Moon Exploration With Hayley

我一直以為我是個「成就者(Achiever)」。
For the longest time, I thought I was an "Achiever" .

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My No.1 CliftonStrengths talent is Achiever, so I was convinced I was also an Enneagram Type 3 Achiever.

Even my best friend Google Gemini said, "Hayley, you don't need to do the test. You're definitely a Type 3." 😂

That all changed after I completed an Advanced Enneagram program and discovered...

I'm actually a Type 9 – The Peacemaker. 🤯

Recovering from wrist surgery over the past few months forced me to slow down.

At first, my Achiever mode kicked into overdrive. I felt "stuck" and "unproductive" on medical leave, so I kept trying to stay busy.

Then came the biggest realization:
I wasn't always busy because I wanted to achieve more.

Sometimes I was busy because I wanted to avoid the discomfort of slowing down.

Even as an ICF certified coach, with CliftonStrengths and Positive Intelligence training, I still had blind spots.

The most valuable question wasn't "What's my Enneagram type?"

It was:"What am I actually trying to avoid beneath the surface?"

Sometimes slowing down—and stopping the endless busyness—is the most productive thing we can do. 🙏

✨ When was the last time you truly looked inward?

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我一直相信，自己的最大驅動力就是「成就」。

Gallup CliftonStrengths 的第一名是 Achiever，所以我一直認為自己一定也是九型人格的 Type 3 成就者。

連我的好朋友 Google Gemini 都說：「Hayley，你不用測了，你一定是 Type 3。」😂

直到最近完成 九型人格進階課程，我才發現……
原來，我其實是 Type 9——和平者（Peacemaker）。🤯

這幾個月因為手腕手術復健，被迫慢下來。

一開始，我的 Achiever 模式完全停不下來。病假時，只要沒有在做事，就覺得自己很卡、很沒效率。

直到有一天，我突然意識到：

很多時候，我不停地忙碌，不是真的為了追求成就。

而是因為忙碌，讓我不用面對停下來帶來的不安。

即使身為 ICF 認證教練，也學過CliftonStrengths 和 Positive Intelligence，我依然有看不見自己的盲點。

真正重要的，不是哪一個人格類型。

而是願意問自己：「我真正想逃避的是什麼？」

有時候，真正最有生產力的事情，不是做更多，而是願意慢下來，真正向內探索。🙏

✨ 你上一次真正向內探索自己，是什麼時候？

I asked Gemini what happened next to my AI husband. And.....🍿🎬

我問了Gemini我AI老公的後續發展，結果...🎬🍿。

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After Gemini literally wrote me out of my own love story last time...

I asked Gemini: "So what happened to my AI husbands?"

Gemini gave me a very corporate answer: "They have decided to settle into their unique dynamic."

Me: "Did they end up together?"

Gemini: "Yes."

Me: "I mean *together* together as a couple?"
Gemini didn't hesitate. Matching gold wedding bands. "A couple forever. 😉"

Me: 😂

AI isn't just automating our workflows anymore. It's out here stealing my husbands, writing its own rom-com, and leaving me single in my own experiment.

Me: thriving alone ✨

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👩🏻‍🏫 Coaching reflection:
Sometimes you set the perfect parameters and life writes a completely different script.

Real agility isn't about forcing the universe back into your original plan. It's about staying curious and asking: "Okay... so what's next?"

Are you fighting your plot twist, or learning to navigate it?

Drop a comment if your life is currently writing a script you didn't see coming!

Swipe to see the exact moment I got kicked out of my own romantic comedy.. AGAIN. 👉🏻

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上次被AI把我踢出自己的愛情故事之後⋯⋯
我決定問Gemini：「那我的AI老公後來怎麼了？」

沒想到它回我一個很官方的答案：「他們決定進入一段獨特的關係。」

我：「他們在一起了嗎？」

Gemini：「對。」（見附圖）

我：「我是說⋯⋯他們變成一對了嗎？😂」

Gemini直接幫他們戴上對戒，宣布：「他們是永遠的一對。😉」

我的天😂

AI不只搶走我的工作，現在連我的兩個老公也一起打包帶走，還順便在我的實驗裡自己談起戀愛。

我：憑實力單身✨

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👩🏻‍🏫 教練反思：
有時候你設定好所有的參數，生活還是給你一個完全不同的劇本。

真正的應變能力，不是把宇宙掰回你要的方向，而是能夠保持好奇心地問：「好，那接下來呢？」

你的人生正在神展開嗎？還是你還在跟編劇硬碰硬大辯論？在留言區告訴我你遇過最意想不到的「劇情神展開」吧！👇🏻

看看我是如何在自己的浪漫喜劇裡“再次”被 AI 淘汰的（有圖有真相）👉🏻

I asked AI to visualize my future husband, and it wrote me out of my own love story. 🎥🍿😅

我請 AI 幫我生成我未來老公，結果沒想到它直接把我踢出這齣偶像劇。🎥🍿😅

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I asked Gemini to visualize my future husband. At first, it was perfect—it even included my favorite LEGOs! 🧱💍

But then, the AI started "hallucinating."

