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09/30/2026

09/29/2026

🫩Being slow, moody, and always tired usually isn't a motivation problem; it's a fuel problem.😫😮‍💨

When food (calorie) intake doesn't cover growth plus training, the body starts cutting costs:
Energy, hormones, and bone repair.

🆘That's RED-S:
Relative Energy Deficiency in Sport.

It can show up at any body size, in any sport, at any level.

The brain is trying to survive an environment, not perform a sport.

And our eating behaviors are a signal of either consistent energy availability or not in our environment.

When it's not consistently meeting the demand, our body turns to conserving energy and output hoping we will go to a new environment with more food or survive long enough for food to come our way.

Think about it like hibernation.
It will not waste our resources on "extra" activity.

So unless you wanna perform like a hibernating bear 🐻 💤 👇🏻

Four things that move the needle:
Eat 3 to 5 times a day, breakfast included.
Carbs before and after practice.
Treat eating as part of training.
Talk about food as fuel, never body size.

And if periods stop for three months or more, weight drops unplanned, a stress fracture shows up, or eating starts turning into rules, that's a doctor, not a new meal plan.

The goal isn't a leaner kid. It's one still training in ten years who still likes food.

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Do you eat enough for your output everyday?

09/28/2026

"How was your sleep?" 😴 Becomes: "How was your suffocation?" ☠️

Nothing in this post required a supplement.

It requires a wake time that doesn't move and a bedroom that gets dark.

If your sleep is actually broken — not "meh," but gasping and snoring broken.

(Sleep apnea can also be silent, so snoring can't be the only symptom clue)

Or ten hours and still exhausted broken.

Go see someone with a medical degree.

Not someone whose entire education on the subject is a one-page pamphlet, a commission structure, and words they learned last week on a webinar.

"Balance your hormones" sells a lot of products and explains almost nothing.

Your body doesn't want everything level.
It wants things high at the right time and low at the right time.

Cortisol high at waking: good.
Cortisol high at midnight: the thing you're actually complaining about.

Melatonin climbs toward midnight until light hits your eyes and switches it off.

Aldosterone peaks in deep sleep too, so that's the actual reason you're not up at 3am.

Skip deep sleep and you get the 3am bathroom trip along with everything else you lost.

Same with sleep itself.

Deep sleep sits early in the night, REM sits late.
Which means a short night isn't a slightly smaller version of a full one.

It removes specific stages entirely. Stay up two hours late, you lose deep sleep.

Get up two hours early, you lose REM.

This is no different than Jet Lag. 🧑🏻‍✈️🛬

Different debt, different bill to your health.

One or two nights of bad sleep — that's fine.
Maybe even a week. Also okay.

Don't stress about sleep to the point it causes the stress that interrupts the sleep.

But chronic? That's a... chronic health condition.
And sleep rhythm changes with age, sometimes due to hormones.
And sometimes due to brain changes.

It can be very frustrating, and learning more about it — from the right, honest people — can be very helpful.

Do your best to fix and set the clock before you fix the chemistry.
The clock is what controls the rest.

You'd be surprised what a bit of rhythm can solve.
Doesn't make it easy. Just honest.

09/27/2026

Happy New Year! 🎉 👇🏻

Welcome to this week's edition of:
Sassy Pants Sunday💁🏻🧏🏻

Here is your slap before the MLM ghouls and goblins come to feast on your insecurities. 👻 🧟🧛🏻

Someone mentioned "New Years" to me a couple of days ago (wtf) so I figured I'd post a reality check I can gesture aggressively back at 🤌🏻

Nobody wants to hear it, but the guy tracking his HRV on four hours of sleep is not optimizing anything.

I am not against tracking!
In fact, some people can, and it's smart for them to do!

And some people do, because they have a bit of an identity crisis they believe they solved with neuroticism.

We all got baggage. 🛍️ No shame in that.

In fact, optimizing something usually just means giving a 💩 about it long enough for it to balance out in life.

You don't have to "measure" if you have a general capacity for awareness.

"Oh.... this is messing me up and I need help getting on track."

That awareness is the thing that gets you looking for a tool, and measuring is that tool — it shows you the trend, whether you're on track, and how to build a better environment to stay there.

But getting a poor sleep score because you care more about TikTok than your sleep doesn't need to be measured.
You already know.
And you know you know.

"The call is coming from INSIDE the house!" 😱

So we need to change an environment so we can't DO that thing.
Not SAY we won't do that thing.

You are super good at doing that thing, so the likelihood you won't do what you're good at is low when it's available.

And they made these phones and apps to hijack our brains to become insecure consumers, so...

Anyways....

Health hacks get attention because they're new, buyable and fun to talk about.

