01/06/2026
Hi everyone,
Coming up Thursday I'll be teaching the next class in the Secure Network series, this time about using attachment styles in everyday life as a tool for empathy and sense making rather than a tool for diagnosis.
Attachment styles are patterns of behavior that each have a different "come from", a reason to exist as a way to support someone in feeling safer in their environment, however somewhat misguided (by insecurity) this may be.
Join us for an exploration of these attachment styles and best practices to engage with them in the most secure way possible (despite insecurities you might have too).
Cheer,
Philippe
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Jan 8 - 𝙏𝙝𝙚 𝙎𝙚𝙘𝙪𝙧𝙚 𝙉𝙚𝙩𝙬𝙤𝙧𝙠 💝 Attachment Styles in Every Day Life with Philippe Lewis
https://plra.io/m/jan8-philippe
You’ve done the tests, you’ve learned about attachment styles, and now you want to know how to engage with people of each attachment style in the most secure (and effective) way possible—knowing full well that people are not their attachment style.
So what’s the best way to use attachment styles as a “guide” to understanding people, and behaving in a way that will meet them well when their attachment insecurities are present?
Come and find out some of the patterns present in each style, their “come from”, as well as some examples of their internal experience of reality to help you better relate to everyone in your life, secure or insecure!
About Philippe:
Philippe is a passionate relationship educator and founder of Exquisite ❦ Love. With a mission to empower men and women in making informed and positive choices for themselves and their partners, Philippe guides individuals on transformative journeys to become sovereign beings through the art of connection, trust, consent, intimacy, and love. Drawing from the profound insights of attachment theory, he helps people explore the depths of human connection and understand the dynamics that shape their relationships.
Philippe's impact in the realm of personal growth and self-discovery extends far and wide. As a co-founder of The Journey to Secure, he fosters a supportive community of like-minded individuals on a shared path of growth and an earned attachment style. Additionally, his role as a coordinator with the International School of Temple Arts, showcases his dedication to fostering open-mindedness and personal exploration.
Over the years, Philippe has been instrumental in founding vibrant communities that tackle essential topics. The Open Relationship Community, the Attachment Community, and the Consent Community provide safe spaces for individuals to engage in emerging discussions, redefining societal norms, and promoting healthier relationship dynamics.
Philippe is also well known for the creation of a vast array of conscious play spaces and playground such as Club Exotica, Love Underground, The Erotic Playground, and the FireLight micro-festival, as well as embodiment spaces such as The Somatic Playground where participants can find and learn about how to relate with each other at all levels.
While Philippe's professional accomplishments are inspiring, he cherishes a role that brings him immense joy and growth - that of a proud and loving father to a 13-year-old teen. This cherished relationship teaches him the invaluable lessons of surrendering to love and embracing life more fully with each passing day.
Philippe's life's work revolves around illuminating the path to enriched human connections and fostering a more compassionate and understanding society, one relationship at a time. His dedication to personal growth, coupled with his commitment to empowering others, sets him apart as a true visionary in the field of relationship education.
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Feb 5 🌟 Dolphin
Transformative Communication: An Attachment-Centred Framework for Personal & Relational Breakthroughs
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