Riding Far, LLC

Riding Far, LLC Transformative Experiences for Horses and Riders All riders, regardless of experience or discipline, meet challenges along the way. Paul T. Haefner. in Physics.

Riding Far, LLC was founded over 20 years ago with a simple idea that riders could benefit from a better understanding of themselves, their horses, and how to create change. We help riders move through these challenges. This is more than your typical sport psychology or horse training. We have dedicated ourselves to create transformative experiences for equestrians and horses through compassionate and expert education, mentorship and guidance. We meet every rider and horse where they are and create deeply personal and meaningful experiences. Our work inspires change where traditional approaches have often failed. We ground ourselves in an innovative integration of modern human psychology and horsemanship, drawing inspiration from a wide range of human psychological disciplines and the best of classical and modern horsemanship including equine ethology and biomechanics. We are passionate about our own personal and professional growth in order to bring our clients current, comprehensive, informed, and inspired guidance. PhD

Dr. Haefner is a licensed clinical and sport psychologist in private practice in Northern Virginia with more than 30 years of professional experience. In addition to his Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology, Dr. Haefner is a Certified Clinical Hypnotherapist and a Certified Master Practitioner of Neuro-linguistic Programming. He also holds a B.S. In his practice, he provides personal/professional development, sport psychology consultation, and a broad range of other therapeutic services to adults, adolescents and children. An avid equestrian since his childhood, Dr. Haefner has combined his love for horses and lifelong equestrian experience with his knowledge of human psychology in order to help people transform themselves and their relationships with their horses. He enjoys working with riders of all levels and disciplines tackling the many and varied challenges that arise along the way. He helps riders transform self-doubt into confidence, fear into courage, distractibility into focused concentration, and pressure and anxiety into effective performance. In addition to helping people with their riding goals, Dr. Haefner uses the unique relationship between people and their equine partners to help people attain their own personal growth goals such as increased self-confidence, assertiveness, trust, intimacy and balance in relationships. Dr. Haefner is passionate about learning. He is committed to integrating newly acquired knowledge and skills into his work with riders. His most recent learning venture into interpersonal neurobiology has led to Riding Far to partner with Neurofficient to offer their clients neurofeedback brain training. Dr. Haefner is also a steadfast advocate for research in the field of human-horse interaction. He assisted in founding the Research Committee for the Equine Assisted Growth and Learning Association. He served on the Board of Directors of the Horses and Humans Research Foundation (HHRF), having been honored to serve as President of the Board for three of those years. He continues his advocacy for research through his role as Scientific Advisor for HHRF. Dr. Haefner is passionate about teaching. He has taught every age and level from kindergarten to graduate school. He has served on the staff/faculties of The Hill School, Catholic Memorial High School, The Fielding Institute, The Lab School of Washington, and The Catholic University of America. He dedicated to educating riding instructors and trainers, as well as riders, about the psychology of teaching and learning. His goal is to help instructors and trainers become more effective teachers and riders become more effective learners. Justin Haefner

Justin Haefner is a professional trainer who specializes in the training and handling of young performance jumpers. He is the full time Trainer of Young and Developing Horses at St. Bride’s Farm where he focuses on giving international caliber jumping horses the best foundation possible for their later life on the international show circuit. Justin believes it is essential to understand how horses’ bodies move and function in order to effectively train horses. In his continuous pursuit of deeper knowledge of equine physiology and biomechanics, Justin is a student at the Vluggen Institute of Equine Osteopathy and Education. Justin is also committed to transforming the experiences of horses and their riders through his work with Dr. Haefner in Riding Far, LLC. He contributes his knowledge of the horse’s psychology and physiology to create a well-rounded and unique perspective on the relationship between horse and rider. The synergistic, collaborative combination of Justin’s training and horsemanship experience with Dr. Haefner’s experience helping people change creates powerful opportunities for riders to transform their relationships with themselves and their horse in large and small ways. Justin comes from a background in vaquero style natural horsemanship, spending his childhood highly interested in creating and understanding deep connections with horses. Time spent starting young horses, foxhunting, and dabbling in many different disciplines gave him a base to understand key elements of a horse’s solid foundation. His focus on bodywork and anatomy/biomechanics goes hand in hand with his deep interest in classical dressage. His focus with every horse, no matter their discipline, is to gift them with strength of mind, body and emotion. Much of his work is based on the teaching and philosophy passed down by masters such as Nuno Oliveira. While patiently and steadfastly working to positively influence the equestrian world, Justin is deeply committed to continue his personal education. He hopes to return to Portugal where he spent time riding at the Centro Equestre Leziria Grande with the Valença’s, and continued lessons with Patrick King. His interests are in improving his own biomechanics and posture as a rider, as well as knowledge of horse and human physiology, training through classical philosophy, and further understanding and ability in equine bodywork.

