrastination
You are going to heal and transform your negative beliefs at the unconscious level first
You will no longer need to motivate yourself to move toward your goals
Learn how by watching this short video
Link in the comments ๐
08/15/2022
๐๐ฑ๐๐ถ๐ฐ๐ฒ ๐๐ผ ๐ฒ๐ป๐๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ฝ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ป๐ฒ๐๐ฟ๐ ๐๐ต๐ผ ๐๐๐ฟ๐๐ด๐ด๐น๐ฒ ๐๐ถ๐๐ต ๐ฑ๐ผ๐๐ฏ๐ ๐ฎ๐ป๐ฑ ๐ณ๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ฟ
When my family and I first arrived here in the U.S.
We didnโt know the language
There were so many customs and traditions we were not familiar with
But mostly I remember my mom going to work 6x a week and working long 10-hour days
At the time she was making less than $4.00 an hour picking broccoli in the fields
It was such a hard back-breaking job
To date, my mom continues to be a source of inspiration for me
I learned a lot about:
โจ Integrity
โจ Adaptability
โจ Persistence
โจ Resilience
โจ Personal Accountability
โจ Faith and Trust from her
I learned a way to become these qualities and that has helped me achieve much success in my life
๐ค The ability to align with my passion
๐ค Make my own schedule
๐ค Do what I love
๐ค And create abundance with ease
But it wasnโt always that way
I struggled with a lot of self-doubt and fear at the beginning of my entrepreneurial journey
I believed that I just needed one more course to finally โget itโ and become successful
And that is what most struggling entrepreneurs do
They convince themselves that they donโt know enough yet so they buy another course hoping all that doubt and fear will disappear
But it doesnโt
I get itโฆI struggled with that for years
What changed?
I discovered that I had to create and become my ideal self in order to create what I wanted
And that is done at the identity level
Because unless you change the negative unconscious beliefs you hold about yourself
It's not going to be easy to create that dream life that you want
If you are an entrepreneur who is ready to overcome procrastination, self-doubt, and fear of failure
I created a short video for you where it will walk you through all the steps that you need to become your ideal self so you longer have to struggle
Link in comments ๐
08/09/2022
Have you ever been drawn to a specific animal and donโt know why?
Have you ever considered that certain animals may carry a special message for you?
In Native American tribes it is believed that different animal guides, also called spirit guides and/or power animals, come in and out of our lives depending on the direction that we are headed and the tasks that need to be completed along our journey.
I got into animal medicine when I started studying with one of my mentors
And now have been using animal medicine for guidance both in my personal and professional life
โAnimal Medicineโ comes to me both in dreams and in everyday experiencesโฆ
Early last year I was at Golden Gate park here in San Francisco
I was walking early in the morning with my friend
And all of a sudden this fox appearedโฆstopped right in front of usโฆ looked at us both and swiftly disappeared into the treesโฆ
It was such a beautiful experience and I received it as a sign
As soon as I got home I looked up Fox Animal Medicine in my animal medicine book
It said that โif the fox has chosen to share its medicine with you, it is a sign that you are to come like the wind. It would be wise for you to observe acts of others rather than their words.โ
As I connected to that message it deeply resonated with me
I applied that sacred message to my life until I was guided to follow another path
It's so amazing how there are signs and nudges in and around us and all we need to do is be open and connect with them
Do you use animal medicine?
08/01/2022
What are your thoughts when you wake up?
According to the National Science Foundation, we have around 6,000 thoughts per day
80% of them are negative
95% are repetitive
If we are where our attention is โฆ
Have you considered what youโre creating in your life with your thoughts?
