09/21/2026
Throughout my career, I have noticed a pattern.
If you give me a new challenge, a complex problem, or an opportunity to create something better, my energy rises.
If you ask me to keep doing the same thing in the same way, I can do it, but it takes far more energy.
Looking back, this explains a great deal about how my career evolved.
I gravitated toward technology innovation, transformation, and leading change. I felt energized when I could solve a new problem, introduce a different approach, connect people and ideas, or build something that had not existed before.
It also explains why entrepreneurship fits me so well.
No two days are the same.
One day, I may be coaching a leader through a breakthrough. The next, I am designing a Leadership Lab, facilitating a workshop, speaking, or developing a new collaboration.
For a long time, I thought this was simply my preference for variety.
My Fascinate® profile gave me clarity:
Trust is my Dormant Advantage.
When you hear “Trust,” you may think about being trusted by others or building credibility. That was my first thought too.
Within the Fascinate® System, Trust is the language of Stability, expressed through consistency, dependability, familiar patterns, and proven methods.
Having Trust as a Dormant Advantage does not mean I am untrustworthy or unreliable.
It means that, among the seven Fascinate® Advantages, Trust is the communication language I use least naturally.
I can create structure, honour my commitments, and follow through. However, relying on familiar patterns for too long drains my energy, especially when I can see an opportunity to improve or reimagine them.
This insight helped me understand my journey differently:
I can create stability when it serves the goal. Constant sameness is not where I thrive.
I am most energized when I lean in with my Primary Advantage: Passion and Secondary Advantage: Innovation.
Both were shared in my previous posts.
That is the value of self-discovery. It does not put us into a box. It gives us language to recognize what energizes us, what consumes our energy, and how we can lead with our unique value that others experience at our best.
What kind of work can you do well, yet still find surprisingly draining?
If you want to understand how others experience you at your best and use that insight to lead with confidence, own your impact, understand others, join Hilda Gan and me at the Distinctly You Leadership Lab™ for women leaders on October 15, 2026.
https://www.eventbrite.ca/e/distinctly-you-leadership-lab-registration-1984253973048?aff=oddtdtcreator