09/21/2026

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We are looking to add new team member! Come and join us!Now Hiring: Part-Time Barn Help Riding Far, LLC is looking for d...
09/20/2026

We are looking to add new team member! Come and join us!

Now Hiring: Part-Time Barn Help

Riding Far, LLC is looking for dependable barn help to join our team at Sycamore Seed Farm in Charles Town, WV.

You'll help with morning feeding, turnout and bring-in, stall and paddock cleaning, grooming, and keeping our barn and grounds in great shape.

The details: Sycamore Seed Farm, Charles Town, WV Approximately 4 hours/day, Monday–Friday.

Pay commensurate with experience.

We're looking for someone who's experienced and comfortable around horses, comfortable working as part of a team, and takes pride in a well-run barn. Tractor experience is a plus — or we'll teach you.

Interested? Use this link to apply.

https://link.ridingfar.com/widget/form/Sy9Vp3G8qjYwcIaXlDFf?notrack=true

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Psych Saturday: Construction Zone AheadMy mind wanders at times. Probably a lot more now than when I was younger. I used...
09/19/2026

Psych Saturday: Construction Zone Ahead

My mind wanders at times. Probably a lot more now than when I was younger. I used to think of that as a problem. Yet the older I get, the more I appreciate the connections I make when my focus is soft and I am wandering through the day.

Sure, I make some cool connections when I am laser focused and analyzing a problem. But they never seem to be as playful and fun as the ones I make when I am engaged in reverie, that wonder-filled state somewhere between reflection and dreaming.

Yesterday I had one of those moments over my morning coffee. My wife, Pam, was chatting about getting ready for our first grandson, who is expected in January. I had the random thought, *Construction Ahead.* My mind flashed through all the times in my life, both personally and with my horses, that I had experienced life's equivalent of a construction zone.

Construction always starts with a vision of something new and improved.

I still remember, almost 30 years ago, dreaming up ways I could wed my passion for horses with my professional education and skills. I remember the many starts and stops, the distractions and detours along the way. Often, progress slowed to a standstill until the road ahead was cleared. Many times I was rerouted down roads that seemed so far from the path I wished to travel.

But lately I've noticed my "construction project" is a lot like the work on I-81 or I-95. It literally never ends. Each new piece seems to throw up roadblocks in ways and places where I was sure the work was already complete.

Nubble and I know that stretch of road well.

We were soaring along a path toward my goals. She was growing in balance and strength, our training was advancing, we had qualified for regional finals, and then she came up lame. Most of you know this part of the story. The diagnosis put an end to our competition goals, and I switched my focus to my other horse, Lil' Joe.

Lil' Joe is a very different horse, with very different physical and training needs. Honestly, it felt like a huge step back, a reroute onto a road I hadn't chosen and didn't want. But as I worked with him over the last several months, I realized that riding him demanded parts of my riding that my time with Nubble had never asked me to develop. He was refining things in me I didn't know were unfinished.

About three weeks ago, I checked on Nubble, and she was sound, at least for light riding. And here's the punchline: all the work I did with Lil' Joe made me a much better rider for Nubble.

That's the part they don't put on the sign.

We picture construction as a straight line from *broken* to *finished*, with detours as time lost. But some of the most important work of my life has happened on the detour, on the road I never wanted, the one that felt like a step backward. You can't see that from inside the cones. It only shows up later, when the main road reopens and you realize you crossed back onto it carrying something you could only have picked up on the way around.

I wouldn't trade this crazy, unpredictable, sometimes chaotic process for the world, not even the stretches that were challenging, painful, and hard. And here's what the reverie handed me over that cup of coffee: a construction zone isn't a thing to white-knuckle through. It's a thing to move through with soft eyes, alert to what the detour is trying to build in you.

The roadblocks and reroutes aren't the journey interrupting itself. They *are* the journey, for me, my horses, my relationships, and, come January, for the small new traveler about to join the ride.

~ Paul

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09/18/2026

The June clinic was about progression. From the title of the Saturday evening talk, it seems likely the theme for next week’s clinic with Pippa Callanan will be principles.
Auditor tickets still available and Saturday auditor tickets include the 6pm talk.
Tickets available via the Events on our page.

