10/09/2026
Remembering Emily | Domestic Violence Awareness Part 3
When Emily was our studio photographer, we had a photoshoot planned at a beautiful rose garden. Just a few days earlier, Emily had filed for divorce and a restraining order from her abusive ex.
To spite her, he took the camper where Emily and her daughters were living. He took their clothes, bedding, Emilyโs jewelry inventory and metalsmithing tools, and her camera equipment. He left them with essentially the clothes on their backs. According to Emily, the sheriff told her that because the camper was still in both of their names, it was not technically considered stolen.
Emily no longer had a camera for our photoshoot. But she still showed up, borrowing a camera from a friend to make it happen.
At the time, we thought Emily was nearly out of her abuserโs grasp.
Tragically, the morning before their divorce was to be finalized, Emilyโs abuser attacked her in her home, killing Emily, her three-year-old daughter Piper, and her friend Cody Nevins. He was found about a half-mile away, dead from a self-inflicted gunshot wound.
Stunned and devastated by this senseless act, the Flathead County community rallied around Emily, Piper, Cody, and their surviving loved ones. GoFundMe accounts for Emily and Codyโs surviving children raised $90,000 seemingly overnight, followed by an Instagram auction that raised another $18,000. A meal train was organized for Emilyโs parents.
With the support of Montana Woman Magazine, I took up the torch of domestic violence awareness, working with them on an article to share Emilyโs story. Our performers also made a promise: we would choreograph the piece Emily had wanted to create but never got the chance to. An aerial act created to bring awareness to domestic violence.
Now, we are finally performing that piece at the Abbie Shelterโs 50th Anniversary Disco Fundraiser, celebrating an organization that has spent five decades supporting people affected by domestic violence in our community.
๐ชฉ Saturday, October 10
โฐ 6โ9 PM
๐ Wachholz College Center
Join us for delicious food, raffles, a disco dance party, and a performance in memory of Emily, Piper, and Cody.