08/09/2026
Trust the Unfolding 🤍
Trust the Unfolding continues to make itself very prevalent in my life this August.
When I chose this theme, I don’t think I fully understood just how much I would be asked to actually live it.
Surgery is behind me, but healing is in front of me.
What started with a positive skin cancer diagnosis—basal cell carcinoma—has now led me to quite literally face the world differently.
My outer appearance has changed since reconstructive plastic surgery after my original Mohs procedure. There are stitches, swelling, a patch, and healing that still needs to happen. But while my outer appearance may feel a little more fragile right now, something inside of me feels stronger than ever.
Healing has also come with restrictions.
Slowing down.
Sitting still.
Letting other people help.
Not exercising or moving my body in the ways I’m used to.
Not being able to do all the things I normally do.
(And if you know me, you know slowing down doesn’t always come naturally)
There have been ups and downs. Moments of acceptance and moments of frustration. Moments when I’ve wanted to fast-forward through this part and get back to “normal.”
But maybe that’s exactly where Trust the Unfolding comes in.
Yesterday, I went to the Grotto in Rudolph. I brought along a book I had put down quite some time ago, tucked a journal into my bag, and off we went.
I found a spot in the gazebo and sat there for an extended period of time, a patch covering part of my face, while people wandered by taking in the beauty and peace of this breathtaking place.
And for once, there wasn’t anywhere I needed to be.
Nothing I needed to teach.
Nothing I needed to accomplish.
Nothing I needed to fix.
Just time to be.
I picked up my book and opened it exactly where I had left off months ago.
And then I turned the page.
I almost couldn’t believe what I was reading.
The message was about healing.❤️🩹
About how emotional and mental healing can have a physical impact on the body. About resting. Slowing down. Meditating. Giving yourself permission to pause and move at your own pace.
And then came the words:
“There is no rush. Go at your own pace.”
Of all the things I could have read in that moment…
But it went even deeper.
The author compared emotional healing to reopening an old wound—removing what was never fully healed, cleaning the wound, stitching it back together, and then giving it time to truly heal.
It talked about how a scar may remain, but how that scar simply becomes another part of your authentic self.
I just sat there.
Here I was in this beautiful, peaceful place, with a wound on my face, stitches underneath a patch, a future scar, and a body literally requiring me to rest—reading about wounds, stitches, scars, slowing down and healing.
I had started this book long before any of this happened.
I didn’t choose this chapter because I knew I would need it.
I didn’t flip through the book looking for something that would relate to what I was experiencing.
I simply picked up where I had left off.
And somehow, those words were waiting for me exactly when I was ready to receive them.
Maybe that’s part of what Trust the Unfolding has been trying to teach me.
We spend so much time wanting to know what’s next. Wanting to understand why something is happening. Wanting to rush through the uncomfortable parts so we can get to the other side.
But maybe we aren’t always supposed to know.
Maybe not every interruption is taking us off our path.
Sometimes the pause is the path.
Sometimes healing is the work.
And maybe healing isn’t always about getting back to who we were before something happened.
Maybe sometimes it asks us to become someone new through the process.
Yes, I may have a physical scar from this chapter of my life. My face may look a little different.
But perhaps that scar doesn’t have to represent something that was taken from me.
Maybe it can represent something I gained.
Strength.
Perspective.
Patience.
Gratitude.
A deeper appreciation for my body.
And maybe even a little more willingness to surrender when life asks me to slow down.
My outer appearance may be changing.
But my inner appearance feels stronger than ever.
And maybe that’s the unfolding I wasn’t expecting.
Surgery is behind me.
Healing is in front of me.
And rather than rushing toward the day when all of this is behind me too, I’m trying to be present for what it’s teaching me right now.
There is no rush. Go at your own pace.
So that’s exactly what I’m going to try to do.
Trust the healing.
Trust the timing.
Trust the pause.
Trust what I can’t yet see.
Thank you for taking the time to read this- from recent feedback from so many of you it sounds like most of us are going through some thing(s) that we don’t understand and want answers to but sometimes the best thing to do is trust the unfolding 🤍
Live well
Tarah
The Wellness Barn Studio, LLC
Tarah Mancl
Heart of Wisconsin Chamber of Commerce
Wisconsin Yoga
Northern Wisconsin Yoga & Community
Central Wisconsin Yoga Club