21/08/2025
There's always something before the growl. Here's what you're probably missing!
Dogs have many polite ways of saying “I need space” before they growl.
Do you know what to watch out for? 🐾
Before dogs growl, they usually give subtle signs that they’re uncomfortable, but these signals can be very easy to miss, especially around children.
As a behaviourist, I often support families with fostered or adopted children. One common theme I see is how easily these early signs go unnoticed. Dogs don’t go from calm to growling without reason. They escalate when their quieter requests haven’t been heard.
A growl isn’t bad behaviour, it’s communication. It’s your dog saying, “I need space. Please stop.”
If we learn to listen before it gets to that point, we protect both our dogs and our children.
Here are five common signals to watch for (though there are many more):
👅 Lip-licking (not food-related)
😮 Yawning (not due to tiredness)
👁 Whale eye (showing the whites of the eyes)
👀 Turning away, moving off, or leaning back
❄️ Freezing or going still
These are your dog’s way of saying, “I’m not comfortable.”
The kindest and safest response is to give them space and reduce the pressure they’re feeling.
That might mean gently asking your child to stop what they’re doing, for example, hugging the dog, following them around, or playing loudly nearby. Instead, guide them towards a calmer activity like colouring, reading, or quiet play in another room.
Separation and distance are key.
A baby gate, a separate room, or a quiet space with a chew or snuffle mat can really help.
This isn’t punishment, it’s giving your dog what they’re asking for: space. And by doing that, we build trust.
When we respond early and respectfully, we prevent things from escalating and help everyone feel safe and understood.
Notice the whispers.
Prevent the growl.
Keep kids safe.
👀 Have you noticed any of these signs in your dog?
❓Do you know the other subtle signals dogs use?
Feel free to share below, and if you’d like more support around safe child–dog interactions, I’m here to help.