09/13/2026
Rivergirl Sunshine Sunday
This week, I’m grateful for friendship and all the quiet ways it shows up.
We celebrated birthdays, did things simply because they were fun, and watched a friend decide that this was finally the day she was going to face her fear of heights and ride the Ferris wheel at Tweetsie for the first time. Kelly sat beside her and, every time the wheel crested, held her arm out so she had something steady to reach for. That image has stayed with me all week because friendship so often looks exactly like that. You cannot remove someone else’s fear, but you can sit beside them while they move through it.
It showed up around tables too, in shared meals, laughter, and a server who apparently caught wind of our plans to liberate a few plants and solved the problem by bringing us a bouquet of edible flowers and greens instead. It showed up during our yakisugi wire-brushing party, where we got to teach folks the method, put hands to work together, and watch conversation turn into connection while the char gave way to the grain underneath. There is something about learning a skill together that makes people loosen up. You stop worrying about what to say because everyone is busy doing something, and before long strangers don’t feel quite so strange anymore.
For Kelly’s birthday, friendship also looked like a rare reversal of roles. She got to go fly fishing in new water and, for once, she was not the one guiding, teaching, tying knots, reading everyone else’s mood, or making sure the day ran smoothly. She got to simply show up and be taken care of. I think that mattered more than the fishing itself. When you spend most of your time being the person who carries the day for everyone else, there is something deeply restorative about being allowed to hand that responsibility over for a little while and trust someone else to hold it.
For last minute plans to hang out with friends simply because we missed them. Those moments create some of the best practical yet magical memories.
And tonight, we’ll end the week gathered with friends for a private screening of the Helene documentary by Here For Good Films.
That gathering feels different before we have even stepped into the room. These are not just people we happen to know. They are people tied to a chapter none of us would have chosen, but one we now carry together. Helene rearranged so much, physically and emotionally, and there are certain people you can look at afterward and know they understand without needing the whole story explained. They remember the uncertainty, the exhaustion, the rebuilding, the strange moments of humor, the fear, the relief, and the ways we all kept showing up for one another anyway.
Tonight will be a chance to sit together and watch part of that story reflected back to us. I suspect it will be emotional. I suspect there will be laughter too. Mostly, I think it will be another reminder that some friendships are built through birthdays, meals, learning new things, and play, while others are forged in the middle of something hard and become part of the structure that helps you stand back up.
Maybe that is what I’m most grateful for this week. Not simply having friends, but having people who know when to reach out an arm, when to teach, when to laugh, when to take the weight for a while, and when nothing needs to be said at all.
Who are you grateful to have beside you this week?