30/07/2026
I have had several big promotions in my career.
I asked for none of them.
A promotion is rarely a decision made on a specific day. It is usually a conversation that has been happening for months, sometimes years, between two people who are working towards something together.
There is no defined date.
There is a direction, and there is a set of criteria that both people agree on and refine over time. Eventually, the promotion stops being a question of if and becomes a question of when.
Asking for a promotion is not wrong. The mistake is thinking that a promotion is a decision waiting to be triggered in one conversation.
Asking for one directly can put the person you need most in a difficult position. The timing may be wrong. The budget may not be there. The role may not exist yet. You are asking them to make a decision before the circumstances are ready.
So when people ask me how to convince their leader to promote them, I tell them to stop asking and start walking:
Make the circumstances ready.
Bring your leader into what you are building.
Let them help define the criteria.
Let them become part of the journey instead of being the person who decides whether you are ready.
Asking puts them in a corner, waiting for a yes when the timing may be wrong.
Walking puts them beside you until the timing is right.
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