10/16/2026
My dear, incredible community of Bend,
I am so very sorry for all that we are going through right now, most especially those directly affected. It is unfathomable. Please know it’s okay to feel however you’re feeling. Terrified, angry, unsafe, devastated, overwhelmed. It’s all valid.
In the days and months and years after this tragedy let us keep showing up for one another. Grant people space when they need it, but keep checking in. Grief is long term and we must hold onto each other along the way.
There are numerous ways to offer support today and in the future. Give your choosing of time, donations, advocacy, a listening ear, unlimited hugs, and fierce kindness. Even small gestures can have a huge impact. If you feel so inclined, join me in donating to Sandy Hook Promise, or any other organization you feel called to in light of this. It doesn’t offer an immediate fix, but every effort is impactful.
In honor of Silver Rail Elementary and every child who grows up in a world where school shootings are a reality, keep showing up. May we hold them close and diligently work to make the world a safer place for us all.
💚 Lauren
Sandy Hook Promise needs your support to prevent the next tragedy.