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Alasha created Dating Mechanics University to prepare singles to meet the best potential mates, empower premarital couples to choose partners who meet their requirements and inspire couples to keep their love alive by giving them the tools to build and sustain healthy relationships. For more information visit https://datingmechanicsuniversity.com/
05/28/2026
Modern dating has become a lot of things…
Performative.
Confusing.
Surface-level.
Emotionally disconnected.
So I created something different.
The Dating Mechanic Comics.
A series built around dating culture, emotional intelligence, and the conversations people are having privately but rarely say out loud publicly.
Because sometimes people don’t need another dating quote.
Sometimes they need perspective. Episode Sunday.
We live in a time where people expect unlimited access to one another and call it “transparency.”
But healthy privacy and secrecy are not the same thing.
Not everything needs to be performed publicly to be real.
Not everything needs to be explained to everybody to be honest.
Some things are simply personal.
Social media has blurred that line for a lot of people.
05/26/2026
Date night vibes
05/21/2026
05/19/2026
Half of the early bird tickets are gone. You can grab one here. Come join us. Check comments for tickets.
05/19/2026
Hosting the Bridging the Gap to Mental Health sponsored by Mingle In 757
04/29/2026
Looking forward to speaking at the health fair.
02/24/2026
Let me say this in dating terms....
If you surround yourself with people who:
Complain about men
-Normalize chaos
-Entertain situationships
-Accept inconsistency
-Laugh off red flags
Eventually… you start clucking too. 🤷🏾♀️
Environment matters.
The conversations you sit in.
The standards your circle normalizes.
The energy you keep around you.
If your closest friends think bare minimum is acceptable, it becomes harder for you to expect more.
You can’t build a healthy relationship mindset in a room that feeds dysfunction.
This isn’t about cutting everyone off.
It’s about being intentional about influence.
Ask yourself:
Are the people around me helping me grow… or helping me stay comfortable?
Clarity first. Always.
— Alasha Bennett
The Dating Mechanic®
What’s one mindset you had to unlearn because of your environment?
If you move that distraction out of your way, the love of your life can get to you. 😘
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