15/09/2026
When I’m on calls with people & they start saying “8 weeks” I straight away set their expectations in line with reality
& lot of the time I see looks of disappointment when I tell them to drop that expectation
They can’t seem to see themselves sticking to it past 8 weeks. Or just feel so overwhelmed with the thought of having do it for a year😕
& I’m not saying that you won’t see a difference before the year mark because you will…
But most of the time, their aspiring body goals are of women who have been training & eating right for years & have perfected their craft
Because it’s not just about fat loss.
It’s about building muscle to speed up your metabolism so you can keep your results
Building muscle so you can eat more & not always have to be restricted all the time
Building muscle adds shape, definition & “tones” the body
Building muscle takes time! It takes time to learn how to strength train PROPERLY & build up your weights
It takes time to sort out your diet, to learn about nutrition & then cement those habits into your lifestyle
Loosing body fat really fast isn’t always a good thing. Because when it’s fast & unsustainable, it’s very likely that you’ll put the weight back on (especially when you haven’t taken the time to build muscle)
A year might feel like a long time when you’re at the start line… but I don’t make the girls hyper focus on the time line.
Or even the outcome.
I get them to focus on daily improvements. I focus on helping them build one healthier habit at a time. I focus on helping them learn how to actually enjoy training & learning about nutrition. I get them to stop doing extreme unsustainable things & take the pressure off themselves.
Instead we focus on progression, not perfection. On consistency that they can maintain and stick too.
before they know it, they’re seeing improvements. Their body starts to change. They actually feel good. They actually feel healthy, strong & capable for the first time in years. They no longer care about the time
Before they know it, we’re doing their yearly transformation photos & they don’t even recognize themselves. They only wished they had this approach sooner🙅🏼♀️