09/22/2026
What if the next time you caught yourself thinking, “Why am I like this?” you changed the question?
Try:
💭 What am I feeling right now?
💭 What might have triggered this?
💭 What am I trying to protect myself from?
💭 What do I actually need?
Self-criticism shuts the conversation down. Curiosity opens it up.
You don’t have to judge yourself into becoming a better version of you. You can understand yourself there.