Doing Life Different with Lesa Koski

Doing Life Different with Lesa Koski A recovering Attorney, author, and podcast host who empowers women over 40 to rise from anxiety and overwhelm into clarity and confidence.

A breast cancer survivor, she teaches resilience, surrender, and courageous midlife reinvention Family Law, Elder Law & Mediation. Divorce Mediation can sound like a complicated process, but when it is all said and done, and people go, "wow that was almost easy", I know I have done my job right.

THIS WEEK ON DOING DIVORCE DIFFERENT 🎙️What if the person who hurt you can never give you the “why”?This week I'm talkin...
09/16/2026

THIS WEEK ON DOING DIVORCE DIFFERENT 🎙️

What if the person who hurt you can never give you the “why”?

This week I'm talking with author Dana Killion about trauma, betrayal, addiction, divorce—and what healing can actually look like on the other side.

Dana has walked through some incredibly hard things herself, and I loved how practical this conversation became.

We talk about:

✨ What to do when you never get the closure you wanted
✨ Dana's powerful “story of why”
✨ Loving someone with an addiction without trying to save them
✨ How to know when you may still have healing to do
✨ Why you get to decide who hears your story
✨ And how tiny steps can rebuild your confidence when life feels completely overwhelming

This isn't about rushing through the hard stuff.

It's about learning how to move through it—one step at a time.

🎧 Listen to my conversation with Dana Killion on *Doing Divorce Different* wherever you listen to podcasts.

09/16/2026

If you’re lying awake trying to answer, “Should I stay or should I go?”—you don’t have to figure out your entire future tonight.

Start with information.

Learn your options. Ask questions. Understand what each path could actually look like.

Then make decisions from clarity—not panic.

Save this for the woman who thinks she has to have it all figured out before she asks for help. ❤️

09/15/2026

If you are going through divorce can I take one thing off your plate?

09/14/2026

There are actually three answers to a divorce proposal…

09/11/2026

Three tips to help you make the divorce decision!

09/10/2026

The biggest communication mistake in divorce?
Trying harder to make them understand you.

09/09/2026

Before you spend hundreds of dollars asking your divorce attorney this question—stop.

Build your divorce team intentionally. The right person for the right problem can make this process so much easier.

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What if the best thing you could do in a difficult moment during divorce… is **nothing yet?**This week on *Doing Divorce...
09/09/2026

What if the best thing you could do in a difficult moment during divorce… is **nothing yet?**

This week on *Doing Divorce Different*, I sat down with family law attorney and author **Nicole Sodoma**, and she gave us one word I absolutely love:

**Selah.**

Pause.

Before you respond to that text.
Before you fire off the email.
Before you make a decision while your emotions are running high.

Nicole brings such a unique perspective to this conversation. She has practiced family law for 25 years—and she has also walked through divorce herself.

We talk about:

✨ What to do when divorce feels completely overwhelming
✨ Why women need to understand their finances
✨ Why we say “I’m sorry” when we aren't actually sorry
✨ How to communicate with a difficult co-parent
✨ How to protect your kids from carrying the emotional weight of divorce
✨ And why sometimes the most powerful response is simply to **pause**

This conversation is full of practical wisdom, but more importantly, HOPE.

🎧 Listen to this week’s *Doing Divorce Different* wherever you listen to podcasts.

And send this to a woman who may need the reminder today:

**You don't have to react to everything immediately. Selah. Pause. Then choose your response.**

09/08/2026

An expensive divorce mistake! #

09/04/2026

One of the hardest parts of divorce?
Accepting that you may NEVER get the apology. DivorceAdvice DivorceSupport

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