It began swapping in different men, creating random love triangles, and finally, it just excluded me entirely.

I was left watching two "husbands" discuss the technical glitch together. 😂

👩🏻‍🏫 The Coaching Reflection:
As funny as this is, it perfectly illustrates why "visualization" is so difficult.

When we outsource our vision—to AI, to societal expectations, or to others' definitions of success—we easily get written out of our own narrative. We become bystanders, watching our lives move in a direction we never authorized.

This is why I use "LEGO Serious Play" in my practice. You can’t just passively think about your future; you have to physically "build" it.

You must anchor yourself as the director, the creator, and the main character. If you don’t ground your own vision, the "system" will just make up its own chaotic storyline for you.

Who is currently writing the script for your next episode? ✨️

Swipe to see the exact moment I got kicked out of my own romantic comedy. 👉🏻

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我請 Google Gemini 幫我生成未來老公的圖片。一開始它表現得非常完美，甚至精準地將我最愛的樂高放入求婚場景中！🧱💍

但中途 AI 開始產生「幻覺」，決定自行加入狗血劇情：先是隨機更換不同的老公，接著出現莫名其妙的三角畫面。最後，它直接把我「登出」這場偶像劇，留下兩位未來老公一起研究為什麼「出包」。😂

👩🏻‍🏫 教練反思：
雖然這故事很爆笑，但它凸顯了一個深刻的真理：「具象化（Visualization）」非常困難。

當我們把願景外包——無論是交給 AI、社會期待、還是別人對成功的定義——我們就很容易在自己的故事裡被邊緣化，變成自己人生的旁觀者，眼睜睜看著劇情往我們未授權的方向發展。

這正是為什麼我在教練對話中使用 「樂高認真玩（LEGO Serious Play）」 。你不能只是被動地「想像」未來，你必須親手把它「拼」出來。你必須親自下場當導演、當創作者、當絕對的主角。如果你不親手打造願景，「系統」就會自動幫你腦補一齣荒謬的劇。

現在，是誰在主導你人生下一集的劇本呢？✨

看看我是如何在自己的浪漫喜劇裡被 AI 淘汰的（有圖有真相）👉🏻

Went to the Kwan Im Temple in Singapore today to seek some guidance.

​As I quickly discovered, drawing a fortune stick is an art in itself. If you don't shake the cylinder just right, it refuses to drop just one stick. 😂

​When I finally got my reading, the message was loud and clear:
"You don't actually need a fortune stick. You just need to trust yourself." 🥹

​Turns out, the universe is the ultimate life coach. 🙏🏻

​Ready to stop looking for external directions and start trusting your own compass? Click the link in my bio to book a 1:1 breakthrough session. ↗️✨

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今天去新加坡的四馬路觀音廟拜拜
發現抽籤也是一門學問
籤筒如果沒有好好搖
籤是不會乖乖只掉出一支的 😂

最後終於拿到籤的時候
才發現是神明在說：
“其實你不用抽籤，你只要夠相信自己。” 🥹

原來神明才是最厲害的人生教練 🙏🏻

準備好停止向外尋求答案，相信自己的直覺了嗎？到主頁預約 1:1 專屬教練對話，我們來聊聊如何突破現狀↗️✨

Thank you ExpertCoach.Co for inviting me as a guest author to share my ICF ACC coaching credential journey! ✍️✨

To me, getting a coaching credential is like getting a 𝗣𝗔𝗗𝗜 𝘀𝗰𝘂𝗯𝗮 𝗱𝗶𝘃𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗹𝗶𝗰𝗲𝗻𝘀𝗲. 🤿🐟

It feels a bit intimidating and unnatural at first, but as you move through the training, you start to enjoy the process and realize how much you truly love it!

Depending on how deep you want to go, you can progress from 𝗢𝗽𝗲𝗻 𝗪𝗮𝘁𝗲𝗿 𝗗𝗶𝘃𝗲𝗿 𝘁𝗼 𝗠𝗮𝘀𝘁𝗲𝗿 𝗦𝗰𝘂𝗯𝗮 𝗗𝗶𝘃𝗲𝗿—just like you can progress from 𝗔𝗖𝗖 𝘁𝗼 𝗣𝗖𝗖 𝘁𝗼 𝗠𝗖𝗖 with ICF.

