20/07/2026
Most of the time, when growth stalls in a business, it's not because of a bad strategy. It's something quieter than that.
A fear we haven't named. A doubt we've gotten so used to carrying that we don't even notice it anymore. An old pattern that used to protect us but is now simply in the way.
We tend to look for external answers first. A new tactic. A new tool. A new approach. And sometimes that's exactly what's needed. But sometimes the real block isn't out there at all. It's something internal that's been quietly running the show for longer than we realise.
I've seen this so often in my years of coaching. The shift doesn't always come from learning something new. Sometimes it comes from finally seeing something that was always there.
So this week I want to ask you something honestly.
If your growth has felt stuck lately, what do you think is actually holding it back? Not the surface reason. The real one.
17/07/2026
I love travelling alone.
There's something about wandering through a new place, no schedule but my own, fully present in the noise and colour around me. This photo was taken on one of those evenings, market stalls, string lights, a busy little lane somewhere far from home.
Being alone and being isolated are not the same thing.
I can sit with my own company and feel completely at peace. But I also know how important it is to have people around me who understand my world. My work. The decisions I carry.
This week we talked about not having to do business alone. I think the same applies to life. There's a real difference between choosing solitude and quietly carrying too much without support.
Wishing you a weekend that holds a little of both. Some space for yourself, and people nearby who truly see you.
17/07/2026
𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐎𝐧𝐞 𝐇𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐓𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐂𝐨𝐮𝐥𝐝 𝐂𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐠𝐞 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐁𝐮𝐬𝐢𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐬
As business owners, we spend most of our time working in our business.
- Answering emails.
- Meeting clients.
- Doing admin.
- Trying to keep everything moving.
Then one day we wonder, "Why am I working so hard, but my business is not growing as much as I hoped?"
Over the years, I have learnt something simple.
You cannot improve what you never stop to look at.
Imagine driving your car every day without ever looking at the dashboard.
You would not notice the warning lights.
You would not know when the petrol was running low.
You would keep driving and hope everything was okay.
Many of us do exactly that with our businesses.
We are so busy doing the work that we never stop to ask:
• What is working well?
• What is no longer working?
• What needs my attention now?
• What is the one thing that would make the biggest difference this month?
I have witnessed something so powerful over the past 6 months.
When entrepreneurs give themselves just one focused hour each month to pause, reflect, and make decisions, they achieve more.
Not because they work harder. Because they work with greater clarity.
Even the most disciplined and accountable people benefit from taking time to step back and think.
Sometimes the biggest breakthrough is not another strategy.
It is simply creating the space to ask better questions and getting the work done.
Participate in one practical hour each month with like-minded independent business owners to pause, reflect, refocus, and leave with some coaching and a clear plan for the month ahead.
𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐁𝐮𝐬𝐢𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐬 𝐌𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐮𝐦 𝐇𝐨𝐮𝐫
📅 Thursday, 30 July
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Come and do the work that you've been putting off.
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KimXx
13/07/2026
This was one of my workshops a few years back.
Look at this room. Different backgrounds, different industries, different stages of business. But every single person in this photo showed up because they understood something important. You don't have to build a business completely alone.
One of the things nobody really warns you about when you start out is how isolating it can become. You're the one making the decisions. You're the one carrying the pressure. You're the one who has to figure things out, often without anyone who really understands what that feels like.
So many business owners quietly normalise that isolation. They wear it like a badge, as if doing it all alone is proof of strength.
But what I've seen, over and over again, is that the entrepreneurs who grow the most sustainably are rarely the ones doing it completely alone. They're the ones who find their people. A room, a community, a few honest conversations that remind them they're not the only one carrying this.
Needing support isn't weakness. It's one of the most strategic things you can build into your business.
So this week I want to ask you. Who are the people around you who actually understand what you're carrying? And if you can't think of anyone, that might be worth paying attention to.
10/07/2026
This is Tao as a puppy. My little CEO, long before he earned that title.
Look at that face. So small, so unsure of the world, completely unaware of who he was going to become.
I think about this a lot when it comes to growth. None of us start as the version of ourselves we eventually grow into. Tao certainly didn't start out as the confident, opinionated little CEO he is today. He grew into that, slowly, in his own time.
The same is true for us in business. We don't arrive fully formed into the people our work eventually asks us to become. We grow into it. One season at a time.
So if you're feeling like you don't quite recognise the person your business needs you to be yet, that's okay. You're not supposed to be there yet. You're just growing into it.
Don't you think that ending your week with a picture of a cute puppy is just the best? I do.
06/07/2026
Most days in business are spent reacting.
Answering messages. Solving problems. Delivering for clients. Keeping things moving. It's necessary work, and it matters.
But there's a different kind of work that often gets pushed aside simply because it doesn't feel urgent. Working ON your business instead of just in it. Stepping back to look at the structure, the systems, the direction. Asking whether what you're building is actually sustainable, or whether you're just keeping your head above water.
Both kinds of work matter. But only one of them creates real growth.
So this week I want you to ask yourself something. When was the last time you stepped back and worked on your business, rather than just working in it?
If it's been a while, that might be worth changing.
03/07/2026
I took this photo on a recent trip to Vietnam, right in the middle of the traffic.
And it's such a perfect picture of what it feels like to be deep in the busyness of running a business. Cars everywhere. Constant movement. So much happening around you that it becomes impossible to see anything beyond what's directly in front of you.
That's what working in your business feels like sometimes. You're moving, you're busy, you're getting through the day. But you can't actually see the bigger picture because you're too close to it.
This week we talked about the importance of stepping back and working on your business, not just in it. Of finding the moments to rise above the traffic, even just for an hour, and seeing the fuller picture again.
Wherever you are this weekend, I hope you find a little space to do that.