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You’re a dot on their screen. They’re a dot on yours. Close the status report for the first ten minutes. Ask how they’re...
10/16/2026

You’re a dot on their screen.

They’re a dot on yours.

Close the status report for the first ten minutes.

Ask how they’re really doing.
Go first if you have to.
Two people, talking.

It doesn’t take much. Full piece in the comments. 👇

10/16/2026

If you’re an introverted leader, you don’t need to be the loudest person in the room to look senior.

I’m the guy who goes straight back to his room after a trade show. By the end of the day I’ve had a hundred conversations and remember two of them. Thirty years in tech, and I still got the same feedback a lot of you get: be more visible, show more presence.

Here’s what I eventually figured out. Quiet and invisible are two different problems.

Invisible means nobody can explain what problem you solve. Quiet is just how you talk.

For quieter leaders, executive presence tends to look like this:

→ You speak less, so people lean in when you do
→ You walk in knowing the one point you want remembered, and you say it early
→ When things go sideways, you’re the steady one

You don’t have to dominate a room to steady it. And you don’t need to cosplay an extrovert to have leadership confidence.

Quiet leaders: what’s the worst executive presence advice you’ve been given? Drop it in the comments.

[ introverted leader, executive presence, leadership confidence, executive presence for introverts ]

10/15/2026

Being the reliable one comes with a tax. Most high performers have been paying it for years without seeing the bill.

You hit every deadline, so nobody asks if you have room. You stay calm, so nobody sees the pressure. You clean up the messes, so the messes start coming to you.

Leadership sees it all getting done and assumes your workload is fine. You’ve never given them a reason to think otherwise.

That’s no character flaw. It’s what happens when the trade-offs stay invisible, including to you. A lot of what’s piling up is somebody else’s urgency you agreed to carry.

The fix starts with one sentence: “I can do this. Here’s what moves.”

One conversation won’t undo the whole pattern. But it’s where workload management and real leadership boundaries start.

How long have you been paying the reliability tax? Tell me in the comments.

[ high performers, workload, workload management, leadership boundaries ]

10/15/2026

“I’m overwhelmed” tells your boss how you feel. A visible trade-off gives them something they can act on.

If you’re a manager who keeps delivering clean work on time, they will believe the work over the words. So the workload keeps growing.

In this video, I’m sharing three ways to set leadership boundaries without saying no.

You’re still the dependable one. You’ve just stopped paying for it quietly, and you’ve handed the prioritization decision back to the person whose job it is.

Which one are you trying first? Comment 1, 2 or 3.

10/15/2026

Open loops don’t have to be a burden.

A few weeks ago, I wrote in my newsletter about the concept of open loops in your mind and how that turns into a burden on your time, energy, and attention.

One of my clients read my article, and realized she had a TON of open loops. So, we talked about where her open loops were and what was holding her back from closing some of them.

We started to tackle what she was afraid of hearing by closing some of those the loops and she started to take action and do the simple, brave things needed to close them instead.

And of course as she did that, she opened new loops: new things to investigate, questions to ask, and people to meet.

But now she was equipped with a tool set that showed her that open loops don’t have to be a burden. They can just indicate what you need to do next.

It’s never about making one big decision. It’s about closing the smaller open loops and taking little steps to the place you want to be in life. And this exercise was genuinely some of the most exciting client progress I’ve ever witnessed.

If you've got open loops, if you've got things that you'd like some help tackling, reach out.

You can connect with the link in my bio and set up time to talk, drop me a DM, or just follow along here on my socials.

Link to my website here: https://loom.ly/fgxSeeA

10/13/2026

Here’s what I learned from making the wrong call.

A while back, I was leading a team of product managers, and we had responsibility for some high-end server functions.

I thought I understood what was necessary, but at my first checkpoint with the VP, I found out there was another group. That group was already tackling the same problem and had put in more legwork than I had to get buy-in.

It was a problem, not just because we wasted time, but because it raised questions in my team about how well-connected I was to the business. Which made me realize the real issue was a communication problem. I wasn’t communicating as effectively as I needed to with my team and with my leadership.

Luckily, it was just the first checkpoint and there was plenty of time to pivot. I made sure to fix all misunderstandings with my team and get buy-in with the right people.

Bottom line: when you make a mistake, own it. You're not going to be right every time.

If you want to have a further conversation about this or any other topic that's on your mind, my name is Mark Nickerson. I coach people on leadership and career advancement.

Connect with me down below or just drop me a DM and let me know what's on your mind. I'd love to be of use to you.

My newsletter was supposed to go out Sunday. It didnt. And by Monday, nobody had noticed. Thats not a missed deadline. T...
10/09/2026

My newsletter was supposed to go out Sunday.

It didnt.

And by Monday, nobody had noticed.

Thats not a missed deadline.

Thats a false one.

The deadlines worth holding are the ones someone else is tracking. If you cant name whos waiting - you might be the only one who cares.

Full piece link in the comments. 👇

10/08/2026

“Should I really work for myself? Is it time to be my own boss?”

A lot of clients come to me asking if I think they’re ready to start a business.

Which is a fair question.

It’s a tough choice to make.

The pros are obvious.

➡️ No more bosses
➡️ Doing what you want with your time
➡️ More freedom

But the cons are pretty obvious as well…

➡️ A lot of pressure on yourself to succeed
➡️ Wondering where your next paycheck will come from
➡️ Worrying if you’re even going to be able to pull it off

When someone starts a business, some of the stress from the negatives eases up over time as they figure things out and get a pipeline of opportunities developed.

But a lot of that stress will never go away.

In business, there is no “guaranteed paycheck” if you’re the founder.

Everything you built could be gone by tomorrow.

So, I don’t encourage people to jump ship and start a business until they’ve spent time planning it, understanding the risks and rewards, and truly understanding the market they want to enter.

If they can’t answer this question: “Do you have a market that is ready and open for you to jump in?”

The answer is “No.”

Now is not the time to start a business.

If you're new here, I coach people on leadership and career advancement. If this content resonated with you, follow me for more or reach out to me on my profile where you can find a link to book time with me.

Link to my website here: https://loom.ly/fgxSeeA

10/06/2026

I scheduled more time for “play” than for work.

And I don’t regret it.

One of the perks of being a founder is that I’ve recently been able to take off time with no guilt.

There are no worries of: “What is my boss going to think?” because hey, that’s me.

I recently took off 3 weeks traveling around the eastern area of the U.S. to visit family and friends and show my dog the beach for the very first time.

And I was able to actually practice what I preach, which is “Rest, reset, recover.”

I didn’t take the whole 3 weeks completely off, but I did schedule more time for fun than for work.

That allowed me to better regulate my energy, my focus, and my time.

And now I’m back at the office and better than ever.

I’m genuinely more energized and more enthusiastic about work.

If you're new here, I coach people on leadership and career advancement. If this content resonated with you, follow me for more. Or reach out to me on my profile where you can find a link to book time with me.

Link to my website here: https://loom.ly/fgxSeeA

10/05/2026

Companies pick the wrong person for the manager job 82% of the time, according to Gallup’s research.

Then many skip the training, with some research putting it as high as 85% of new managers. If you were promoted and left to figure it out, it was never just you.

I write every week for managers who got the title but not the playbook. Comment LEAD and I’ll send you the link to my Substack.

[new manager, first time manager, promotion, leadership development, manager training, career growth, leadership, management tips]

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