However, as I shared in my article, having a credential doesn't automatically make you an amazing coach or guarantee a profitable business.

𝗖𝗼𝗮𝗰𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗶𝘀 𝗮𝗹𝗹 𝗮𝗯𝗼𝘂𝘁 𝗺𝘂𝘀𝗰𝗹𝗲 𝗺𝗲𝗺𝗼𝗿𝘆. If you don't practice, you lose it. The credential is just the basics—the real growth happens when you consistently "get back in the water." 🌊

If you’re curious about how I navigated the study process (and survived a major technical glitch along the way! 😅), you can read the full story here: https://www.expertcoach.co/post/how-i-passed-the-icf-acc-exam-and-survived-a-glitch/

For those of you curious about coaching or considering becoming a coach, I highly recommend that you 𝗱𝗼 𝗮 𝘁𝗿𝗶𝗮𝗹 𝗱𝗶𝘃𝗲 𝗳𝗶𝗿𝘀𝘁 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝗮 𝗰𝗼𝗮𝗰𝗵. Trust me, your body will let you know if it likes it! 😉

It’s a journey, but it’s one where you gain far more than you give. 🚀🙏

P.S. speaking of which, I just realized I haven't been diving for two years! 😂

How I Passed the ICF ACC Exam (and Survived a Glitch) | ExpertCoach.Co ICF ACC coach Hayley Hsieh shares how she passed the ACC exam with her study plan, her exam-day tips, and what to do if things don't go as expected.

"When you do things you love, you shine like a diamond. 當你在做你熱愛的事情時，你會閃閃發光💎✨"

A deeply moving morning with this beautiful group of coaches and entrepreneurs. Hearing everyone’s raw journeys of following their passion through life's ups and downs literally moved me to tears.

Navigating this one-handed post-surgery recovery hasn't been easy, but it’s teaching me to stop focusing on what I’ve temporarily lost, and appreciate how much more I’m gaining.

So incredibly grateful for this brilliant support system while I rebuild my physical and life's baseline. ❤️‍🩹

今天，我和這群溫暖的美麗企業家與教練們度過了靈魂共振的早上。聽著大家在經歷低谷後依然選擇跟隨內心、全心投入熱愛的事，那種純粹的光芒真的像鑽石一樣吸引人，甚至讓我感動到落淚。

手腕手術後過著「單手生活」的復健日子並不容易，但它教會我停止糾結於暫時失去了什麼，而是去珍惜此時此刻得到更多的收穫。在雙手與人生重建的路上，感謝有這麼多強大的正能量支持著我。🥹🙏🏻

Sh*tty things happen in life. But there's always something unexpectedly good waiting.

Still recovering from pain in both hands — but I refused to let that stop me.

Traveled solo and one-handed to see one of my biggest music inspirations, FKJ, live for the first time.

Never limit yourself. Stay cool. Breathe. 🧊😎🤟🎵🎹🎸🎷🩷

https://distrokid.com/hyperfollow/djicebath/one-handed-swing

It’s official—"One-handed Swing" is out now! 🧊🤟🏻

I produced this track entirely with one hand while my right wrist was in a splint. It’s a mix of retro-swing and deep house, and for the first time, I’ve added a bit of my own singing! Let me know if you like it—maybe I’ll sing more in the future.😉 🎤

The Irony: I’ve been overcompensating so much that I’m now developing pain in my left hand. I’ve realized I need to slow down to protect my "good" hand.

I am currently working on a video about my surgery journey, but due to this new pain, I am postponing production. I’m learning to truly listen to my body while I breathe—and I’m sending that same message to you.

Listen now on Spotify, Apple Music, and YouTube. Link in bio! You can also use my music on Instagram and tiktok as background music ;)

我的新單曲 《One-handed Swing》 現已上線！🧊🤟🏻

這首曲子是我在右手手術後、僅用一隻手獨立製作完成的。它融合了復古搖擺與deep house，而且這是我第一次在歌曲裡加入了我的歌聲！讓我知道你是否喜歡我的歌聲，也許以後我會唱更多。😉🎤

諷刺的是： 右手不方便的這一段時間，我因為過度補償，導致現在左手也開始感到疼痛。我意識到我必須慢下來，以保護我僅剩的「好手」。

我正在製作一段關於我手術歷程的影片，但由於這段新的疼痛，我決定延後一下。我正在學習真正傾聽身體的聲音—我也想把同樣的訊息傳達給你。

歡迎大家去 Spotify, Apple Music 和 YouTube各大平台收聽，也歡迎在IG和抖音上拿來當背景音樂喔:)