"Well, that girl with the 'THICC 🍑' and the man with the 'High Test Bulge' drank rhino p**s and said it worked for people in ancient times, so it must be better than addressing my physical and emotional needs responsibly and patiently, with help."

No — the internet is just slop, and we made Liver King rich because we'll pay to have our own insecurity and mortality sold back to us.

Because the hard look in the mirror would say:

"I don't care about me enough unless it has a price tag"

Or a diagnosis attached to a buzzword.

Please see:
- Cortisol
- Gluten
- Inflammation
- Adrenal fatigue

Even IF it was those, you still need these 👇🏻

This is caring:

Sleep, walking, protein, fibre, and lifting, loving and laughing.
They're where almost all the results live.

The ROI math is brutal when you add hacks.
Fixing your sleep delivers massive returns.

Timing your first coffee while still pounding back a Scarface amount of stimulants is a rounding error.

Humans, eh.
Let's keep trying our best and ask for help!

09/26/2026

455 lb and lost a grip on reality... ☠️

Comment if interested 👇🏻

Had a few people message me about a powerlifting intensive weekend course to learn the fundamentals of:

- Squatting
- Bench press
- Deadlift

And the different tools and concepts in training for getting very strong.

A barbell can't hurt you!

But yes, people can hurt themselves with a barbell.

But understanding the fundamentals and being patient can make it a fun, safe and valuable sport.

It is a sport, so we can learn some nuances and rules to make it fun and long-lasting.

Let us know, would you like to learn more?! Comment below!

For me, I'm testing here:

Testing some raw (no straps/belt) conventional before winter sets in and it becomes a staple in the program again.

It has been a bit on since I have been on a straight bar, mostly trap bar and RDL's.

So this wasn't my best, but not as bad as I expected.

My only goal was to pull 405 through my 30s.
Over halfway through my 30s, so it's fine... 🫠

09/24/2026

BIDWB: When should an athlete build muscle?

Mostly in the off-season. In-season, the job changes.

Save this if you train, coach, or parent an athlete. 👇

📢 These kids aren't just building muscle.
They're also growing — taller, into adult bodies, on a timeline nobody controls.

Building strength on top of that is asking more from the same fuel tank, not less.

Practices and games spend resources.
Building tissue costs resources.
Growing costs resources.
All three pull from the same plate and the same pillow.

Off-season: build muscle, strength, power.
In-season: maintain it, fuel it, recover, don't gain it just to lose it.

If a young athlete is losing weight or getting weaker mid-season....
That's not enough food or not enough sleep, showing up as lost tissue during a season they're also supposed to be growing through.

And it doesn't stop at the body.
Calories just means energy — and when energy is low, mood goes with it.
This is where "burnt out" comes from.
Where a kid starts resenting practice, pulling away from the team, going flat on a sport they used to love.

That's not (just) attitude.

That's a kid running on empty, still being asked to perform.
What that actually takes:

Protein at most meals, not just after practice.

Enough total food — growing + training athletes usually need more than parents think (3 meals, 2 snacks).

Carbs around practice and game days, not just "eat healthy"

Sleep — this is when the actual growing and adapting happens, not in the gym

Sports aren't separate from nutrition.
Height, strength, mood, third-period legs are all downstream of what went in that day.

So it's not "eat clean and hope."

It's enough food, enough protein, carbs timed around the work, and sleep to let all of it:
Muscle, height, and mindset

actually happen.

What's harder right now — eating enough, or sleeping enough?
Ian Anthony McKay

09/22/2026

Uhhh how's that Co-Op, Bella? 😅🫠
She's gonna find us some more challenges! 👀

09/22/2026

Toning isn't a thing your muscles "do".
Really, It's a thing you're trying to see:
The muscle.

Muscle doesn't have a toned setting.
It has size, and it has whatever's covering it. That's it.

Look at a steak.
The marbling is fat, soft, and sits on top.
The dark meat is muscle and its dense, holds its shape and lean.

Nobody's ever looked at a ribeye and called the fat "undertoned."

Those are the big two variables

Fat is an organ.
Muscle is an organ.

Fat is fuel.
Muscle uses fuel.

High reps don't "tone" it.
Heavy singles don't "bulk" it by accident.

Both are just muscles getting a stimulus.
Different degrees, same category of thing.

The fat will drop when calories stay low long enough, and that's decided somewhere else entirely, mostly in the kitchen and some general low intensity movement where fat is the preferred fuel source.

(Yes, that step count)

So "I want to tone up" actually means two separate jobs pretending to be one.

Lose the fat layer.
Build what's under it.
And really neither job cares what your rep scheme was.