I talk a lot when I teach.Sometimes I’m explaining something because I think it will help the rider understand what we’r...
09/17/2026

I talk a lot when I teach.

Sometimes I’m explaining something because I think it will help the rider understand what we’re working toward. Sometimes I’m telling a story because apparently that’s what I do.

And sometimes I’m talking because I want the horse to have some time.

We can get so focused on making progress that it’s easy to move straight from one thing to the next. The horse gives us the answer we were looking for, so we immediately ask another question.

But sometimes the most useful thing I can do after something changes is nothing.

Stand there. Talk for a while. Let the reins go. Give the horse a chance to process what just happened.

That pause is part of the training too.

I don’t always need to ask for it again just because it worked.

Sometimes we need to give the horse time to make the connection between what they just did and the release that followed.

~ Justin

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This week’s Facebook Live explored what happens when we have enough confidence in our foundations to venture into less f...
09/14/2026

This week’s Facebook Live explored what happens when we have enough confidence in our foundations to venture into less familiar territory.

From knowing we can find our way back when things get messy, to watching the Working Equitation World Championships and being inspired by what might be possible, the conversation kept returning to growth. Not simply reaching for more, but building from what is already there.

As we look at the week ahead, what do we want to sustain, and where is there room to grow?

What intention will guide your week?

09/13/2026

This is a moment from our last clinic with Pippa Callanan. This little horse has progressed so much under her guidance. We can’t wait to see what advances he makes in the clinic at the end of the month.
Are you coming? Book your auditor spot now!
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Psych Saturday: Can I See Your ID?It has been a very rich and busy few months. I have been teaching with Justin, investi...
09/12/2026

Psych Saturday: Can I See Your ID?

It has been a very rich and busy few months. I have been teaching with Justin, investing in my own growth and skills with both horses and humans, supporting my clients, and working on building a future that allows Riding Far to reach and support more riders and horses. That, of course, is all on top of the usual day-to-day responsibilities of living: nurturing my own family relationships, taking care of my pets, maintaining my home, laundry, shopping, cooking… you know the drill.

This week I find myself tired. And with that weariness came feelings of frustration and discouragement. Yesterday I had a difficult ride on Lil' Joe. No one else may have noticed, but I did. I was tense and demanding in ways that I knew didn't work for Joe. Yet I couldn't seem to help myself (and Joe). So, after a number of small battles, I cut my ride short.

Did I mention I was tired?

On the ride home I was listening to a podcast and heard the word "burnout," and before I knew it my mind was racing to claim the title. God, how we love a label. Fortunately, I was able to quickly shake myself loose from the idea.

I don't object to the underpinning ideas behind something like burnout. Those who research and study a phenomenon like this make a valuable contribution. This knowledge helps us in numerous ways. It helps us understand ourselves and our reactions to the world we live in. It helps us understand and support others. And, most importantly, it can help us find effective ways to grow and change. What I object to is the tendency to claim it as an identity, as if the mere statement, "I am burnt out," could capture the depth and complexity of who you are and what you have experienced.

There is a shift in our current culture to glorify such labels. Given my work as a psychologist, I hear it most around diagnosis. I am anxious. I am depressed. I am bipolar. I am ADHD. I am on the spectrum. I am neurodivergent. I am… as if the diagnoses defined them.

I remember in grad school, during my clinical training, that it was impressed upon us that people weren't their diagnoses. We were carefully trained never to equate a person with a diagnosis. Instead, we described the diagnosis as a way of naming the experiences they were challenged with. The diagnosis informed the client and the work. It was never meant to be their identity.

More and more of my clients these days define themselves by their diagnoses. It seems to give them a sense of identity and entry into a club or group where they feel less alone and find support. Yet, at the same time, it limits them. Often in ways that work against their goals and what they want for themselves. I never thought in a million years that my work would evolve into "undiagnosing" people, helping them see themselves beyond their symptoms.

I suppose I should not have been surprised. After all, growth is all about stepping beyond our stories. It is about claiming the richness of who we are and resisting the temptation to find refuge in some convenient shorthand.

On my drive home yesterday, I felt some of the feelings we connect to burnout. I will take this seriously and act to care for myself. At the same time, that does not define me. It is not my identity. I am so much more than that. What's your ID?

~ Paul

09/11/2026

Some of our stories are easy to hear because we tell them to ourselves in words.
Others show up in how we react, what we notice, what we assume, and how we move through the world.
Those can be much harder to see from the inside.
Sometimes understanding ourselves means becoming curious about how we are experienced by others.

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