09/23/2026
I have spent years performing... like a rodeo clown... without realizing I was performing.
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Performing competence, strength, productivity, success, worthiness! And feeling the cost of it without even realizing it.
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Performance is exhausting because it always needs an audience. WTF.
It needs recognition. Validation. Results. Approval. Evidence that what we're doing matters.
BUT... intention doesn't.
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Intention requires a completely different energy. One that asks:
What am I really here to create?
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I’ve been thinking about this a lot as I return from my spectacular burnout plot twist. I used to believe that if something mattered deeply enough, I needed to push harder to make it happen.
More effort. More visibility. More striving. More proving. More doing.
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Apparently, my strategy was: If it's not working... exhaust yourself more enthusiastically!
(Also known in some circles as spiritual bypassing – in this case, wearing Lululemon.)
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What I'm discovering is almost the opposite. When I'm clear about my intention, there is considerably less force. Decisions become easier. The unnecessary falls away. I stop chasing every opportunity and responding to every invitation. Competing with invisible people I completely invented in my own head. Or convincing people that my work matters.
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Now I ask one question: Does this serve what I'm here to create?
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👉Yes? Move.
👉No? Take a hike.
Maybe that’s one of the biggest shifts leadership needs right now.
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We’re living in the most connected, informed and technologically advanced workplace in history…...and somehow, we’re also the most exhausted.
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More tools. More notifications. More meetings. More pressure to prove we’re doing enough.
Research keeps telling us the same story: people have less energy, less focus, and less engagement than they’ve had in years. Maybe the answer isn’t becoming more productive. Maybe…it’s becoming more intentional.
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Performance consumes energy. Intention directs it.
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What are your thoughts on this?