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21/10/2026

Fixing it, finishing it, polishing it, wasn’t really about the work.

It’s about me. Being the one who can fix it feels like my value. Letting something go feels like a risk.

If you’re not sure whether you do this, look for the signs:
Work arrives on your desk rougher than it used to.
People ask what you think before they’ve said what they think.
You’re the last one to close the laptop.

In my LeadHer programme we talk about the move from doing, to managing, to leading. Most capable women get stuck between the first and the second, because doing is what they have always been praised for.

The question I need to keep asking myself is this: what am I protecting by holding on to it?

Sit with that one today. I’d love to hear what comes up. 🩵

Why Friday and not Monday morning?Because on Monday we plan from pressure. On Friday we can plan from evidence. The week...
19/10/2026

Why Friday and not Monday morning?

Because on Monday we plan from pressure. On Friday we can plan from evidence.
The week is still fresh, and you can see what really happened instead of what you meant to happen.

Two things I see people get wrong the first time they try this.
They turn "what moved" into a list of what didn't. Notice it, and go back to what did.

And they choose five things for Monday.
Choose one. One step with a time is a plan. Five is another to-do list.

The first few Fridays, the list of what moved will feel small. Keep it anyway. A month from now you'll have four pages of proof that you are further along than you feel.

If you lead a team, try it in the last fifteen minutes of your Friday meeting, and let the quietest person go first.

Are you in for this Friday? Say yes below and I'll check in with you. 🤍
Save this so it's there when Friday comes.

A little gratitude post. 🤍To every client, friend and colleague who has ever recommended me, introduced me to someone, o...
17/10/2026

A little gratitude post. 🤍

To every client, friend and colleague who has ever recommended me, introduced me to someone, opened a door or spoken about my work when I wasn’t in the room — THANK YOU!

Some of the most meaningful opportunities I’ve had started with someone simply saying, “You should speak to Donna.”

And that means more to me than you probably realise.

Behind every recommendation is a relationship. Behind every referral is trust. And I don’t take either lightly.

I’m incredibly grateful for the people who continue to champion me and the work I love doing.

Thank you! X

A little gratitude post. 🧡To every client, friend and colleague who has ever recommended me, introduced me to someone, o...
17/10/2026

A little gratitude post. 🧡

To every client, friend and colleague who has ever recommended me, introduced me to someone, opened a door or spoken about my work when I wasn’t in the room — THANK YOU!

Some of the most meaningful opportunities I’ve had started with someone simply saying, “You should speak to Donna.”

And that means more to me than you probably realise.

Behind every recommendation is a relationship. Behind every referral is trust. And I don’t take either lightly.

I’m incredibly grateful for the people who continue to champion me and the work I love doing.

Thank you! X

Notes to self. Literally. 🪞😅For years, I’ve been writing little reminders on my bathroom mirror. Put together like this,...
15/10/2026

Notes to self. Literally. 🪞😅

For years, I’ve been writing little reminders on my bathroom mirror. Put together like this, they actually tell you a lot about me. 🙊

Some gentle. Some challenging. Some very direct.

Because we all need a nudge sometimes and a reminder that momentum often begins with one small shift in perspective.

Here are some reminders I’ve needed over the years.

Which one is for you today? 🤍

The first time I tried these questions around our dinner table, I got a few shrugs and maybe a "fine".They don't work be...
14/10/2026

The first time I tried these questions around our dinner table, I got a few shrugs and maybe a "fine".

They don't work because they are conversation starters. They work because they get asked again next week, and the week after, until everyone trusts that the answer will actually be heard.
What changed it in our house was me going first, and being honest. When children hear a parent say "this felt hard for me this week", it gives them permission to say it too.

The same is true in the teams I work with. Nobody tells a leader what's hard until the leader has shown it's safe to. Home is where we get to practise.
So don't try all five. Choose the one you would find hardest to answer yourself, and start there.

Which one is that for you? Mine is the one that asks for help. 🤍
Save this for Sunday, and send it to the person you share a dinner table with.

I don’t want to build a successful life that I’m too busy to live.I’ve spent much of my life building. A career, a famil...
13/10/2026

I don’t want to build a successful life that I’m too busy to live.

I’ve spent much of my life building. A career, a family, businesses, opportunities and dreams for the future.

