A composite of a real conversation that changed something in a man's life.
A 30-second moment from New Mindset Pathways β for the men doing the quiet work nobody sees.
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Spiritual direction & coaching for Gen Z men in recovery and those who are un-churched or de-churched.
Through one-on-one direction, coaching, and group experiences, we help young men rebuild their inner life when religion and old coping stop working.
06/04/2026
It was October. I was sitting on the edge of the bed.
What I did next was so small it almost embarrassed me.
It got me through that night, and the thirty after that.
New piece on the Substack β
Hereβs the link: https://open.substack.com/pub/ericmillerus/p/the-10-minute-practice-i-came-back?r=4o870l&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web&showWelcomeOnShare=true
From "The 10-Minute Practice I Came Back To After Everything Fell Apart" β different angle than Monday's video.
A 30-second moment from New Mindset Pathways β for the men doing the quiet work nobody sees.
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06/02/2026
My dad and I never had the conversation. A falling out, then a year later he was gone and the chance went with him.
Yours hasnβt ended yet. The only real question is whether youβll be in the room when it does.
New piece on the Substack β a four-move framework for the conversation you keep putting off, plus something for those of us who waited too long.
Hereβs the link https://alliedwecan.substack.com/publish/post/199601062
From "The 10-Minute Practice I Came Back To After Everything Fell Apart" β observation or fragment in this week's territory.
A 30-second moment from New Mindset Pathways β for the men doing the quiet work nobody sees.
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Theme from "What I Kept and What I Threw Out: A Field Guide for the De-Churched" β closing thought to send into the weekend.
A 30-second moment from New Mindset Pathways β for the men doing the quiet work nobody sees.
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05/28/2026
What I kept. What I threw out. βοΈ
I left the church of my childhood many years ago. Wandered through other rooms. Eventually came back β but as a different man.
Threw out: the certainty. The performance. The God who needed me to be afraid of him.
Kept: silence. The Examen. The conviction that something is paying attention. The brotherhood of men who tell the truth.
New field guide for the de-churched is up.
https://open.substack.com/pub/ericmillerus/p/what-i-kept-and-what-i-threw-out
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The question I ask early in every direction session, and why.
A 30-second moment from New Mindset Pathways β for the men doing the quiet work nobody sees.
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Theme from "What I Kept and What I Threw Out: A Field Guide for the De-Churched" β different angle than Monday's video.
A 30-second moment from New Mindset Pathways β for the men doing the quiet work nobody sees.
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How to apologize in a way that doesn't make it about you.
A 30-second moment from New Mindset Pathways β for the men doing the quiet work nobody sees.
Where you can find more:
π Substack: https://ericmillerus.substack.com/s/new-mindset-pathways
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