Notice next time when you are in fear and doubt
What thoughts you are thinking about
Notice what emotions you feel
And notice how those thoughts and emotions are impacting your behaviors
When I do initial consultations with clients
One of the things I ask them is to walk me through a recent time they experienced
Fear, doubt or procrastination
A lot of the time โฆ.they are unaware of their internal voice, or even their emotions
They are just aware of how their behavior is sabotaging their success
Most struggling entrepreneurs focus on only behavior patterns
Thatโs a great start
But until you uncover the trigger point when this behavior pattern fires off itโs not going to be easy to
โจ Show up authentically, confidently and with the persistence you need to get the outcomes you want
The easiest and quickest way to attract more of what you want in life and in business is to change your thoughts
And Itโs more than just positive thinking or moving your attention
Iโve tried that and that just never worked for me
So I created a free training - this is a part of a process that I walk my clients through- which will absolutely change the way you talk to yourself
Because when you change what you focus on you start to not only feel better about yourself
But you also create new opportunities and more of what you want in life
Get the free training on how to overcome negative self talk in the link in the comments below ๐๐ฝ
07/29/2022
โ๐๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ญ ๐จ๐ง๐ ๐ฆ๐จ๐ซ๐ ๐๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ฌ๐โ
Most struggling entrepreneurs have โshiny objectโ syndrome
If this is youโฆhave you asked yourself where that truly comes from?
It comes from the lack of belief and trust in yourself
You have convinced yourself that you just โneedโ one more course
So you keep buying course after course in hopes that they will give you the confidence that you need to start helping people
Here is the thingโฆstruggling entrepreneurs get stuck in this learning trap
And they confuse it with productivity
I was once there ๐โโ๏ธ
I would complain and say โ I donโt get it .. Iโm doing all the things but nothing is workingโฆ.
I felt busy 100% of the time but had 0 clients ๐ฎโ๐จ
Worse I was struggling financiallyโฆ
The best thing I did was get really honest with myselfโฆ
Now let me ask youโฆ what is causing to buy all those courses?
Is it truly that you donโt know enough or is it that you are avoiding taking action because of
๐ตโ๐ซ Self-doubt
๐ตโ๐ซ Fear of rejection
๐ตโ๐ซ Fear of failure
๐ตโ๐ซ Fear of success
As long as you lack belief in yourself itโs not going to matter how many courses you buyโฆ
It all starts with changing the unconscious beliefs you hold about yourself
And that is done at the identity levelโฆ
If you are an entrepreneur who is tired of the up and down procrastination loop
And is ready to
๐ค Get clarity on their path
๐ค Take action on their goals
So you can step into the confident successful leader that you are
Click the link in the comments to learn more about how my signature 1:1 program Neuro Transformative Model will help you
๐ Gain confidence
๐ Show up authentically
๐ Reach that fulfillment and financial freedom that you desire
Check out the link in the comments ๐๐ฝ
07/28/2022
Consistency beats perfection every single time
A couple of months ago I decided to embark on a fitness journey
An 8-month shred to be exact
Some of my friends were like
Why would you do that? ๐
They werenโt wrong for askingโฆ
I mean its pretty intense food and workout regime within a short period of time for fast results
Every single day for 8 weeks
๐ฅ I meal prepped for my week for about 4 hours on Saturdays like clockwork
๐ฅ I woke up every single morning at 5am ~ 7 days a week and did my am cardio
๐ฅThen weight training
๐ฅ And at 6pm did my nighttime cardio
I missed a couple of workouts because I had some knee issues but got back on it
It wasnโt about perfection it was about consistency and persistence.
Now think about your business
Do you do the daily things necessary to grow it?
Struggling entrepreneurs try something for a few days or weeks and if they donโt see immediate results they stop and complain that it doesn't work
I didnโt see results right away when I started my shredโฆ
What if I would have stoppedโฆ I would not have released 12lbs and gone down 2 sizes
I went from squatting 50lbs to 100lbs!
Successful entrepreneurs repeatedly do the little things that create BIG changes
Can you imagine if you were consistentโฆ.what your life and business would look like a year from now?
The best thing I did for myself was align my conscious and unconscious mind to work as a teamโฆ
If you are an entrepreneur who struggles with procrastination and doesn't know how to overcome itโฆ sign up for my free training where you will get my 5-step formula and uncover the REAL reason why you lack consistencyโฆ
Link in the comments