American Sporthorse

This resonates after teaching lessons this weekend: great questions from students who are new to biomechanics and dressage seat in general. The difference between sloshing in the saddle versus gripping in the saddle is tone, too much is as problematic as too little, winnowing in to the sweet spot is the goal. Its the “something nothing” that often eludes good language in teaching. I think I’m getting better at focusing new students into that sweet spot more efficiently and its so rewarding to have the horses agree. 💕🐴

I was 4 Coke Zero's in when I asked Angela.

Not because we were hopped on caffeine and aspartame, we weren't, but because that's when conversations stop being polite and start getting strange. The kind of strange where you're suddenly debating what the opposite of dressage is at 11pm on a Tuesday in a Boston Pizza.

"Everything has an opposite," I said, gesturing with my glass. "Love and hate. Up and down. Fast and slow. Good and evil. So what's the opposite of dressage?"

She didn't even hesitate.

"Wu Wei."

I blinked. "What?"

"Wu Wei. It's this Taoist thing. Effortless action. Action through inaction." She was warming up now, the way you do when you think you've nailed something. "Dressage is all control, right? Every muscle tensed. The rider's hands and legs constantly talking to the horse, pushing it into these movements. It's beautiful, but it's... imposed. Artificial."

I was nodding, so she kept going.

"Wu Wei is the opposite. It's strategic surrender. You stop forcing. You let the natural momentum carry you. You stop talking and start listening."

She sat back. Pretty satisfied with herself.

I looked at Angela for a long second.

"You know what's crazy though?"

"What?"

"The best riders I know actually ride more like Wu Wei."

She opened her mouth. Closed it.

"Like... Wu Wei isn't the opposite of dressage," I continued. "It's the whole fu***ng point."
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I told her about watching Steffen Peters school his horses.

"When you watch him ride, it looks like he's doing nothing. Like he's just... sitting there. Barely moving. But the horse is dancing through the most difficult lines: piaffe, passage, flying changes, and it looks completely effortless. Like the horse is doing it because it wants to."

"Okay, but—"

"The beginner? The beginner is yanking and gripping and micromanaging every single stride. You can see the effort. The horse's body is tense, the rider's shoulders are up around their ears, everything is resistant."

I leaned forward.

"But the master? The master has done so much work, years of work, that the control becomes invisible. The horse isn't being forced into position anymore. The horse is offering it. Because the rider created the conditions where that movement became the place of perfect balance."

She just stared at me.

"Wu Wei isn't the opposite of dressage," I said again. "Wu Wei is what happens when you've done the work long enough that the work disappears."

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I've been chewing on this for days.

Because here's the thing: I'm terrible at letting go.

I still feel like a beginner sometimes. Hands too heavy. Gripping too tight. Micromanaging every stride because I don't trust the horse, or myself, enough to just... ride.

And it can be exhausting.

I keep thinking I need to find the opposite of what I'm doing. I need to let go. I need to embrace Wu Wei. I need to stop controlling everything.

But maybe that's the wrong question.

Maybe the question isn't "How do I do the opposite?"

Maybe the question is: "Have I done enough of the hard work yet that I've earned the right to let go?"

Because effortlessness isn't the opposite of discipline.

Effortlessness is what discipline becomes when you've done it long enough.

The rider who looks like they're doing nothing? They’re actually doing everything. They spent forty years learning exactly which muscles to engage, which aids to give, how to sit, how to breathe, how to think in rhythm with raw, living kinetic energy.

Now it's invisible.

Now it's Wu Wei.

But it wasn't Wu Wei on day one.
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I don't know what the opposite of dressage is. Chaos, maybe. A bucking bronco. A horse with no rider at all.

But I know what it's not.

It's not effortlessness.

Effortlessness is graduation.

And I'm still in school.

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April 25th 3 star, Louise Koch "S"
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[Likely skipping July unless folks need a midweek show, lmk if its needed]
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