18/09/2026
This stayed with me after Isabel tested Mum Shift.
Because “I’m managing” is often the measure we use.
The kids are where they need to be.
Work is getting done.
The house is functioning.
The logistics are somehow working.
So we assume: I’m okay. I can handle it.
But functioning tells us very little about what is left.
What happens when a child gets sick?
When work suddenly asks for more?
When the plan changes?
When you simply have a difficult day?
The question isn’t only:
“Am I managing?”
It’s also:
“How much capacity do I have left?”
That distinction is becoming one of the most important ideas behind Mum Shift.
Because a life can look like it’s working from the outside, while operating with almost no room for anything to change.
And that room matters.
We call it Margin.
What about you: when life changes unexpectedly, how much capacity do you actually have left?