Joy Nwokoro

09/22/2026

I think sometimes couples forget that the children are watching too.

They may not understand every disagreement between you and your spouse, but they are learning something from what they see.

They observe how we interact with each other when we are upset, and they also see how we resolve disagreements.

They see the affection. They also see the disrespect.

And somehow, some of what they see becomes their idea of what marriage looks like.

Perhaps the question isn't only "How is our marriage faring?" but also... "What lessons is our marriage imparting to the children observing us?"

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09/21/2026

I WAS THINKING...4 THINGS THAT CAN HAPPEN WHEN YOU DATE MAINLY FOR THE LOOKS

1. You soon discover that looks alone are not enough to sustain a relationship.

2. Attraction may get you interested, but it rarely tells you whether you are compatible for building a future together.

3. Strong attraction can make you overlook incompatibility you would normally notice.

4. You can end up with someone you enjoy looking at but struggle to do life with.

Attraction is a door. Where the door leads matters more than the door.

Which of these have you personally seen happen? 1, 2, 3 or 4? 🤔

09/18/2026

Some people want love, but struggle with what love asks of them.

What do you think they are really afraid of?

09/17/2026

09/16/2026

University students are back in Winnipeg for a new year, and you know what that means... campus love is in the air! 😉

Tomorrow on The Relationship Lab, we are diving into the big question:

TO DATE OR NOT TO DATE?

Should dating even be on the radar?

Tune in at 11 AM on CKUW 95.9 FM to join the chat! 😁

09/14/2026

I believe that sometimes we unknowingly build all our happiness around the person we hope to become when we get married.

But what about the person you are now?

Your life has already started, you know 🤔

09/12/2026

The problem may be real, but how did you bring it up?

Sometimes the issue you are raising with your spouse is actually valid. But when it comes out as an accusation, your spouse may become so busy defending themselves that the real issue gets lost.

Hmm....So sometimes changing how we start the conversation changes the conversation itself.

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09/11/2026

What are you doing while you are waiting? I shared 3 things in this video that I think are worth paying attention to.

I am curious… which one would you add to the list?😊

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