And I still have big ambitions. There are things I want to create, places I want to go, people I want to influence and a legacy I want to leave.

But I’ve also learned that building a meaningful life isn’t just about what we achieve.

It’s about who we’re becoming along the way. The people we’re investing in. The values we’re living out. The everyday moments that eventually become the story of our lives.

And that’s where the juggle gets real. 😅

Because I know what it’s like to love your work and wish you had more time at home. To have big dreams and limited capacity. To know what matters most, but still get caught up in the busyness of everyday life.

I haven’t figured it all out. I’m still learning, adjusting, making mistakes and starting again.

But one thing I’ve become increasingly convinced of is that living well and leading well isn’t about getting everything right.

It’s about getting clear on what matters now, making intentional choices and having the courage to keep growing. Sometimes that means stepping forward into something new. Other times it means saying no to something good to make room for something that matters more.

This belief shapes the work I do, the way I lead, the home we’re building and the things I share here.

Because I believe that legacy isn’t something we only leave behind one day. It’s something we cultivate through the way we live and lead today.

And ultimately, I don’t just want to build a successful life.

I want to build a life that matters.

If you’re navigating your own juggle, pursuing big dreams while trying to stay present for the life you’re living, I hope you’ll find encouragement, perspective and practical tools here.

Here’s to living well and leading well, together. 🧡

12/10/2026

The most important meeting of my week has two people in it, and it happens on the couch.
On a Sunday Ewan and I take ten minutes with both our diaries open:
Planning lifts.
Who’s where?
Which day is the pressure point?
Where each of us needs help.

It isn’t romantic, but it’s one of the kindest things we do for each other.
Because a family doesn’t lose momentum for lack of caring. It loses it on a Wednesday at 5pm, when nobody knew about the thing. The forgotten costume. The meeting that ran over. The lift nobody arranged.
Ten minutes on a Sunday means we start the week on the same side.

You don’t need a perfect system at home. You need one regular moment where the week gets looked at together. Start there, and the rest gets easier to build.
If you want something to look at while you do it, my family weekly planner is free on the Tools page of my website. Link in bio.
Do you have a version of this planning meeting?🩵

Nothing I’ve built and achieved outside of the work I do happened in one big, brave leap.All of it started much smaller....
11/10/2026

Nothing I’ve built and achieved outside of the work I do happened in one big, brave leap.

All of it started much smaller.

An idea I couldn’t quite shake. A conversation. A decision to make some space for something that mattered to me. A first step, without knowing exactly where it would lead.

And often, the timing wasn’t particularly convenient. Life was full then, just as it is now.

I’ve also had seasons where I’ve waited. For more time. For things to settle. For a clearer picture of how it would all work.

But something I’ve learnt is that we don’t always find momentum before we move. The movement itself creates it.

Last month I spent a lot of time reflecting on clarity. Knowing what matters, where we’re heading and what deserves our attention.

Clarity shows us what matters most. Momentum is what happens when we start acting on it.

There are still things in my own life that I’m figuring out. Ideas I’m sitting with. Things I’d like to build. Steps I know I need to take.

And perhaps the reminder I need as much as anyone else is that I don’t need to have the whole thing figured out before I begin.

Just the next step.

Because a year from now, I want to be able to look back and know that I started. Even if it was small. Even if it was imperfect.

What about you? Is there something you’ve been meaning to start? Start it today. 🧡

Most of the women I coach aren't short on ambitious goals. They're short on the proof that moves them towards that goal....
09/10/2026

Most of the women I coach aren't short on ambitious goals. They're short on the proof that moves them towards that goal.
They can tell me exactly where they want to be. What they can't point to is anything from the last month that says they're on the way. So the goal starts to feel like evidence against them, rather than something inspiring to llook forward to.

This loop is how we turn that around. It's deliberately small. One step, a time and a place, a line of evidence, the next step, and again.

The third part is often what gets missed. We finish something and go straight to the next thing without noticing that anything moved. Write it down, track the visual. Momentum is mostly the experience of seeing your own progress.
Swipe through, pick one thing, and run the loop once this week. Just once.

Which part do you skip? I'm quick to move on without acknowledging the evidence.
Save this for Monday morning, and if you'd like help running it on something that really matters, DM me SHIFT. 🤍

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